OK I am going to throw my two cents in. Men and women can be friends. Its been proven when either one of them is homosexual or when one is totally not interested in the other one. Otherwise it leads to complications or friends with benefits situations. These type of relationships are like playing house when you were little, somebody usually gets tired and goes home ending the game.
A lot of people try too pretend like thats no problem but all the TVs show is the glitz and the glamour. They never show the hurt or pain or the baggage that a lot of people carry from these relationships. We can rationalize a lot of things as human beings but honestly things rarely work the way we rationalize them. We think we know more and are smarter than the people who came before us especially now days with the advances in medicine and technology. In actuality we are not because they would never get into some of the crazy situations we get into.
If a man flirts and plays with a lot of women he is seen as a player if a woman does the same she is seen as a whre. Do we change the viewpoint of society to allow women to do the same? Or do we just say this is wrong and try to change the man to limit the effects on society. We get shocked at the news about sexual predators or rapes but who are these men and now in some countries women. This will not totally stop these things but why take a crackhead(cocaine addict) to a crackhouse and tell him not to smoke crack cocaine. Who was that crackhead before? A person who tried it just for fun the first time and rationalized like many of us, it won't affect me I can stop when I want.
OK I am going to throw my two cents in. Men and women can be friends. Its been proven when either one of them is homosexual or when one is totally not interested in the other one. Otherwise it leads to complications or friends with benefits situations. These type of relationships are like playing house when you were little, somebody usually gets tired and goes home ending the game.
A lot of people try too pretend like thats no problem but all the TVs show is the glitz and the glamour. They never show the hurt or pain or the baggage that a lot of people carry from these relationships. We can rationalize a lot of things as human beings but honestly things rarely work the way we rationalize them. We think we know more and are smarter than the people who came before us especially now days with the advances in medicine and technology. In actuality we are not because they would never get into some of the crazy situations we get into.
If a man flirts and plays with a lot of women he is seen as a player if a woman does the same she is seen as a whre. Do we change the viewpoint of society to allow women to do the same? Or do we just say this is wrong and try to change the man to limit the effects on society. We get shocked at the news about sexual predators or rapes but who are these men and now in some countries women. This will not totally stop these things but why take a crackhead(cocaine addict) to a crackhouse and tell him not to smoke crack cocaine. Who was that crackhead before? A person who tried it just for fun the first time and rationalized like many of us, it won't affect me I can stop when I want.
Strong scenario but I hope you get the picture.