What to do when HE won’t spend a dime on you?
http://blog.hotornot.com/dating-advice-what-to-do-when-he-won%e2%80%99t-...
Dear Susie,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and as time goes on I’m finding myself more frustrated than ever. At the beginning of our relationship he didn’t have a steady job and I’d often be the one to pay for our nights out on the town. Although my bank account was diminishing, I still felt satisfied- he treated me well and showered me with an abundance of very thoughtful (and cost-effective) “gifts”. He’s been working for a solid year and I haven’t seen much improvement. I’m still the breadwinner and his thoughtfulness is pretty well nonexistent. I can’t help but feel resentful- he seems to always find the money to buy himself expensive things but can never afford my movie ticket. I feel kind of selfish but I’m a full time college student and cannot afford to keep doing this. Please help!
On-her-last-straw- Stephanie
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Susie gave Stephanie the advise(check the link) but if you were Stephanie, what would you do?
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stephanie is indeed blind and desperate just to have a boyfriend...Is she ugly and very old??..slap her face susie, there's a lot of guys out there willing to spend money for their girl.
TAKE HIM TO THE DOCTOR AND SEE IF HE'S IMPOTENT OR NOT
kicks his balls ... ask him if he feels the pain ... then tell u too feel the pain like what does to u ! :D
It's fine to give, but to ALWAYS give??? Noooooooooo waayyyyyyyyy ;p
My advice is to stop spending time and dimes on him. Spend them on me instead, and I will match you dime for dime. : )
Its best u end this relationship while u still can, Im not saying it coz of the lack of gifts but men who accept and never give will always remain that way, They adopt a very dependent attitude , thereon theres no turning back,, they continue to be the same after marriage as well, u can neva change em. Ur lucky u still have time, so just quit and look around for more deserving ppl, remember love is a two way thing, u deserve to be treated well too.
I can vouch that...
break up with him!
Are you refering to MR. Paul???????????????
Of course you were. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
You two gals have a lot in common!..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
Glad to see you finally learnt your lesson!
I felt a little bit bad about insulting him at the time.
But later on thought i was vindicated.
LOL!!! No this was the one I used to be engaged to back when I was 17.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Well you know my thoughts on that matter!
Ahhh maybe that was the one i insulted once at the Irish.... ha ha good for me
He was from England Oryx ;)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Find somebody else who can.. atleast to be man enough to stand as a provider not a parasite... ;)
temper is something u cant get rid of... by loosing it...
eh did we have the same ex-bf? ;)
cos it fits the description of mine aswell.... LOL
I'd like to think I've finally reached enlightenment and I won't need anymore experience in that department UK. :)
Seriously though, I do like buying presents for my boy, but I like getting them back to. :D
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
and how i miss azi thread ? :P
Where do u find these kinda ones guy??? :/
maybe he too having financial problems to pay .. try finding it out ... btw what did u say ur mobile number was ?? :D ... am gonna pay for ur movie ticket ... All on me ! dont worry ! ;) ... kiddin...
Why is that Olive.. Getting wiser with every exprience? lol
On a serious note. I could never be in a relationship if I did not spend on her. Would only accept gifts on special occassions from her, but living off her.. Nah..just not me..:)
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
your avatar is driving every one insane.
wait let me see if i can find something similar.
USED to fit that description UK, not anymore. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
olive I think you kinda fit that discription.. Please adopt me as your new b/f? or please..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
LOL. Sounds like a letter I would have written about my ex-boyfriend. :)
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Aaaah Love..
For some falling in love entails switching the brain cells off. Duh!
Jackmohan.. O I do remember that 1 Riyal girl.. did try to track her down.. But I hear that her waiting list was too long..:)
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
UKEng...Where do we find such girls....there was one on QL...the 1Riyal chick....you didn't propose...your loss...lol
Lucky dude having honey and money. Aal Izz Well ;) Aal Izz Well ;)
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Nothing really..
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whyteknight...it's a 2 way scenario. as for me, i don't expect my guy to always pay for me. really. what's wrong with sharing the tab or picking it up once in a while? ;)
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Ok let's reverse the roles for a while. Would you give the same comments to a guy if he was the only one spending for over two years?
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i wouldn't wait 2 years like her to kick his sorry ass out of my life. what a sissy.
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* No challenge, no fun *
maybe she finally woke up from the trance...lol
LOL
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Comeon QS give the guy some credit, he had steph hooked for so long and maybe still does without even spending anything at all. He must have some good qualities...
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I was just helping. LOL
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Susie: "He may or may not be aware of his actions- or lack thereof, so while you’re on the topic, mention it. There could be something bothering him as well and perhaps he’ll bring it up" .
yeah, right.. "may be not aware".. is he an idiot? why does she need idiot then?
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
You made it sound like a breed or something...lmao
You'll find lots of Filipino women with that, err, type of species. LOL
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
QS its called Fatal Attraction?..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
where do they find such jerks? and why do they get stuck to them?
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
eagle yep your right.. My teenage crush used to buy me presents that I could not even afford at that time.. Yep her daddy was rich..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
Didn't I say something about gold-digging men some time last year? They certainly exist.
SheDBabe said Stephanie needs to get a life.. ...
Pronto! I can't imagine anyone been so naive & giving."
Err.. yeah. Some of us were dumb when we were young.
But in old age, the ditching would come faster than he can say "baloney!"
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.
whyteknight.. Do that and Yep I want to help her too with some of my dollars! :)
lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
Hmm good point.. Let me contact Stephanie, I will send her some money out of all the money I have saved ;)
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I think...hehehehehe
whyteknight.. Nah .. If I get it right what am I going to do with all my dollars? spend it on whom? lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
lol... Keep trying with different girls, you are bound to get it right someday :)
**** Aal Izz Well****
can't figure where I am going wrong.. If I had a girl like that I would have been a millionaire by now from my savings..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
All the girls are like stephanie UkEng, You just need to know how to act around them ;)
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Can anyone tell me ..where can you fine these caring girls like stephanies.. O I so interested..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
crazyyyyyyyyyy
I think she is a rare specie! has anyone got Stephannie phone number?..:)
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
maybe it's there...hehehehehe
that's just plain selfish, on her last straw stephanie should dump that moron
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I would ask stephanie to speak to her boyfriend and tell him you can't afford to pay all the time.
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