just out of curiousity, why do men dominates women? i know men literally the what we call "man" but i am really curious, should a man have to be, needed to dominate a women in all cases?, in everything? enlighten me pls.
U know what... lets just forget about this thing... it's never gonna end. Lets just agree to disagree... I understand there are people who are different in this world and for me I respect everyone that is worth respecting. I respect u too for being married at a small age... it has its own advantages. But at the end of the day we both know that no one is gonna change their opinion, so might aswell accept the differences and move on.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
"Be Like a Flower, Which gives off it's fragrance even to the hand that crushes it"--- Imam Ali (A.S)
If i say most of the people are not like that wouldn't i be generalizing ???
Oh and talking about how stupid they are... i wont say anything the results are in iraq, the results were on 9/11... U know how many muslims were attacked by americans after 9/11... Every muslim was in fear after 9/11... wonder what the reason would be???
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic,How is when you say "most of the people" not generalizing? Unless you meant most of the people are NOT like that?? And saying that I am not listening to you because I am pointing out the flaws in your argument?I never said the west was perfect, but neither is the east. What I want is for you to stop judging Americans based on fictional characters in movies and tv and claiming that all americans are stupid because of what you have seen in these tv shows and movies. tra la la
Sure i would love to hear about it... u have alot of intresting stories... I miss my friends, I used to go to church sometimes with them and they used to tell stories from Bible... It was very intresting and it felt kinda peaceful... Any holy place seems peaceful, weather its mosque or church or a temple.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
you know I hedged my bets when I was offered holy water from a spring, in Turkey, at the site where Mary was taken by John, after the crucifiction of her son (yes I did say her son).
I thought ... well ... who knows - maybe .... oh heck, I'll take a cup to be on the safe side :D
funny old life isn't it.
thexonic - I went to the Garden of Eden when we were in Iraq - remind me to tell you about it some time :/
lol u know what forget it... u keep saying that i generalize it when i said most of the people. There's no point of arguing with u, when u keep ignoring everything i say and just read whatever u feel like reading. I give u the oppertunity of doubt and say u r correct allrite... the whole west is as clean as the water in heaven.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Excuse me Theexonic, but I just got out of my teens. No one I knew got booed because they didnt loose their virginity on prom night. What is wrong with leaving home after high school graduation and being mature enough tosupport yourself??
America is made up of people from all over the world of every religion, and you cannot generalize based on what you saw on TV!
Just because you see it in movies or on tv does not mean thats how life is. Get real teenagers are not like the movie American Pie.
It's Thexonic for u princess lol... hey i know ur on my side, thanx ur a good friend :D. I am always chilled out.. soo much that it makes me fall asleep sometimes :S
It's always the small things that make big differences.
you have been watching too much tv thexonic. Its true that Americans do not share the same value as Arabs, Indians, and Muslims. But that doesn't mean they don't know how to love.
For instance, how many eastern men do you know who are willing to marry a women and take care of her children as if they are his own? Or eastern countries who protect a womens rights?
I guarantee that if more women had rights in eastern countries alot of you guys would have went bye bye aloooooooooooong time ago!
No the upcoming generation is not stupid. They are influenced by Television way too much, thats all i'm saying. I haven't been to USA but i've been to an american school. I know how it is over there, people are not stupid, they are just confused. Compare the times when u were a teenager and compare the teeens now a days. U will see the difference yourself. I don't need to generalise it. Specially when they have the rule of "go to your room" or "you are grounded" how does that help anyway. I have american friends and most of them left their houses and lived on their own since they were teenagers, some dont even follow their own relegion. Isn't it true that people boo those who dont loose their virginity on the prom night... thats what i've seen and heard. I'm judging based upon what i've seen and what i've heard, practically and on tv.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
maybe tv has blinded you and you are feeding into generalizations. So the upcoming generation is stupid??? And why do you say this? Have you lived in the USA? Gone to school in the USA? Or is it based on what you have seen and heard on TV???
