I had this same conversation with an African American female. Please insert white women in every place that people put filippina and place African American male of course old, balding and fat or pro athlete in the place of white men.

Some of them think that the only reason African American males marry white women are you guys are submissive, dependent, and always want to please your men. I guess they haven't been reading QL.

PM your posts towards Apple have been disrepectful. You can voice your opinion without being personal. Even when you "corrected" her the first time, she still showed you respect in her next post. I have met many scholars who have debated issues of greater importance than love packages however the thing is they always respected the other person. As a Muslim we should as a practice give everyone a level of respect regardless of their position, how they speak to us, how they dress, or what their religion is, or how they practice it.

Somethings are best kept in the dark. I would rather talk to the person who is cheating myself in hopes that they corrected their actions though. PM you are from the South so maybe you can attest to this also. I know many a girl my family told me I could not date or marry. I never understood it until I got a little older. Many southern gentlemen chose to have more than one family or a mistress on the otherside of town or in the next county. A lot of the wives knew about it but didn't care as long as it was not in their face. I still feel this is true today.

I have seen even financially independent, strong willed women chose to stay with their partner even when they have been caught cheating or continue to do so. ESL I would say the wives or husbands( because women cheat also)may already know but choose to ignore the indiscretions.

Act your age not your shoe size