husband and wife

shagonzales80
By shagonzales80

Hi Qler's! Good afternoon to all! I just want to ask because i have friend whose husband is here in Doha. He took her husband here so that they can be together, their children is in their country.The problem is, the husband got a job but a live-in nurse.He stays with his company while his wife is renting but they were staying together in that place but since the husband found a job, they were separated and meet only sometime.The problem is, the husband is too much jealous he is thinking that his wife has another man which is not true.The truth is the husband is having an affair with his ex girlfriend but that lady is working in diff. country. Now, the husband is accusing his wife that he is having someone.He is threatening bad things to his wife. The wife doesn't want to be separated with his husband because of their children.One night, the wife went to his husband so that they can talk and settle the problem.She talked to his husbands boss but the boss didn't agree that the husband will go home.From their, the wife called me saying that whatever happens to her its her husbands fault, she was crying. I got afraid so i told here that we are going to pick her up because her husband is hurting her. The next morning, her husband texted the wife that his boss knew the boss of the wife and she can be kicked out from her work because he knew the wife's bos's. What do you think it can be happened?

By budslightyear• 28 Nov 2008 09:15
budslightyear

oh dear...just a suggestion...K.I.S.S! (Keep It Short and Simple) :)

and by the way..marriage counselling is just down the hall!

peace, bro :D

By Beela• 28 Nov 2008 07:44
Beela

I think the answer to your question is....ready? Drum roll please...the two BOSSES are having an affair!!!

Hello...WTH? Yeah, that didn't make any sense. I think I'm confused because of the pronouns being mixed up in your story. I lost track of who was "he" and who was "her" in the first sentence.

Quick grammar lesson:

He, him, his = man, boy, male, husband, father, son, brother, uncle, boyfriend

She, her = woman, girl, female, wife, mother, daugther, sister, aunt, girlfriend

Did I miss anything?

I hope I'm not coming across as being rude/mean...I understand English isn't everyone's first language.

By anonymous• 27 Nov 2008 18:26
anonymous

where is doctor panadol....

By MOBEL• 27 Nov 2008 17:48
MOBEL

Can you tell me how many males and how many females

are involved in your story?

By anonymous• 27 Nov 2008 16:48
anonymous

sory confusing case din understand a word coz language probo

By cherukkan• 27 Nov 2008 15:59
cherukkan

Even though confusing I understand that there is a problem between one husband and wife. Why did she took the issue to her husband's boss? These are family issues which should be setteled between the husband and wife. If they cannot do it then they should ask the help of their relatives or close friends only. What is the role of his or her boss in this issue?

By Whattodo• 27 Nov 2008 15:55
Whattodo

What????? his husband .... Her wife....

What the H is going on at that end of Doha?

You need to get out ...& stay out of that ordeal altogether!!, before you type something that doesn't make any sense, and his husband comes looking for your wife!

sounds creepy...

By jerri• 27 Nov 2008 15:31
jerri

LOL.....sorry, the text and the responses are a bit funny. If I understood correctly is would the boss's wife be able to cause trouble, I think. Well yeah maybe, but I doubt it, probably making a mountain out of a molehill or as the bard might say, "Much to do about nothing".

By deepoo• 27 Nov 2008 15:11
deepoo

U come with ur friend and meet me. let me talk to her what the actual matter is ??

By hisashi_mitsui• 27 Nov 2008 15:07
hisashi_mitsui

wtf?!?!

i had a headache reading your english man!

anyway, it's clear that this couple has issues...

my advise to them, ....WHO CARES!!!!!

By anonymous• 27 Nov 2008 15:05
anonymous

sorry totally confused........... haaaaahh

By Victory_278692• 27 Nov 2008 14:49
Rating: 5/5
Victory_278692

What the hell; the boss and his wife doing in ur Friends personal life.......Boss should stay within Office premises....beyond is intruding in 'personal affairs'

By tatess• 27 Nov 2008 14:44
tatess

I'm confused, what is the story all about? this a family issue so stay away from it. don't stick your nose into others problem.

By AbuSaif• 27 Nov 2008 14:27
AbuSaif

Lets not forget that the relation of husband and wife is the most beautiful one and should be saved and nurtured to the best of ability, plus when more beautiful happens (children) this should be the strongest relation ever....

TC

By AbuSaif• 27 Nov 2008 14:24
Rating: 4/5
AbuSaif

Got pretty much of the situation, incidently such situations come in play when the trust is missing and the arrangement of life are such.

The trust misses moslty because of the element called 'doubt'. Unfortunately this is very hard to fix and lot of work is required in the case of the Man involved....

1stly he should not be accusing her or mistrusting her without any evidence..

2ndly she should try to be more calm and relaxed to sort the situation as she is sure of herself.

In case of the guy, he should be helped through his mental situation by someone qualified and or closer to him/trustworthy.

Regarding the accomodation, they should consult the respective embassy and labor department to get a special exemption to stay together.

Re saying it; The most important point in the whole story is the MIS TRUST and DOUBT which has to be fixed with the guy and this shall lead to a stable situation. He should further stop accusing her without any proofs...

Hope this helps!!!

All the BEST to them and all of us

By islandrock• 27 Nov 2008 14:17
islandrock

The boss of the husband and the boss of the wife should not take part with the personal problems.

By anonymous• 27 Nov 2008 14:14
anonymous

I think anything is possbile if they really know wife of boss or some one.. they can do it anythin for sure.... But tell her be alert in all things...

By ra521509• 27 Nov 2008 14:08
ra521509

I'm totally confused.. who is married and who is separated!

his husband?? her wife...

can you re-write it again

By kavkish• 27 Nov 2008 14:03
kavkish

What english is this?

By hearthrob• 27 Nov 2008 14:01
hearthrob

Total confusion!!!! m not talkin abt de situation but de posting!!

By DaRuDe• 27 Nov 2008 13:59
DaRuDe

huh what??

By ali111• 27 Nov 2008 13:56
ali111

I am not sure that what do you mean actully. Your question is confusing but on tha basis of WASTA anything is possiable. Officially only if the person is not performing well or any other issue with the management only in that case they can kick out.

By blueblack• 27 Nov 2008 13:52
blueblack

Can u reconstruct and post again..

I dint get..got confused in some place..

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