Sis,

No self respecting man would share you or stand idly by you playing the field;if he really cared. Be careful, I always caution women it may not be you but your passport that's attractive. Any muslim man willing to date, stay far away from! Or at least when it crashes and it will don't judge Islam by the muslims , Judges the muslims by Islam. Those women who do convert and marry usually divorce but stay in Islam. Truly our way of life is beautiful when practiced. Take it from a convert.

Also let it be lnown muslim men can only marry christian women and or jews who have been unchaste after they convert to Islam not before.

Repentance in Islam requires one recognse Allah according to Islam not God with an undefined universal theme.

Gaurd yourself