Where do BROKEN HEARTS go?....

well qatarisun, seems to be a good suggestion since a lot of hearts had been broken, and most people has not moved on....

each time a heart is broken...it brings us to higher level of maturity unless you refuse to see the mistakes. what makes it so hard is the period of letting go of the past. there are times you say to yourself that its definitely over. but out of the blue, we feel bad again.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

Worst all camels ate your heart leaving you heartless permenently. Congradulations :)

has been tossed carelessy to the winds and is now scattered across the desert. It can never be repaired. Oh Mila, how could you be so cruel?

The time has come to substitute caution for courage. Martin Luther King, Birmingham, Alabama 1963

 Broken hearts, you get them just by being apart and not being able to hold the other person. I don't have a clew as to where they go. Just that it feels like seclusion. A lone dark cave stricken with guilt and remorse. Trying to make sense of things but driving you crazy with endless possibilities.  Sitting against the frigid wall and feeling the chill to the bone. They tear you apart little by little until you don't even recognize who you are. Just reaching for the last breath of air untill the wave washes over you and the new day has begun. Slowly you reclaim a little of what you thought youy were only to start over from the beginning but to take the past with you into the next. A lesson learnt that you keep getting taught over and over. Do you ever learn to let go?

ei owen,

Where do BROKEN HEARTS go?....

answer:

You can come to me..no problem i will heal / fix your broken heart..

hehehe. (joking)

something that has been broken can never be the same again...

Its like when you try to fix the pieces of a broken glass, though it will return to its figure once again but it will leave marks/scars.. that's it, and it will be forever...

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broken hearts to be go to bar and drink and drink and drink and to become devdas.

Only love mends a broken heart. Time will not heal it, in fact, never. Your resentment to love will only grow if you let time heal it. Always take a chance to love .... it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.

Don't dwell on what has ended your relationship but on things that kept you together during that relationship. Then those memories of love will help you through.

There's no way you can forget a person who has been a part of your life. Our brain is not some memory chip that gets erased when the power is turned off and more so our heart. Remember: whatever does not kill you can only strengthen you.

heheehehe...nothing..just pulling your leg..:D

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anything being broken is hard to fix..don't know i somehow believe in this..it will always not be the same..how you perceive everything...if you got heart broken once, next time around will be difficult...

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Broken hearts eventually mend if you work on them, but they will never quite go back the way they were before. This is part of life's experience and we should try to take these experiences and learn something from them. But do allow time to feel really sorry for yourself first of course...

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Love is the answer...

KitKat, life without love is like a rose without a perfume, it looks good but lacks the beauty of the smell to make it complete.

When you get it wrong in falling in love, dont worry, its the most difficult thing in the world..........and most of us get it wrong a couple of times......but giving up at the first hurdle...thats the easy way out........you got to keep at it, fall on your face sometimes but thats part of life and its learning process.

I accidentally did that mistake once and decided not to do it again. It will haunt you all your life. Wonder how people change GF/BF as simple as changing their dress.

very well said...

Our mind has the choice to control our heart and most of the time it is not enough as the heart has its own rules...HUH what a life...

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Well,thanks god i cant talk about it.I lost my Grandparents which i loved verry much.But they are together now in a better place and so i am happy for this.And once i will meet them again.

I believe in this.

:-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Time heals nothing, you do it yourself, you in the end accept that the memeories and maybe the pain that goes with them are a part of you, you cannot ripp them out of yourself, you must learn to live with them and see them as part of your life.

never... time passes and the pain is still there!! you just learn to deal with it better..

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss

:-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss

... You just become stronger and more equipped to handle the pain, and before you know it you're thru the fire.

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss

KitKat, if you dont beleive in love, how do you know it suffocates you?

Im happy whit it,i feel good and i dont want anything else.But normally we humans are never satisfied with those we have,always hunting for more.Dont know why.What i know is that im out of this hunt.

:-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Owen ... when you face a muscular maniac, trying to hurt you somehow ..Don't tell me that you will hold a flower in your hand and say: See? I'm so peaceful and nice ... you will run away without thinking and sometimes the heart do the same and send the mind in a coma that he would never wake up of but too late ...

Swissgirl you mean to say that you are satisfied with your partner's love that you don’t need it anymore? Or you want it in a larger scale?

the more you get the more you feel the need for it.... in some point when you don’t get it..you cannot live without it! I don’t believe in love! It suffocates me.

forget about that person completely Owen ...

You would not care anymore ...

It is sometimes a matter of time ...

Give your heart sometime and let it do all the work that you thought that you would never imagine that you would be capable of doing it.

