I really won't force her to come and chain her to the wall.

She is looking at this forum now, she asked me address again last night;

Hello Babe

As I said, if all goes well Mrs JBH and the kids will be coning for a visit during the summer, hopefully for a month so they will be able to make informed decisions for themselves.

Maybe some of you can take us to one of the recommended eating houses.

Mrs JBH reads this also and agrees with me that some of the most negative experiences and the positives, can depend upon the individuals circumstances.

We will encourage her to take the plunge and find out.

The money will be there if there is a need to bail out and there will be plenty of support at home also.

I will keep you posted.

Many thanks to one and all.