now you have opened up a floodgate. they happen all the time unfortunatly - i use to work in pubs and clubs i know what goes on but hey thats the west - and to be honest im trying to think of how many people i know who havent carried on some kind of affair in life and i can count on one hand.

the lady in this situation is wondering what if.... easy to do and so easy to get carried away with - it sounds like she is fantasizing things in her head which she isnt getting in her marriage. But then i always say - you cant expect another person to make you happy and complete until you are happy and complete with who you are alone, she is expecting other people to make her happy! thats where she has gone wrong. be happy with yourself and then be happy with your lifelong partner