Can we make ourselves happier?...

because I don't compare myself with others

never envious of others..

i trust my husband completely

i am happily married

my work sucks but I get better pay!

im old but I look great

and there's always new stuff to look forward to-- every time I get up in the morning.

and.. SPAIN will win tonight!!!!!!

AlHamdulillah..Be they in blessings or trials, I always seek out a reason or two to be happy in life, hence I cannot state just one factor.

That said I must admit it is always easier to be happier when those around me are.

Thanks Dohabunny...Malaysia has the best food in the whole world!!!

I used to have Laksa every Sunday in Swiss Hotel on Petaling Street.

Miss Malaysian food !

I have always enjoyed your comments in QL, NM and now I like you more. You have great taste in food!! :D

Dohabunny, although I am not Malaysian, I totally agree! YUMMMM!!!!

You may be right but oh what joy!!!! :D

Dohabunny, it would give you a few moments of joy, but not happiness.

Happiness, if there, is constant.

Right now, a huge bowl of authentic Penang Asam Laksa would totally make me so extremely happy and then some. You would have to be Malaysian to understand this. :D

i agree with nm, with a famous saying - People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be

We can make our-self happy by keeping our self in present moment, witness the things what ever we r doing and accept each and every one and situations as and when comes, accept them by both the hands.

Help unconditionally to unknown, random act of kindness....keep practicing every day, then see the happiness with in our-self.

We are the only ones who can make ourselves happy. Nobody else can.

If you think you are happy because somebody did something nice for you, you are wrong. That is just fleeting joy...happiness comes from inside , is permanent, and can ONLY be created by ourselves.

Mast & DrSam, you were looking forwrd being happy when you reach your achivements. @ jade ... I think you felt that before when you were still young and your mother kiss your forehead. @ cheruk... You love them more than your self.

Watching others especially the older people happy (parents, neighbours, relatives etc.).

. . . . what is being happy . . . .

agree with LLR. it makes me happy to make someone else happy.

and personal satisfaction makes me happy when at the end of a hard working month, you get a well deserved bonus.

makes me happy at every weekend outings and end of month on recieving the salary

I just said how to be happier? Laughing is a different form of action for expressing happiness , and when you laugh without reasons think otherwise.

Too much laughing creates stomach pain and tears ooze out from eyes...Where as SMILE is the intuition state and has 1000 meanings...When you want to SMILE, SMILE dont Laugh...Happiness and Sadness is the Emotional Statuswhere Peace is the Intution status and the out come of peace is SMILE ;)

How ugly it is... You can not be laughing and happy all the time. People say u r mad...But on the other hand one can be peaceful all the time... Can any one draw the peace face.... Never.. It inner feeling...Thats why new born babies smile and just smile...But man when he teaches baby by tickling then the baby gets into emotional status ... LaughingSo.. Laughing is the Emotional statuses which invites diseases...

Nice ... LLR !... Thats a gift of compassion endowed to a certain individual , not expecting in return. Rizks... Maybe not , your happy like it.

Helping someone anonymously.. :)

i dont know, i am new here ! :(