Woman accused of raping man

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A woman was today ordered to stand trial in Australia, accused of breaking into a man’s home and raping him.
Rebecca Helen Elder, 39, pleaded not guilty to one count of aggravated serious criminal trespass at the man’s home, and one count of rape.
She appeared in Adelaide’s District Court this morning.
Prosecution documents, filed with the court, allege both offences took place at a suburban location between September 20 and September 23 last year.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2118300/Rebecca-Helen-Elder-accu...

By 2020 Olympics• 1 Apr 2012 15:02
2020 Olympics

fluffy--hard to see how a woman can rape a man in the manner described in the story. Perhaps you can explain it.

By fluffy123• 1 Apr 2012 11:18
fluffy123

It is shame that people are joking about this matter. This whole thing about it is impossible for a man to be raped is ridiculous. Men being sexual abused or raped happens more than they think but they don't come out about it because people like you do not take it seriously and make light of the situation.

would you say if the guy was good looking then the woman wasn't raped or that she should have enjoyed it?

sick people you are.

By 2020 Olympics• 1 Apr 2012 10:05
2020 Olympics

Doha-Chap--but surely it would depend on what she looked like?

By anonymous• 26 Mar 2012 12:15
anonymous

Who’s doing who and what’s penetrating where? )-: this definitely getting scary!

Cries mummy!

By anonymous• 26 Mar 2012 12:13
anonymous

Personally wouldn’t have a problem with it lol might as well leave my door open for easier access next time (can’t afford changing door locks every night! they are expensive ya know!) LOL well unless she was ugly, then Yes! I’ll press charges! Drag her kicking and screaming to court!

By anonymous• 26 Mar 2012 12:08
anonymous

wooooooh... adult talks..

By Colt45• 26 Mar 2012 12:02
Colt45

All this talk about penetration and head is making me randy :-(

By Rizks• 26 Mar 2012 11:55
Rizks

Ooops flor padre, you surely getting to adult talking here !

Now where is my Rayban Aviator goggles ? :)

By flor1212• 26 Mar 2012 11:09
flor1212

there must be a penetration (and assuming there was). on the other lips? Lol!

And penetration is always the pointed object ENTERING the hole, not the other way around? (Are we getting too adult-talking here?) Lol!

By anonymous• 26 Mar 2012 10:48
anonymous

Maybe he sue the woman for not doing it again... LoL

By Highlander88• 26 Mar 2012 09:05
Highlander88

....is defined as forced or nonconsensual sexual intercourse. Rape may be accomplished by fear, threats of harm, and/or actual physical force. Rape may also include situations in which penetration is accomplished when the victim is unable to give consent, or is prevented from resisting, due to being intoxicated, drugged, unconscious, or asleep.... (quoted from HG.Org)

For the benefit of everyone... hope it helps to clear doubts. :o)

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 21:39
anonymous

nomerci, It was a question to anyone who would actually tell me the standard legal definition of a rape by a women on a man.

I understand you consider a forced fallatio as rape but then it may not be the legal definition.

By Missteacher• 25 Mar 2012 21:29
Missteacher

lol @polkadots I was actually thinking this about how it was possible if the man is not 'willing'...like how can it physically happen???

like I said ....its a strange one

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 21:22
anonymous

But Nomerci The male of this species is wired such , that it is nearly impossible to give a BJ without consent, You see, I would believe even a centenarian is a willing subject if offered for free:-)!

… I am still clueless as to what makes resorting to cajoling or raping , for that matter, a necessity????

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 21:03
flor1212

I commented "unbelievable".

By nomerci• 25 Mar 2012 21:02
nomerci

DK, you mean me? Yes,I would class a forced BJ as rape.

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 21:00
flor1212

which I commented as "unbelievable".

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 20:59
anonymous

So, what I get from your reply is that it wasn't a rape as per the standard legal definition?

I do not have any idea on this..so wanna confirm.

