Why Men Sleep With Women Then Pull Away???????

Why Men Sleep With Women Then Pull Away???????

Its not the men pulling away.. women re pushing em away....

wy don't you pull away the first for a try? to see what this guy reaction is.... hehehe

*sniggers* sorry couldn't resist lol

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Why Men Sleep With Women Then Pull Away??????? 

Maybe his not sleepy anymore (lol) or looking again for another women to sleep with?!?!?! (Stupid)

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

 Why Men Sleep With Women Then Pull Away???????   Because they don't want the eternal responsibility of child support......    "Every once in a while, declare peace -- it confuses the hell out of your enemies." - Quark quotes a Rule of Acquisition, "The Homecoming"

Hope I don't come on too strong....

I hope the contexts of these posts is about being in a stable marriage or people are just having bull sessions.   This is the Gulf with a lot of people with a greater respect for their religion.  So, I'm expecting higher moral standards. 

If it is in marriage, we men do need space to relax..and dry off.

O well, arent there too many questions...already on QL...this is just one of them...wonder why a few of you are getting so worked up on this...

Come on help the chick out here...she is confused...help her out people...

I would really vouch for Smokey's answer the closest if your question was referring to why no more calls after getting into the sack...

If your question was just after action...then babe...you need to cool down...there is nothing personal about this...this goes back to what QT asked..why in the world do ya ladies start to think too many things in the wrong time...give yourselves a break you lovely ladies...take it easy...

So is it just me or all of you, isn't QL picked off the wrong note at the weekend...its plain boring...whats happening...

I think this forum question was asked wrongly.

as we can see here every one is confused of the question. There are two ways people take this question.

so aero babe, be more specific. I guess the "pulling away" caused the confusion

cheers 

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sorry 'pull away?' did you mean pull out??

 Maybe cause they're not smart enough to ask smart questions ?

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

You can't teach experience...

That was very diplomatic of you lol

Cause that's all they wanted from you I guess...

Quit sleeping around then...

You can't teach experience...

This is a commmon knowledge statement. If it was meant differently then she would have used the statement leave don't you think??

No it's not, and it is not a topic for a QL forum that is for sure because there are also quite a lot of younger members on these forums.

Funnily enough this love bug thing seems to have hit some special very hard and we are not even into the Spring season.

These are the so called bunny girls

U sure? Everyone just assumed that but she didn't really state it anywhere  

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

Good Morning

she means physically

corny close your eyes this topic is meant for the grown ups sheesh! 

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I'm just wondering what do u mean by "pulling away" ? Do u mean as in physically moving away and not cuddling afterwards ? or do u mean as in leaving her and never calling back ?  

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

It actually depends on what's on telly, if it's an important football match, then what does she expect!

we have had some topics on QL recently that are not good but this is the most disgusting one I have ever read and I mean this quite honestly.

This is a personal thing between a man and a woman and it is not a forum topic - it may even be a topic for an intimate discussion.

If you need help in how to help your partner/s go to the Phys. clinic they can help you they have people with fundamental knowledge in this,

aero_babe_01

ask you boyfriend or boyfriends - because your topic suggests that you have more experience, get them together and have a small conference to find out why. It is not sleep with someone it is plain sex with someone.

Your topic is one of the worst I have seen on QL

hmm some of you have given some of us some very good birds and the bees talk for no good reason...i think what aero baby is trying to ask is why MOST men either dump the girl or pull away in the sense they dont give her all that much importance as he used to before they slept together.

Carrie has given a somewhat more or less idea of how a man thinks when it comes to women..and coming from a man's point of view i feel its like this..we meet a wonderful woman and the first thing any man thinks is "oh i want to get in the sack with her"...and guys if you come here and say otherwise like "king Edshel" will say oh thats disgusting and all that then man save it for someone else ok you may belong to a rare 1% of men or you could just be saying that so no one else thinks ur a pevert.

Back to my point, men will first do ANYTHING say whatever he has to say to the girl he's courting just so he can get in bed with her..its like a hunt, we want what we cant have, but once we have it our desires are fullfilled we start losing interest.. think of it like a kid who gets a new toy...we'll play with it for a while then we'll lose interest and want the toy that some other kid has or a new toy.

Sorry if some of the GUYS here dont agree with my reply but this is my opinion. :)

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Influence of drinking. A reason why drinking is haram. The question is what is

she thinking? Girls should think from their mind now their hearts. During the 

early time people used to get married at an early age, so they would fulfill

their sexual desiers and be with each other forever. Instead of thinking about

which girl will the guy will sleep with. 

It's always the small things that make big differences.

You get married with your girlfriend,  then on your first day of action,  you discover that she is a cold mummy in your bed, with bad smelling feet? Then What?

