Why is everyone so offended by your name and choice of topic? I wonder.

I would tell this woman to pull herself together and deal with the fact that it is absolutely normal to feel a strong attraction for a man other than the one you are married to. It is naive and silly to think that attraction is "falling in love" and she should stop making a big deal out of it. So what, it means nothing for as long as she doesn't do anything stupid and stays faithful to her husband.