A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
"" A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
....one old love .....
she can imagine going back to...
and one who reminds her of how far she has come.
...enough money within her
control to move out and
rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to or needs to...
... something perfect to wear if
the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...""
... a youth she's content to leave behind...
....a past juicy enough that
she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....
....a set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill,
and a black lace bra...
...one friend who always makes her laugh ...
and one who lets her cry...
....a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
....eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal
that will make her guests feel honored.
....a feeling of control over her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
...how to fall in love without losing herself...
..how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...
...when to try harder ...
and when to walk away...
..that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips,
or the nature of her parents...
....that her childhood may not have been perfect...
but its over...
...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
...how to live alone...
even if she doesn't like it...
...who she can trust,
who she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...
...where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
... what she can and can't accomplish
in a day...a month...and a year...
"People say what we are all seeking is the meaning of life...
I think what we're really seeking is the experience of being
alive..."--Rudyard Kipling
but what kind of success the woman will give it her man
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should have her worth... to feel her inner strength and beauty.. a confidence to stand beside her man...
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Adios Ladies... have a good evening, see y'all tomorrow all bright and early...
ROFL colt, specially on the bamboo part (sorry R7...:P )..colt is just being silly again..
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I did'nt know they come that small.(Bursts into laughter whilst pointing towards it)
I am NOT even trying to get onto her.... why wud you say that... you know hoe decent i am... damn, my nose feels funny...lol!!!
You filthy minded pervie... please learn to be a li'l more decent when we have women around... haven't you learnt anything from being in my company? :-D
You're right... take out that stick... here comes R7... he's a BIG guy, so you might need a bamboo or something of that sorts... lol!!!
He is kissing somebody. I forgive you this time.
COLT always has his "stick" out Mariam so u better keep ur distance :P
Time to take the stick out. I spot a 'Male Chauvinist......'.
easy on her buddies...:)
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you have a wonderful blog...strange, but it made me teary eyed...don't ask..;)
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Just 1 word for u COLT "SAD" Give it up already y u trying soooooo sooooo hard... Remember the wifey ... Good now go pick her up from work :P
If that pic is really you... you're very pretty (and no i'm not trying to hit on you if that is what you or anyone else is thinking...) :-P
have this in one of my blogs:)
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Carpe Diem....
See u all later tc n be good
Good... see that way, no flies can get in either... :-P
true... true.... (see im learning, trying to shut my mouth..lol)
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Men prefer the line... ummm "Don't talk just Kiss"... lol!!!
agree on that colt....sometimes we really have to take a long inner breath..and learn to shut our mouths (though its really hard)...
have to listen once in a while (that is, if the guy has more sensible things to say...;P) in which i doubt if they have..lol, expect lots of dangs from guy friends from here..:D
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to learn to "SHUT UP" sometimes... lol!!! I know ima get whipped if I attend any QL meet...;-P
Pepper spray is good when I meet them in person and they try to score points with me.
Darude ---- Do I hear a confession here. Run to the Pope.
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man,
Still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone,
He asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special.
I! made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clo! thes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
You did make me laugh now tell me how many perv sent you PM.
hey dont you dare name me ok :D
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agree on that maria.m and also lets include pepper spray...:P
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a long stick to beat all the pervs at QL.
All they miss is the sixth sense which they never will have one.
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