To answer a few questions;

Daughter is 16.

She hasn't taken her GCSEs yet, they are in the summer, but she is taking her mock exams from this week on.

The plan is for me to move out about the begining of June, with Mrs.JBH and daughter 16 and boy 9 coming for a long visit during the summer holidays.

Then hopefully a full move over next year.

I don't know how long the job will be for as the company is just kicking off properly, but it could / should be a long run.

The points about living a bit more before joining the police are the same as mine and I hope the move will persuade her to hang on for a while.

Has anyone made the move with a daughter of a similar age?

I would love to hear your experiences.

Cheers