Laudgi7, may I suggest that you and your a-hole friends keep the terms such as "slut" for friendly use between yourselves (you all probably graduated from a very "reputed" university).

In case you never knew that - words such as a-hole and slut may indeed be used among friends. And you are not her friend.

Would you like it if I called you an a-hole? Not that I care whether you'd like it or not (not now at any rate), but that will give you a taste of your own medicine.