LOL

"Every once in a while, declare peace -- it confuses the hell out of your enemies." - Quark quotes a Rule of Acquisition, "The Homecoming"

Just want to make it clear...that question is not for me, its for some1 I know...She's going through that dreaded situation, I've seen lots of women deal with where she was, dating a guy and became "physical" with him, but then he quickly pulled away.  Thats why that question pop up into my mind and got curious with all your answers...

Thank you....good nyt....

your question wrongly .... from what i read just now ...

The man can have it only once [orgasm] and won't be able to continue anymore, but the woman can many [orgasms] .

The man would feel that he left something already with the woman, will start cooling down quick. The woman on the other side,take more time to be .. you know ... and you can't just jump directly in bed and start instantly what ... you know ... something should be before all of that.

The woman won't more than just having ... she wants to feel that she is loved, that the man want more than just sleeping with her ... that there is an exchange of emotions between the two, sharing of the feelings as well. That is why she needs her man to hug her, cuddle her, kiss her and never let go until she is fine and want to change it herself ...

The woman should not think that there is something wrong if the man get away, the man should feel as well that he should not do that as well. It is not about finishing that and goodnight and let's give our backs to each other ... there is more into sleeping in bed ...

------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

i agree with QT.

 although...

I thought the question was about a man pulling away in terms of the next day or the next week. I.e..not calling..being emotionally distant.

I didn't know that alot men do that (pull away after sex)...you'd be surprised how some men like to cuddle too...

Don't have an idea ... never did that before and would never do it ...

1- It is either those guys want nothing from those women but fulfilling their instincts which is totally disgusting.

2- Just a playboy that you will find him sleeping in so many different beds in one day.

3- The woman fault for letting him sleep with her without knowing him better.

4- One night stand.

5- Afraid of making any kind of commitment.

6- Realized later that he should not sleep with that woman from the beginning.

7- Felt that they are with the wonrg person.

8- Something went wrong in bed.

and ... don't know ... many reasons ... but in the end ... I believe that a woman should never sleep with a man until she make sure that he is valuing the relation and really and wants more than just sleeping in bed and run away.

I still remember that you were supposed to get married, then you quit ... sorry for asking but how are you doing now? I hope that life is treating you good, don't think that you lost too much breaking up with that guy.

------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

well, a reason can be bad breath.... lol

I think 2masti was closest.

When a women's blood vessels move closer to the skin after well, you know what... then she cools down very quickly and soon get cold quickly and wants warmth from the man (Physical as well as emotional).

Sometimes this is due to the fact that the heat women generate is through arousment and not physical exertion (not all the time).  Often for the man it is physical exertion and hence he takes longer to cool down.

Also, most women like it warm and cosy whilst men like it mild and breezy.  Hence it's the natural reaction after, well again, you know what...

If the room was cold, he'll soon cuddle back up after he's cooled down.

Why do women have to read a negative emotional response when most of the time, there just isn't one.  It's a physical response!!!

Sadly, saying all that, it's often because she's ugly and if his hormones weren't imbalanced and he wasn't thinking with his little head, it wouldn't have happened in the first place.  

(btw, ask a silly question, get a silly answer) 

I truly believe that it all goes back to basic instincts of all human beings: people want what they can't have.

Before a man sleeps with a woman he must first earn it. He must learn to love and care for her to a point where sleeping with her is like the most amazing thing that could ever happen to him. That is the only time he will value things and not 'pull away'. Otherwise, they will just take things for granted and possibly get distracted by a multitude of other things...(not necessarily other girls)...

haha..i'm not a man though...although i've seen it happen time and again. if a woman doesn't know how to seduce her man and make him worship her..well.she shouldn't be sleeping with him...

Well , the question is interesting. I agree with semsem79. but there are many more reasons why man 'pulls away' psycho and physical reasons. when the relationship is a mix between need and passion, a man does not pull away!

after the intimacy we men need space..the heart beat is fast, body hotttttt .need to cool down.thats why we need space. no harm in that

well, you must start from the point that a woman and a men are different

A woman is more likely to stay in bed a spend some romantic time, talk, etc, etc

A man has released some energy and mostly will pull away.... but this is only when there are no feelings involved...

in a relation (normal one) i think the feeling is the same: to stay together

i don't know , i believe normally the man give all his enrgy during the relation , so after they finish he need just a min alone without any word and may be smoking cigarrate will be nice idea :)

well you got my answer, like it or not  thats up to you

I'm sorry no offense but if you dont like to answer then don't....

 i agree with   Afaque if u want to unlock ur iphone pm me or call 5125244 .  

may be she wasn't her type........I can't believe i am saying this! Its really not necessary to post a form.