School file mistake
Hi all, I hope I can find a reasonable answer here , as the school where my daughter goes , doesn't seem willing to cooperate.
My daugther was enrolled at school in 2012 , her father and I personally went . Then we divorced in January 2013 (Thank God) , I went back to Italy for two months and then got back here towards the end of March 2013 and got myself a job and my own visa.
In these two and a half years I never got notice from the school regarding parent-teacher meeting, i contacted them many times but never received an answer.
Yesterday after being ignored , I finally obtained an appointment with my daughter's teacher .
Turned out, his new wife is listed on her school registration file as MOTHER .
I asked an explanation to this and I was answered that anyone can go and say is the mother .
I said I was registered as a mother so I want to know what powerful force made them change her admission file , to include a stranger as ''mother''.
That she is in the file, is ok to me, BUT as contact, not as a mother .
If i think that he stated I am dead or not here and had her put in the file as a mother , and the school agreed, isn't it falsification of a public record ?
Did he just go and say hey I married again put this woman as mother and the school agreed to it ?
The school had the courage to ask me for proof , I said they have my documents on record since it was I who went to register her for the first time , so it's them who have to correct the mistake IF it was a mistake.
Anyhow atleast two good souls listened to their inner voices & accepted to mend their ways ............ we achieved 40% target today ....... 40% people are more wiser today than they were yesterday ..........
Those who are against Claudia should dare to post one comment & show your true ID ........... Stop finding fun from the innocents' sufferings ........ kick this habit today ........... we forgive you ....... just come forward ............ correct your mistakes ......... be wiser than yesterday ........
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For goodness sake MM... How many more single posts on one topic :O(
Brit, Institutes are least concerned with the humanity & truth and fairness ...... their cash drawers are open .... for the parents to come & drop the cash ................
I am not opposing your point / move , you are perfectly right ........ but going further than your explaination ............ school management won't act like a court to ask for certificates / endorsements etc for changes in your own status ....... they are not affected by these changes ........ But yes , it affects you that's why you raised the concern ...... Suppose we call to the court ...... their clerk will come with a file showing both the docs to the judge ..... ..... that's all ...... clerk will tell it was the father who wanted it to be changed ......... so school won't object to that .............. father may bring a new paper / new name every three months ......... then what ?
Claudia, Keep your energy stored for the future my sister ......... one way it's in your favour that he has tried to change a document & was caught so quickly ......... Your daughter 's heart & mind has your name written on it , that's most precious for you ........ so just leave it for say 3 - 5 years ...... you will see a turn in situation .......... stay stable & strong .........
Obviously your husband tried to pull a fast one. The good thing is that you found out and rectified the matter
This world won't support the truth because of the money , status , courts & judges ............ but falsehood can n't pass the test of time ............ the circumstances would definitely question the mistake makers ....... their inner voice would not let them sleep even for a moment ................ they get punished with every breath for doing grave injustice with their own closest relationships .... .......
Both my kids stay with him but this is not the point ....... I am the mother unless he can prove otherwise ! Plus, we enrolled her together and so I don't understand how he made me disappear from the file and the school agreed with it . I am ok with her on the file BUT as a contact not as ''mother'' because she is listed as mother !! Are we kidding ????
Claudia, Just for more info before I answer I wish to ask ....... Is your daughter staying with you now or the father ? ...........