I think attitudes will change in the UK very soon. Most 2nd generations are not like their parents and have access to education (thank you british ;)
And even back in pakistan they don't do these things anymore. You'll find people from pakistan more modern and sort of with it then pakistanis who came to work in the UK 30 years ago.
so things are changing!
Yes I do think family influence has alot to do with things. Its mainly a problem with the guys mom in that she can be jealous of the wife at times! So really depends on family dynamics. Its not always the case and less so these days, though still existant.
isn't going to show much difference in the attitudes? Oh my.
Well I know there are cases in the news in UK about forced marriages amongst certain cultures.
But getting back to the topic of this thread and 'why do men dominate' ... I can't really imagine the men involved in these marriages can really like the idea either. Surely not ...
Is it the parents, who don't want to lose face amongst their piers? Bit like that film 'East is East'?
Jauntie.. trying being friends with some of these girls. And the bengali community is pretty backwards in this regards too .
One of my best friends went for holiday in pakistan without her parents (to a village in mirpur) And while there was married and trapped in the house for a year. Raped and got pregnant with her first child. Then had to sign for the guy to come back to England! Very sad and thankfully he committed a crime and ran to saudi to avoid prosecution! (she is now happily married to an energentic man 7 years younger then her. :)
I met another women who was hindu from India and she married a guy that was like 60 years old and she was 15. In the uk, they had no heating in the house. She was forced to sleep on the floor and the health visitor actually went out and bought her neccessities when he passed away only 6 years and 5 children later.
p.s. Gujarat is an area of India.. the muslim men are known for loyalty to their wives! And are not known to hit their women (unlike other groups of indians)
On a different tack, I've just started reading a book called 'Brick Lane' (I think PH would know where Brick Lane is in London). It's about an 18 year old Bangladeshi who has an arranged marriage to a 40 year old nice man. It's set in 1968. I'm only on Chapter 2, but I'm already fascinated as to the outcome of this girl's life.
The writer was born in Bangladesh and brought up in England. Monica Ali.
So far the story has me gripped. The book was written about 5 years ago, but she was nominated for loads of prizes at the time.
Well there might be true love, im sure. But the media has blinded alot of people over there. Just like back in india or pakistan they are crazy about television and to be honest they do what they see on tv and they are adapting the life style. They think what's on tv is right. Alot of people have lost their opinions. But then there are alot of other people who believe in doing the right hting, or they realise sometime in their life that what they are doing is wrong.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Thexonic it is a bit of a stereotype to say that the western world doesn't know about love! Although, being married to a gujrati has certainly opened up my eyes to a new meaning of love and loyalty. Many Americans might call it obsession and deem it unhealthy!
Jasskat its not me who says that, thats what i see on tv. Now i know there are very few people who are actually nice. But there are dumb people in a large quantity too. U might be one of those lucky ones. But may be u dont see the upcoming generation.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
marriage takes alot of sacrifice from both sides. The unhappiest married people I have ever met are those where the partners have no choice but to stay in the marriage. Like in forced arranged marriages.
Anyway.. I love a strong man.. but not forceful. He has to be pretty clever and confident to persuade me with his love! :).
Question of the century is why do men alway think they are right?
Don't they realize that women are smarter than them?
This comment of yours is really rude: "If u look at americans, most of them are dumb and they do the most stupid thing in this world about having relationship and then breaking up over and over..."
Breaking up and divorce happens all over the world, just look at Qatar's own rising divorce rate...
I am American, I am happily married and plan to stay that way thank you very much.
NAaaaa,, girl, I really dont think anyone would take a chance with you in regards to Dominance...LOL...
And to hopeless...alright buddy, till the next time, it was nice having you on board, you should join us on one of the outings...
Alright, cheers and take care and keep that smile running buddy, somebody told me you look good with that on....(Alright alright, thats it that was a last scoring point...LOL)......
Now come on be a nice girl, why would I want to be in your WILDEST DReams, Yet,,,naaaa...I was talking of Plain Reality....LOL...Again, I scored....LOL....Now come on Hopeless...be a good girl...
Ofcourse dominance isn't required. Heck, I would never let a man dominate me nor would I want to dominate him. But that's my personal choice, others many disagree.