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 20:58
flor1212

but rape, maybe they have a different interpretation for the other way around (I mean woman doing it against a male victim).

By nomerci• 25 Mar 2012 20:57
nomerci

Maybe she forced a BJ on him.

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 20:54
anonymous

Exactly my point!

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 20:50
anonymous

Well, I don't understand the jargons...in this case, it wasn't an intercourse...as mentioned. So, in the technical sense, by definition, was it rape at all?

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 20:48
flor1212

naked? Lol!

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 20:48
flor1212

will it be safe to presume that with or without erection, as long as the act was done, it will be considered rape? Lol!

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 20:43
anonymous

Doha kinght, Are you saying that it is possible for an unerrected penis to defy the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles and penetrate enough to be termed as rape, in an ordinary vaginal intercourse,...LOL, you take the cake , the icing and all the paraphernalia!

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 20:21
anonymous

polkadots, can you enlighten us on the technical definition of a rape carried out by a female on a male?

Is it something like..it shall be called a rape only if the guy has an erection?

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 19:46
anonymous

I think it's technically difficult to rape a man 90% of the times.

[1]Men enjoy or rather are a willing partner in a free ride so there is no rape it becomes consensual.

[2] How can one get a willing willy with out daddy knowing about it![Daddy's on viagra mixed with with his morning milk,....and too weak to protest the ride?]

The rest 10% of the times, if the man protest TOO much that he is practically running home, then YES the lady should be procecuted!What a cradle snatcher!

By damselindistress• 25 Mar 2012 19:25
damselindistress

Poor man! :( All he could say is.. please......., dont!.... stop!... please, dont stop!...... :( :P

oh well, i hope justice will be serve, (if she's proven guilty!)

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 18:18
flor1212

and he just froze while she's doing it! Lucky guy! Lol!

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 18:05
anonymous

maybe the woman is bigger than the man.. haha

By Missteacher• 25 Mar 2012 16:42
Missteacher

There are big Women out there @damselindistress and small men!

By britexpat• 25 Mar 2012 16:38
britexpat

Probably had a few too many :o(

By damselindistress• 25 Mar 2012 15:10
damselindistress

they may be ex lovers....

I am just really curious how did she manage to rape him....

By anonymous• 25 Mar 2012 13:12
anonymous

If there are women who wants to rape man.. I think there will be a lot of man that will volunteer to be rape.. LOL!

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 11:15
flor1212

in the headline! Lol!

By Captain_Lost• 25 Mar 2012 11:12
Captain_Lost

Well.. if was a reporter or a journalist..

I'd report this news as:

A guy in Australia got a bj in his sleep.. but was not too happy with it, so he sued the poor girl next morning"

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 10:51
flor1212

having a nice dream and wake-up in a nightmare? Well, he is one lucky guy! Lol!

By Miss Mimi• 25 Mar 2012 10:47
Miss Mimi

My guess is he was asleep and woke up and found her there.

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 10:42
flor1212

You are just echoing my queries? I did not say, impossible, I said, unbelievable.

First charge is believable. Second charge, what, how helpless the guy to be given such oral joB?

By Miss Mimi• 25 Mar 2012 10:34
Miss Mimi

Flor if the story was about a man breaking into a woman's house and raping her, would you ask those questions?

I'm not sure if the rules in Australia are the same as in Canada, but in cases like this (involving sexual assault) details aren't allowed to be released in the papers to avoid corrupting a potential jury. So you might be waiting a looonnnggg time to get details.

By flor1212• 25 Mar 2012 10:29
flor1212

(the second charge). Was the man under threat? Was the man overpowered by the lady? Was he restrained and the lady just do what she did?

By Miss Mimi• 25 Mar 2012 10:21
Miss Mimi

Reactions like some of these are why men are so reluctant to come forward to report sexual harassment and abuse.

