I think it was a bit miss interpretive the point of the post all I wanted to do is give information is each person's choice what they want to do. In my case I am a full time mom I will not live my kid with anyone, but that is just me. What I hate is when people try to abuse me I don't mind paying good salaries, for a good service no matter what this service is.

As far as Qatari's been abusive I agree there are some cases, but only some. I know Qatari's families witch maid are sent to school give extra money for different occasions, are taken to shopping, etc. In the same way there are cases of nannies abusing kids, there was last month in the news paper the case of a maid poisoning the water and all the family members die. There are always two sides of the coin. Again all I wanted is to let people be aware of cost is each one choice to give more. .