I completely disagree with the author of this thread. But I was just trying to tell u boys that reality is sometimes differen than we'd thought.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Guys it was a real pleasure spending time communication with you. It is always nice to have new friends who can listen, understand and communicate wisely. Till we meet again here, take care all, stay safe, and don't forget that good chances & good people are always behind the corner, so keep alerted.
LOL, Here she comes, Corne wasn't I missing you girl,
Right, every relation is unique, but then again, there is a slight difference in the word dominance to its usage, here in this thread, this person, was asking about sheer outstraight dominance, and that was what we are addressing to (Correct me if I'm wrong Thexonic)...
Again having said that, every relation is a masterpiece creation on its own by the individual participating stars in that...so dominance in lovely relations, is upto the inividual performers, but overall, dominance is something that Isnt required in a relation...or rather Blind Dominance...how does that sound Corne..
4 years ago i was with this palestinian girl, we were really happy togather. U know what kept my relation going on, it was the trust. She had blind trust on me and so did i. I believe in this thing about " treat someone teh way u want to be treated". If i wanted to cheat on her, i could have doen it any time of the day, but what would i have gained... nothing but shame. One day a girl did come up to me and asked me if i wanted to go to club with her at that time, i told her no. Cuz I would be hurt if my girl would do such thing with me, if someone asked her out and she went. I know its hard to resist a girl, but not for me.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
OMG, boys awake up! Ur not in fantasy land! Geez I thought men were supposed to be the realistic ones not the romantic ones!
I agree with all that ur saying, but that's not how reality works alot of the times. Sometimes husbands loves their wives to death but still dominate. Dominance doesn't always mess everything up, each relationship is unique. Some people like to dominate, others like to be dominated, and u have a match! So u can't generalize. Wake up boys, life isn't all about roses and pink bunnies
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Well Harsha, you see here mate, these little pains of typing should be ignored cos these are the efforts being put inorder to earn that coffee with Hopeless...LOL...That was a winner down the line...wasn't it Hopeless...LOL....
Rightly said, I mean I have said it earlier, saying it again,
Where there is LOVE there shouldnt be a place for Dominance, can screw up the whole system, Dominance comes with EGO, and trust me when I say that, there shouldnt be a thing called Ego in a relation, I mean, relations live on understandings and compromises, its either from the guy or from the lady, and sometimes it has to or rather, most of the times, it has to be from both the ends, thats how relations continue to be living cos once that is gone then there is no love and thats about it when things start falling apart...
And very rarely people make a valiant and an honest effort (again leaving Ego) out of the situation and trying to resolve the matter , people dont do that, and this time its a Final Bye Bye to the relation...
O well, when will the people understand, Love, TRUST, SINCERITY, COMPROMISE, HUMOUR, NOT TAKING THE PARTNER FOR GRANTED AND NOT LETTING THEM HAVE THEIR 2 CENTS IN DECISION MAKING AND AGAIN A LOT OF LOVE KEEPS THE RELATION GOING STRONG....
Come on girls, I know you are reading this....PMs are welcome..LOL...I just love to play it all apart...
To dominate and be dominated should be done willingly just for fun or some nice feelings of being owned by the person you love. But the truth is, men and women should treat eachother with fairness and trust. Don't they say "treat people they way you like to be treated?" What you give is what you get, and successful relationships normally are based on giving spaces to breath (to a limit). We are humans and sometimes we just like to spare ourselves from our life for a change. Give trust and space, if your partner abuse it, then he or she were never meant to be.