KE...heart as a muscle hmmmm.. but how come as you said it, decides and most of the time is very empowering in such decisions? and somehow, even the brain dictates you not to..you end up succumbing to your "muscle"..

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Meeeeeeeee!!!!!

:-D

Actually i am.

:-)))))))))))

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

i think being satisfied is an issue, one ingredient to break someone's heart...you can be happy but be satisfied in the long run?..hmmm..i doubt..

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There IS only love - it just depends where on the 'shelf' you choose to put it, and if you do 'put it away' then you are not participating in life. To hold love in your heart (participate regardless) there will be times when you will feel hurt/heart broken/sad.. etc. But this is the only way we are going to grow as a person.

There are 2 ways that people deal with heart break:

a. They squash the hurt feelings deep down in side as they feel they cannot cope with that sadness >> bitterness >> "never going there again". That's fine - we all have our choices, but the consequence of this is resentment towards the opposite sex as a whole, and stagnation. You might as well take yourself off the planet now, as you are a drain on the other people around you, and society.

b. They allow the emotions to wash over them, cry, get angry, grieve for a time, then get straight back into the game called life >> growth. Realise your true worth. The other person who left you did so due their own cr&p, not yours - it's not about you!! Love yourself again..

There will be times when we ALL go thru heart break, of different varieties, but this is life. Turn the negative situations/thoughts into positive ones. Say to yourself "How can I let this situation make me a better/stronger person?" - give it a bash - it works....

Go out there and love again - it's worth it. Life is an adventure, a journey. And you get to choose the scenery along the way.

Happy living.......... :)

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss

Did anyone ever been happy or satisfied in Love?

One sided love association .

which always broke heart and never full fill.lol

"Drink Beer Save Water"

We don't have the choice Owen, the same heart that falls in love without telling you, the same heart that makes you for once happy ... can also betray you and all of a sudden do the opposite. Do we really have control on this muscle? I don't think so .. it is even beating without an interference from the person him/herself ....

I guess that our hearts decide sometimes and let it to our minds thinking of something, to ourselves doing something about the sequences of this irrepressible heart actions ...

I want to be the head of heartless group...Love sucks!

senti..*scratching my head* what is OSLA?

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I'm a member of the permantely damaged club. You don't want to be me. I'm absolutly incapable now of just going with the flow and falling in love. I panic straight away and run for the hills at the first sign that things might not be right (and usually it's a sign I made up).

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

Red bull are available in Qatar ?

Owen.. What about OSLA group ?

"Drink Beer Save Water"

well as for me, my heart is safely secured in one box..don't want it to be broken..not now...and hmmmm can i wish for not ever...

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L-Loss

O-Of

V-Valuble

E-Energy

Please don't break any one's heart even Fecivcol or Quickfix and fix it.............

Its very hard to come out of it.

Its weekend and no time to suffer and thinking about broken hearts.

For sure every broken heart will love again.Thats the circle of life.

So for now lets enjoy the weekend and like it was sayd in the other tread...BE HAPPY!!!!

:-))))))))

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

well, its definitely not going to be me...my heart is perfectly fine as of now and doing great ;-P so i guess i dont qualify for the broken heart's club at the moment ;-P

"Ad astra per aspera" ~ AS

you can only truely break your heart once, there are other times when a relationship goes wrong , for many reasons, you feel depressed and alone but you get over it, its not easy but you do....this is not a broken heart, a scratched, dented and bruised one but not broken.

When your heart gets really broken, it loses its ability to except love any more, you can give but you are unable to receive. You carry on living your life, doing the same things, meeting the same people, you exist, you breath and walk and talk just like you always did but inside its changed. You try to look at the good things in life, be hopeful, caring, kind and you succeed, the external facade radiates a normal person.

Where does a Broken Heart Go ? it goes nowhere and thats the problem. It stays in the person, surrounded by layers of protection, it is unable to travel to another heart, it is unable to break out of the layers of protection wraped around it. It is unable to let another heart near it, it shuns away from it, avoids it, does all it can to keep it at a distance. The fear of the pain it felt once is greater than any wish to try again, to except that it could be possible to love again.

One thing though remains, the memories, not just bad also the beautiful ones, those beautiful memeories keep the broken heart beating and at the same time squeeze it and make it feel for a short while the pain it once felt.

In the end, the pain of a broken heart is terrible but the memories of your love are your saving grace, to be in love and to be loved is like no other feeling ever put into our souls, it is heaven and hell at the same time but its beauty can never be topped.

