It´s fun to get to know the guy before things really heat up, so desire keeps you on your toes.

"Whether you wait a week, month, two months eventually you are going to have it and then what? My point being that witholding it to sustain the relationship's spice is futile as for the relationship to last another level must be involeved anyway"

Yes but hopefully by the time you´ve jump into bed, you already care for the guy. It´s not like jumping into bed with someone you don´t give a damn about. After that, it´s up to the couple to spice things up.

Yes there are plenty of normal lads in Doha. The married ones. The single ones are weirdos.