"I will give my wife all the happiness in this world, but i would expect
the same from her and if she will be unfair to me, i wont let her. U
have to treat her with fairness and she has to do the same for u, this
is how a married life work"
---> I disagree. This is how marriage is SUPPOSED to work; however, in reality it can be very different. Many men and women are in abusive relationships, whether phsyical or emotional, for one reason or another. So although we think that everyone should have equal partnerships, it's not the case.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
U know i dont believe in dominations... no one can dominate no one, if they are brave and have enough courage to defend themselves. U see I will give my wife all the happiness in this world, but i would expect the same from her and if she will be unfair to me, i wont let her. U have to treat her with fairness and she has to do the same for u, this is how a married life works. If u look at americans, most of them are dumb and they do the most stupid thing in this world about having relationship and then breaking up over and over... soo much that it becomes a habit and they become more sesnestive by the day... its just ridiculous. SOo much that some day if the guy's wife asks him to get something from the store they would sit and cry about it and then start drinking lol. Thats not the way to live. The best ways to live in this world are the traditional ways, thats what is called being openminded, to agree to disagree.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Thexonic, well rightly said i guess it just slipped I should calling people I dont know Babe, (even if she is one...LOL), thanks mate for the tipper...
Alright, now back to Hopeless...O well, buddy, was right here, jus absent for a moment, alright now that I have got you thinking quite a lot, and giving that rare smile to you, I deserve that coffee,, dont I...be nice now, dont be a spoil sport...LOL...( Ooooo, I'm waiting all ready with the content typed for the PM to be sent, provided that the answer to my question is YES...)...LOL...
Alright now I am pretty sure that the broomstick is just knocking on my window to my house...so I can open the window and get beaten up by that broomstick, but on a much serious note, you have an addiction to the broomstick dont ya girl, now come on, you have two good people talking to ya, and one of them is hitting big time on ya for that coffee, so put that broomstick away and wear your sweeter look...
Cool_Dude, LOL, no I am not married, still waiting for my knight in shinning armor. LOL I know he is somewhere, out there. Till he comes, I am keeping myself well prepared to indulge him in the love story he ever wished and wanted.
First of all, u made a wrong assumption that men DO infact dominate women. That is not the case in many relationships. However, in the cases that men are dominating is can be due to several reasons:
1- He has a dominating nature (women can be that way too): Many people have a bossy nature.
2- Superiority/inferiority complex: he feels insecure and the need to crush others in order to make himself feel better.
3- He was brought up in an environment in which it was normal was for the man to be dominating and each gender had specific roles.
Ofcourse a man should never dominate in all cases, nor should a woman. There should be balance and cooperation between the two.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Thexonic, all brainy, o man, had a good time decent enuff in Australia mate, not ready to go back to the West, as of now...
And I'm in no hurry to find that girl, Time will come, but aint I sounding hurry to catch this girl (witch with the broomstick)...sheeeeesh....LOL...
And getting the white babes to come to Qatar, naaaa...why would I want to do that now when we already have overflowing whites here mate...LOL...
And CoolDude....now now now, be a nice guy, and stand or rather get behind in the line, for this sweet girl, right now me and Thexonic, already are working on this Project named "Hopeless"...LOL, so dont you dare jump in mate...and blow us away...and further to that, as of now, we havent opened a line for this girl, so when we do open, we'll let ya know, just leave your name and number near the QL Secretary, and we'll inform you when the vacancy arises...
Tell u what, girls in states and canada, the blond ones hit on guys like u, cuz u r all brainy and all lol. They are easy goin, so u can join a datng site and find someone who will come to Qatar for u. Ofcourse im making u fantasize, but when ur eyes will open the dream will be over :P... Bro dont worry u will find her soon.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Jeeeeez, girl, was there so much meaning and thought process behind your name formation, now its quite clear, I'm not talking to one dumb blonde, but a babe with all the brains (atleast, the required bit), and who is also smart and kind, sweet(naaaa....not yet, she's not taken up the coffee offer)...LOL...So no wonder why both of us men are put to earn this girl out...LOL...aint that right Hopelessly....
Well My last comment got the PC computer, due to the niceness I was trying to put in...LOL...
Well just gone thru your posts quickly, yes Thexonic, this girl doesnt seem to anywhere close to the Blondes, (now I know I will get kicked with the blonde's broomstick...LOL)...this girl, sounds nice,
And Hopelessly, for you, i remember you saying, you are just liking me...christ girl, its been a long damn time, its bout time you start liking me...I cant wait all life...LOL...and regd the GIRL for me, thanks for the line, indeed lets wait and see what Life has to offer and who would that girl be...