"it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"

wehehehehe..i was just gone for a while and voila..we have a broken hearts group..:D

azilana so if you heard news of someone being drown either in corniche or wherever..you who would that be? (NOT ME!!!!)

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How about forming a "QL's Heartless Group" and "QL's Hearttrob Group"

I support you in this as we all have broken hearts and mine was so broke I sent it to be repaired and unfortuntely they lost it. So now I don't have one.

I am thinking about to open OSLA group.Which is related to broken heart.

"Drink Beer Save Water"

how about creation of "Broken Hearts" group? I am not kidding...This group could meet let's say once a week.. everyone is welcome to share his/her experience, to seek for advice, or just to take out his/her hard feeling by talking about it...

so every broken heart will know where to go - to the "Broken Hearts" group...

it was "Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club".. now it's "QL's Broken Hearts Club"...

It's the weekend , by golly sake...

Those broken-hearted...go out and drown yourself either in Corniche or Orion/Paloma/Diplomatic Club...whehehehe (just joking)

Seriously, every love relationships we have or had is different in intensity, memories and the feelings. We can remember the person but somehow, you will learn to heal and forget the feeling. It will take time...of course it will. But do you have to fret about it and flaunt to the world you're GLUM....

The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt. .-Bertrand Russell

The more we get hurt, the less we care about love later. It would just change from a pure instinct and emotion to concept and start looking for definitions to it and trying to put it that way means losing the reality of love. Love is simply something that you can feel, it is not in saying I love you or I care about you. Anyone can do that and I heard a lot, saying the same thing to different girls in the same time so how can that guy be sincere?

It is more than just words, but it can be simple as feeling it in a kind touch of someone who really cares. In a nice smile in the morning that will make your day. In a kiss that will let you melt in the moment and forget about the whole world and make you both go somewhere high that no one else ever reach. In a gentle hug, when you really need someone to be there when all the doors are closed and you have no where to go or someone to cry on his shoulder. It can be in an honest whisper in your ears, with few words that you feel whenever you hear that you are hearing those for the first time while they are repetitive. It can be in a deep look in your eyes, that will make you feel different things without having any physical contact but eyes contact.

Would there be still love later? When we reach the end? I don't know but it depends on the ending. From the way you two decide to end it, you can tell if there would be hope later or not. While you said it by yourself, when it ends ... Everyone knows that they only end it when they have to end it, but if the two broken hearts would be always broken ... Then the chances are high ... because when one of them got to fix his/her broken heart ... Why would he/she think of going back to the one that brakes their heart before?

Wish if i can answer ... Pero Hindi Ko Alam Owen ...

All I can say if there was a eavenfor the broken hearted I should have been there many years ago,, instead I am still proceeding forward to have my heart broken again and again - what a life lol.

than to find himself/herself back to where it is before...

Just want to share you guys this song. This is one of my favorite.. it will uplift your faith in love. We live to love and we love to live..

Getting hurt is part of life but we can avoid it for sometimes by being careful to whom we are going to share our love with...

He broke your heart and said goodbye

After promising forever

You wonder why you even tried

he was such a good pretender

The love you gave was all in vain

and nothing anyone can say

could ever make you love that way again

It's the lover not the love

who broke your heart last night

It's the lover not the dream

that didn't work out right

if you listen to your heart

ooh you'll know it's true

It's the lover not the love

who deserted you

Don't stop reaching for the stars

Let tomorrow live inside you

And just remember who you are

Keep the faith and love will find you

A heart in love can lose it's true

but don't give up in time to find

the one who's right will come to you

It does no good to second guess

whether love is wrong or right

If it was really meant to be

he'd be with you tonight, tonight, oh yeah....

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Then you will just haveto live with it. Perhaps later it will solve itself so just move on until that day.

There is also a song called "First Cut is the Deepest" and you will never ever forget the first love because the pain is so bitter sweet notto mention the first time your heart was put to the test.

please read the followimg carefully - a few times - its quite profound:

"Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the self-same well from which your laughter rises was often-times filled with your tears." - Rene Descartes

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss

Ah yes, but you when you get older you will look back on love(s) wiht the fondest of memories, and sometimes when you feel sad you will open that box of memories in your mind and enjoy them. Be quite sure!!

No u will never have the same heart again .. even if u did FIX the broken heart it's still have scratches to be again easily broken and it will never perform like the first time b4 it was broken ..

