I wish that I could turn back the clock

well, if you follow what your brain says, then sometimes you might get hurt but eventually sometimes it will not satisfy you. But if you follow what your heart says then even if you get hurt you will always be satisfied.

Reconnecting, think before you leap girl, you don't wanna fall into the same ditch again.

Well for me it's over, it's just that i moved on from every other thing except from her memories. I know it's a shame, but i'm following my heart and nothing to regret.

:)

....ooops!

I can feel the hurt there, buddy! Yeah, it's useless talking about him (for me) or her (for you)...

10 years you said??

I should be lucky now!

But guess what... He is re-connecting..

Now, I should be wiser and slow-to-react kind of a woman.

Heart.....don't lead me now, please???

it's useless talking about people who give a damn about you, it's better you accept the fact that he has left you with no option. Just move on, let go girl, the soon you do the better for you. I was in the same situation, but everyday i still think about her, every morning as soon as i wake up and every night before i go to sleep, also throughout the day i keep thinking about her, but i just smile and thank god that with the deepest scar i have become the toughest man. I am happy because she is. Better to just let go, smile and focus on what would have been better for you. Life is beautiful, only sometimes it is a bytch. May you have the strength to overcome this. And for the note we were in a relationship for 10 years, so you can imagine how hard it was for me. I just accepted the truth and FACT.

I wouldn't have met him without this site...

But I don't blame QL...

I blame my impulsive heart and my hopeful mind...

Sorry but he is not an Arab; neither is he married.

I think he is so possessed with his career and he just occupied my time alongside with his during the time he had no job, nothing to do at home, nobody to talk to, etc...

Now, he has a big chance to make it big....I guess he'g rather dump me than keeping me in his heart. Sigh!!!!!!!!

Sorry but he is not an Arab; neither is he married.

I think he is so possessed with his career and he just occupied my time alongside with his during the time he had no job, nothing to do at home, nobody to talk to, etc...

Now, he has a big chance to make it big....I guess he'g rather dump me than keeping me in his heart. Sigh!!!!!!!!

Ohh, so what happened with your friend now? i hope that she is fine by now.

Why do some guys use women's feelings for no reasons at all? .... Don't they know they are investing their efforts and time to waste too, in effect?

Now, I can entertain everybody's thoughts. I have regained my strength.

Very well said, indeed! You are very much right there!

But I guess, I would still say it over and over again to refrain from being hurt.... I always want to be happy.

:)

Petjack partly I say..:)

is this QL's fault??

smoke you letting the cat out of the bag..:)

Catch Darude...he's the culprit...now that there are few gatherings there are lots of hearts being broken :P

"QL gatherings"...I always had my suspicions about them...:)

We're not talking about Flying Ace are we :O(

AWWWWWW!

Hmmmm…same happened with my friend.

She’s in a relationship with this “fake” guy and when this guy got a job, khallas also their relationship.

When his family visa was expired, he is begging my friend to get him business visa, and since he needs this girl he showed sweetness of her, that time its hard to get a “P” visa but my friend tried her best and she was successfully obtain a visa for him thru one of my friend’s help.

I said this guy was a fake coz he is telling their friends that he is a “pilot” and was working in “QA”, but the fact is he is holding a business visa, and when the time that he got a job (still not a pilot), he dump and drop my friend like a hot potatoe..

Wait….r u my friend…lol… coz she met also this guy thru QL gatherings…..:D

If you went back in time,

and stopped the relation when it started,

then in future (I.e now), there wouldn't arise a situation

which would have prompted you to go back in time

and stop the relation before it started

which means you would have continued with it that time

Simple

brit, don't you think Generalizing is a Norm on QL now...?

I am not defending anyone, but Not All are the Same...

Yeah.. I hope everyone is true... or could be true..

Next time, steer clear of Qlers and private Messages ..

Good luck!

"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new".

I made a mistake right here, huh?

But my heart was true............. and I failed.

Don't tell me, You Met him through QL...?

Habibti you are much better without him in your life, cuz Those who really love you will never want to hurt you. just forget him and move on, you never know what life has in store for you (:

......I just wished I never loved this much!

...... I just wish I just took everything for granted.

...... I just wish I never met him and felt like this.

...... Or should I say, I just wished I never knew this site???

Honestly, His intentions were not true, The Excuse that he gave too you is utter "BS"...

Relationship means Compromise, Trust, Understanding, & if one of these are not Reciprocated then Relationship ends in a Disaster...

Item? ........

Chapter for closure...... it really hurts...

I just asked him if one question:

Amidst all the nights that passed and nothing was as normal as before, because he got a good job: Does he still want to maintain the relationship?

His answer is: No(because I was acting doubtful of him, he said.)

But a woman like me just wants secured feelings that's why I just asked. But he was defiant. Did I say something wrong? Was it wrong to secure my feelings? I just asked him and he got mad of that. Men sometimes ignore women's feelings. :-(

What is the problem with Arab!!?

Hearts Breakers

mmmmmm, wow i should visit Estonia (The city of Angels)

btw, Do you have wings?

Habibi life is just too short to spend it crying over spilt milk ... count your blessings there was that moment of "Oh" and now it's over ... take a breathe or two, and enjoy the moment (:

do not be disheartened my friend, we all go through a lot of detours and take a lot of roads and make our choices, so yes, that's all there, sometimes somethings are just not meant to be (:

"Item" ?

Men are not items - we are living , breathing humans with emotions :O(

Ok... close the chapter... find new item... khallas...

Every End has a New Beginning...

You can't go back in time, You'll have too move on with a heavy heart, Memories would stay forever, but you have to be a strong person..

Pull the dial pin then reverse its easy....

I agree with the sentiments. I was lucky to have met my Cuban Shotputter .. As for the cigars she rolled.. That's another story :O)

How could career get in the way? Unless it was a one-sided attraction to start with..

I understand, i think you are a good girl to Trust people that fast

anyway, we've all been through this

tomorrow you will wake up and you start laughing

"what the hell i was doing"

But remembering the good times make me soooo craZy... those were the times we just had words to say to each other...and they keep staying in my ears... and words stay inside my sight and mind...totally going insane...

I had put all my trust and affection to him.... We only met like three times and just had dinners...just that...We respected each other's views, cultures, opinions, etc.

loving him in FAITH and TRUST are my investments..just that. But the moments there were so meaningful.... messages and words so touching... all these hurt me so much.

i wish i have not loved him that much!...

i wish i have not loved at all.......

Barsteward... Probably dipping his wick elsewhere..

Just remember the good times and move on..

Put yourself together Girl, it is just a matter of time and you will get over him

I know it is easy for me to talk, but on the other hand look at yourself, do you deserve better, if yes, Just smile and look forward

Best wishes

So, he really could have been hiding facts from me huh? Yes, he stays sooo late at night and even weekends he allegedly so pre-occupied at work.

How could one hurting soul move from where it stopped moving like a disabled creature? I even could not go to work anymore... My stu _ _ _ _ _ _ has just killed me all at once.

I really wish to turn back the clock to where we first met and stop it right from there .....

i'm really hurt right now...........

I think it has something to do with our diff cultures...

But it is unfair for a woman expecting so much from a man!!

was it a cross culture relationship\?

Hindsight is a wonderful thing. Sadly, it is impossible to turn back the clock. Especially those new digital ones :O(

It is no use delving on the past. Move on and look to the future - As I did after my Cuban Shotputter had to leave for Havana :O(