Flirting a girl in Qatar
I am an asian guy and in a good profession, when it comes to flirrting i havenot tried in qatar though I have big experience in home country,
Yesterday I have been to a shopping mall and came across an arab speaking girl (sure she is not qatari), she was with her family for shopping, when i saw her, she started smiling waving , wiking and all other shits to attract me, I am little nervous type to flirt thinking law and the consequences,
however, I couldnot control me yesterday and started giving reaction to her, and felt she is following me and crossing, may be she need my phone no, but unfortunately I was not brave enought to talk to her, then she left the shopping mall with her sis , and mother and I started following her,
I know its a biggest mistake and if they call police, i will be deported loosing a good life for nothing,
then they went to antoher shopping mall and I too went inside, this she noted that i followed her and I didnot nothing to her, she went straight and come to me with her brothers, he was looked like an arab but couldnot guess which country he is from,
he started shouting me why I folllowed his sister, and scolding me in filth, I tried to convince him that I came for purchasing and living near by though its not true, but he has noted my car.
untill now inside my heart says its all the mistake of the girl or she is doing this as a part time job to kill the life of guys.
after several mins, he wanted to call police, but some how i managed to get his forgiveness, yes I did mistake intentionally and she was the reason for that..
But I donot know why these girl are doing like this, attract a guy and destroying their prestige...
I was totally screwedup and was feeling like shit.,
when I leaving the shopping mall, the guys in cashier told me, this is not the first time this girl doing this, there were 5 cases of the same girl at the same shopping center and she used to laught and smile to most guys..,, they appoligised to me for what happend.,,
then its gave some cure for my hear thinking she might be psycho..
you horn ball
It is human nature , but you have to be wary.. I recall a couple of years ago , Rizks and I went to the Ramada car park together. He had his new multi coloured lungi on , worn low to the waist .. He got "flirtatious" looks and gestures from many a female ..
I was jealous :O(
@Happy Shah, that is why islam has defined boundaries for men and women, if they go beyond , then wrong things can happen on the earth, donot just talk pulling my family inside, yes definitely if my sister is flirted and she was the reason for it, i will let her suffer,
its common sense for human to respect another human, I have done nothing than just followed her
I did a mistake and I learnt a lesson, its all related to feelings and emotions, some things can be controlled and some feelings that popup from the bottom of heart may not be able to control..
But i will never say the girl was correct, she was the entire reason for everything, she acted like she need something.., anyway if its my sister do like this, i will never bother and let her bare the consequence if she was the reason...
@Mufti Shahid, you are correct, those people who says, use brain, and talk about ethnicity, yes i am not arab but am muslim, my history says my ethnicity derived from saudi arabia too, btw, no need discrimination as arab, asian.
infront of allah, all are equal
Some people get personal. Why do we have to get sisters and brothers in the argument. And don't tell me that girls don't flirt here.
ak: It might be the norm in your country, but surely you should have known the possible consequences here - especially in a public place and girl of arabic ethnicity
Secondly, just because she has full makeup on , doesn't mean she's looking for a partner or in the need for harrassment
@Happy Shah, flirting is not raping, and most female do it here and any country, what most women those come out with full of make up, need is attraction, donot give rude comments,
Well you should have applied your brains. She was with her family and it was wrong on your part to pursue her regardless of her gestures.
Perhaps she has something in her eye .. There is miscommunication .. A lion never makes gestures to an elephant
You learned a valuable lesson - Be very careful next time..
She may have encouraged you, but you should have had the brains to know the society you are in and the possible consequences of your actions
so you basically stalked her?. You are lucky you didn't end up in jail and deported. Keep it in your pants next time