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More than u can imagine ... I was in such a wonderful love .. we broke up since 4 yrs ago ... her pic still in my wallet and i didn't love any girl after her TILL NOW .. I admit that i miss her a lot.

u know that song "I'm still loving u by Scorpions"

it says "

If we'd go again all the way from the start

I would try to change things that killed our love

yes i've hurt ur bride and i know wut u've been through

if u give me a chance

This can't be the end

I'm still loving u"

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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."

Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821)

With the help of "Father TIME" and true-blue friends...you'll be able to bounce back.

The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt. .-Bertrand Russell

L... loss

O... of

V... Various

E... Energy

Is this what you trying to portrait?

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

so with you ram, its not just broken huh, it is deeply wounded and broken?...spill it..:P

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jaxs..sorry to be pessimistic but if there's a beginning there's always the end...but you are right on that, don't wait on the ending part..coz you will never bring out the best in the relationship as you will be always cautious... enjoy every moment you are together right?...

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dont dread the breaking part...because if u do, u wont get to fully enjoy all those moments with him because its always at the back of ur mind ;-P u'll be so much happier if ur not scared of getting ur heart broken ;-P easier said than done of course ;-P

"Ad astra per aspera" ~ AS

there is a phrase says "the Deeper u love the deeper u get hurted"

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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."

Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821)

oh c'mon ram, you are disappointing me..i know you..spill it out...:D

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aisha and canary that's the hardest thing..to be careful who to give our heart with...we never seem to learn..we just dwell for a while and then pooof..there we are again trying our best not to use our hearts and dreading the "breaking" part..

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u broke my heart with this song and topic .. u know that .. lol

I'm speechless although i have a lot to say .. but i just can't explain .. Feelings and emotions r much stronger and bigger than to be explained in some words ..

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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."

Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821)

Very true we are all resposible for our own hearts so we should be careful who we give them to.

I LOVE that song! It brings tears to my eyes :-((((

Time mends broken hearts.. It makes them even stronger.

I think no one is responsible for breaking someone else's heart.. If you took the risk putting YOUR HEART in someone’s hands, you are responsible for the choice you made. But again, no matter how careful you were, sometimes you just trust the wrong guy.. love is blind :-D

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see told ya, there are sensible answers for this one..so for your guys out there wondering the same..and to all pips here in DOHA who are heart broken..read up (and down :D )...you will learn from them..

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Some people wear their heart on their sleeve.

For the rest who may not know what this means - it means some people get their heaart broken at the slightest thing.

Yes sometimes you meet someone when you least expect it - and that might be the best thing in your life

- I took the blue pill and found myself alive in Qatar - wish I had taken the red and stayed in Europe

Good morning Owen,

I've been broken hearted since the day I turned to a frog. Then, everything was cool, and I'm spending my time hidden inside dark waters waiting for my princess :D The magic kiss that will make me turn back to a prince is still not scheduled :P

I don't remember the last time I was actually broken-hearted, but I remember well the last time I broke someone else's heart. It was not intentional though. It must be a terrible feeeling. As the Persian Proverb says : "A broken hand works, but not a broken heart"

Some are Wise ... Some are ...Otherwise

i dont have a sensible answer for this...;-P but i guess the reason why we never get tired of having our hearts broken is because there's always someone who picks it up and mends it for us...then we take the risk again hoping that it wont get ripped out of our chest this time around...but it always ends up happening...i guess its just learning how to accept the fact that we cant stop ourselves from loving and that someone will end up breaking ur heart over and over but so what...its not always full heartaches...there were those moments that u were actually happy...and most of the time the person that breaks our hearts is the one who makes it all better again ;-P just have a little faith ;-P something wonderful always comes up after...;-P

"Ad astra per aspera" ~ AS

The best remedy for a broken heart is not to be alone or fret about it ... time has the ability to heal all wounds.

BTW whose heart is broken ..... lots of broken hearts in doha i guess

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

Where there is great difficulty, there are also great opportunities. Where there is sorrow, there is also much possibility for real joy.

In places of darkness, even a small light can make an enormous positive difference. When the situation seems hopeless, that's precisely when acting on hope can turn things around.

The greatest achievements often have their origins in the most complicated and perplexing problems. By accepting the possibility of dreadful failure, people are able to create magnificent success.

When it seems that no options remain, that's when a breakthrough is about to happen. Each setback along the way makes the eventual success that much more precious and valuable.

No matter how good or how difficult life may be now, there is always a realistic and accessible way to make it better. For you can learn, you can adapt, you can grow stronger, and you can take effective action to move forward.

Whatever may be, whatever may happen, lift your head high with thankfulness and enthusiasm. For when you so choose, the best is yet to come. -- Ralph Marston

"Life is tough, but I'm tougher!"