By .sun26872• 25 Mar 2012 09:48
.sun26872

I hope the day won't come when a man will accuse his rich neighbor's bitch (she dog)of sexual harrassment by indescent exposure on his premises.....common sense is becoming more & more uncommon.

By flor1212• 24 Mar 2012 20:06
flor1212

still in doubt?

By nomerci• 24 Mar 2012 17:59
nomerci

Very

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 17:02
anonymous

It's all about the attitude nomerci.

Role playing is not an act, but a lifestyle

how creepy do I sound now?

By nomerci• 24 Mar 2012 16:59
nomerci

Peter, but then it is not rape anymore, non?

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 16:56
anonymous

Rape is bad unless if it is mutually agreed on by both engaging parties ( Rapist and Raped )

By britexpat• 24 Mar 2012 16:53
britexpat

There have been many such cases .. Rape is rape whatever the gender..

By Highlander88• 24 Mar 2012 16:35
Highlander88

its done for revenge!!! Who knows... A Woman wanted to rape a Man just to get even. She being a carrier of a dreaded and contagious disease... Does any Man out there still wanted to get raped? :-D

By FathimaH• 24 Mar 2012 16:28
FathimaH

But of course it's possible. And I hope the woman if proven guilty gets the same sentence as any male rapist would as the crime is just as heinous.

By Romy• 24 Mar 2012 14:52
Romy

I can't bear this anymore. I have to report to the police this repititous incident. I've spent a lot of money changing the door lock of my room everytime she force her way in.

By vodka1305• 24 Mar 2012 14:39
vodka1305

i so believe its true

i swear women from south australia and especially adelaide

r sick in the head

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 14:28
anonymous

im sure i wasnt dreaming, I can still feel it,,,,,, what the!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help Im being raped again!!! she's doing it again call the police!!

By flor1212• 24 Mar 2012 14:17
flor1212

1, Very pretty woman

2. Horror

3. haunts

4. every night.

Now tell me, DREAMER, are you that sound-sleeper?

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 14:11
anonymous

Head jobs will still fall under the first bullet point. Second one is more like inserting foreign objects into the man's glory hole, which I would not welcome at all.

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 14:11
anonymous

the oral job thing, it reminds me when i wss sleeping and a very pretty women broke in my house and tied me when I was asleep. and start doing that,, What a horror!! every night the memory of it, it haunts me,,

By asterix---• 24 Mar 2012 14:06
asterix---

PG, Most Men would!!!

What's the Harm in Oral Job... ;)

By flor1212• 24 Mar 2012 14:04
flor1212

that's why I doubt this second charge will progress. Of course, we don't know the whole story.

Maybe the guy was to be robbed, tied to the bed and was given an oral job by the intruder? Well, I hope they reveal some more details!

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 13:55
anonymous

when we say a woman raped a man. Is it

1- Forcing him to do her?

2- Doing him using certain objects?

First type or rape should not be a big deal if the woman looks good. At least to me, I would not cry about it.

Second type, I would have a problem with that one. Flor might not and few men might not but I would.

By flor1212• 24 Mar 2012 13:51
flor1212

and file a suit, maybe you'll get a good compromise? Lol!

By anonymous• 24 Mar 2012 13:48
anonymous

Im a a victim too, because of my Beautiful body and 'Twilight' face many girls is harassing me, All i do is run away while they chasing me, It's a curse I will carry till the end

By Missteacher• 24 Mar 2012 13:41
Missteacher

it sounds weird but yes it can happen

By asterix---• 24 Mar 2012 13:38
asterix---

Anything can Happen..

After all we all are humans!!!

By j_helms05• 24 Mar 2012 12:02
j_helms05

hmmm... this is something new... but not impossible..

By flor1212• 24 Mar 2012 11:45
Rating: 2/5
flor1212

but the second one, I doubt it very much. Of course no details was given. Unbeleivable!

By Molten Metal• 24 Mar 2012 11:37
Molten Metal

she can't getaway with that.

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