Ive just read your blog. I can understand, that you are deeply disturbed by your situation and I can only guess that you may be of a different nationality/religion? To your so called "Husband" So Im going to ask you a few questions. Hopefully a few of us can answer or put the pieces together to help you get to the bottom of this.
First of all you said that you had the "Islamic wedding?". I need to ask you did you have a Mullah/ Molvi present (the islamic priest?) when the islamic marriage/vows were read?
Who actually performed the so called Islamic marriage?
Secondly did you have any witnesses present ie any of your friends and his at the time of this so call islamic marriage?
Thirdly do you have a marriage certificate? that was given to you as one copy, one copy given to him and one copy that the mullah would keep as an offical marriage document?
If you havent got any of the above then it may well be the case that you were not married in the Isalmic way at all and this was a ploy to make you think he was marrying you as his wife to get you to sleep with him. It may well be a "Muta" marriage- a marriage of convenience these are temporary marriages. You need to check this out with a legitimate Mullah- Islamic Cleric in your local Mosque.
I have a horrid feeling you were duped into a false pretence marriage. Lets be honest, he hasnt given you his home details, you only have a a PO No which is bad news, no one answers his calls... have you met his family members?
The only good news is if you havent had any of the above then I suspect that you are not married at all. However, if you have got all the above then in order for you to have a divorce you must go to your local Mosque and tell them the situation they will arrange for a "khulla" a divorce that is requested by the female. Your situation sounds very familar to someone I have heard of in the Uk. She got her divorce and heard nothing from the guy after it was sanctioned. Let me know if this is the case.
Hi Ustache
Ive just read your blog. I can understand, that you are deeply disturbed by your situation and I can only guess that you may be of a different nationality/religion? To your so called "Husband" So Im going to ask you a few questions. Hopefully a few of us can answer or put the pieces together to help you get to the bottom of this.
First of all you said that you had the "Islamic wedding?". I need to ask you did you have a Mullah/ Molvi present (the islamic priest?) when the islamic marriage/vows were read?
Who actually performed the so called Islamic marriage?
Secondly did you have any witnesses present ie any of your friends and his at the time of this so call islamic marriage?
Thirdly do you have a marriage certificate? that was given to you as one copy, one copy given to him and one copy that the mullah would keep as an offical marriage document?
If you havent got any of the above then it may well be the case that you were not married in the Isalmic way at all and this was a ploy to make you think he was marrying you as his wife to get you to sleep with him. It may well be a "Muta" marriage- a marriage of convenience these are temporary marriages. You need to check this out with a legitimate Mullah- Islamic Cleric in your local Mosque.
I have a horrid feeling you were duped into a false pretence marriage. Lets be honest, he hasnt given you his home details, you only have a a PO No which is bad news, no one answers his calls... have you met his family members?
The only good news is if you havent had any of the above then I suspect that you are not married at all. However, if you have got all the above then in order for you to have a divorce you must go to your local Mosque and tell them the situation they will arrange for a "khulla" a divorce that is requested by the female. Your situation sounds very familar to someone I have heard of in the Uk. She got her divorce and heard nothing from the guy after it was sanctioned. Let me know if this is the case.
I hope that this info has helped.