we are still finalizing, but it looks were calling off delivery here in qatar. atleast we still have an options because they are still in our home country. Maybe it would be more safer to have doctor with known good track records, same with hospital facility, staff, stats and everything.I believe the risk factor would always be around but it can be minimize at a certain level.
anyway, the negative of it would be --- it would take more months that were far from each other, but it would be bearable, thinking that we opted for a lower risk.
Their family visa can still be reapply for processing.

thanks everyone, were so happy to have all these inputs.

more power to QL