Afro, did the thought that the girl may be both single and NOT interested (or not interested in this particular case) ever cross your mind? See, Steve here thinks if the girl is singe and not jumping on him at the first opportunity then she is either homosexual or immature/prepubescent. Don't make the same mistake. Deep down, nobody likes a pushover and girls like the guys to make an effort, just like you guys do. As DG has said previously, don't spook the girl by offering her a ride, and generally don't put her in an uncomfortable situation. If you offer a girl a drink, she might accept it or she might not, in any case just smile and don't make a scene. If at first you don't succeed.... well you know the rest :^)