As for now, dont you see, Girl, Hello, I'm actually hitting on you, for that cuppa coffee and you are inturn hitting me back with a broomstick...how mean...come on put that aside and take up that coffee offer...Lol...
I chose this name "hopelessly.devoted.2.u" because I am the type who hopelessly devote herself to people she loves. (love, friendship, family). Besides, the song "Hopelessly devoted to you" is my favorite song ever.
Being the best in the world should be titled based on what you did in your life, what you did to your family, what you did to your country, and sure what you did to God. Armani and Channel won't make us good people, it will only well dress us and hide what we are scared that people might know.
I myself wear brands, just to feel good and satisfy myself, not to impress. I use my mind and knowledge to impress only.
I adore Lebanon and trabo. Actually I love all the nice people all over the world no matter what is their nationality or religion. Life is short to waste it in judging people and differenciate. Whoever proves to be a nice well mannered person is proudly called my friend.
The story is not limited to armani and D&G.. its beyond that. Now u see I would buy my wife all that stuff, but the girls i was talking about are like those books that can be judged by their cover. I mean I myself wear stuff like Sean Jean and Acadamics, but that wont change the peson that i am inside, I wont start thinking that i'm the best one in the world. But those girls they do.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Yes I know, not all of them are like that, some are like me and u, some people r insane . Some baddon boza, like me lol. I have seen alot of lebanese girls who are very amazing, some r even my friends. I dont care I love lebanon in any case.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
i somehow believe.. there is nothing wrong in the armani d&g galz.. dont we guys dream of bentley's & lambo's.. its like that for them..(i think) but... the extremes are a NO NO.. but someone wants to get it.. i dont see a reason they shudnt..
THExonic, LOL I know inno aghlab el Lebanese girls hon rekdeen wara el masari, so sad. But do not judge a nation for some fugitives. Everyone on earth has his own beauty somewhere deep inside, you have to dig and seach. Never judge based on one mistake or wrong principle. People are changable when they find what they are looking for. No one is perfect so do not expect that in a million years. The best thing to do is to find yourself a better half who is very near to what you want, the rest you can tolerate out of love.
I know there are alot of girls in this world who are not like that. But u know man, most of the girls i've seen in qatar ( lebanese girls ) are one of those dolls who like to wear dolce and gabbana and armani kind of stuff and they dont just wear it, they think they are the best in this world. Which is something i hate the most. Now hoplessely is a smart girl and she's not one of them I agree. All i'm saying is that these kind of girls are alot in qatar.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
HOPELESSLY... i never referred to you. I was talking about lebanese girls in general. Actually if u wernt an american lebanese, u might have been a little like them. Read my last comment about, if u were one of those girls. U wouldnt have said something smart like u did right now.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
THEXONIC, with do all respect to your last comment, I am a Lebanese American, and very far from being A CHANNEL GIRL (although I adore girly brands LOL and looking so elegent). Search for the inner girl, and stay away from the well shaped branded dolls.
Lets wait and seee how things go, buddy, alright, not tooo much to vouch for in Dolce, Armaani girls, well again exceptions are there everywhere...so take it easy mate, and keep your eyes open buddy, you just never know where you could find one...
And as for you Hopeless...how much time is left in the earnings part, this looks more tougher than my monthly job, this daily job is getting tougher, girl, you better make some nice coffee, for all the earnings that I am doing...LOL...why do I feel that you are ready to type, "Bad News, I dont make or drink coffee", so for that, well then, a nice place around the corner street should do a good bonus for the cuppa coffee....LOL...
kteer sha6oora inti w 100% sa7. Ana ma ba faker 3an massari, bas hon b hal balad kil bint yalli bin shoof badha massari w 3ishe mitl malika lol. I like your attitude. Tab shu raik 3an l ehwe?? hehehe
It's always the small things that make big differences.
ksarat, I started liking you man! You express your thoughts gently with some smart phrases! I am sure one day you will find THE girl. THE girl will only find her way to pure honest hearts. Keep it up.
Dude u will get the girl first. Bcause the kind of girl i want is rare to find in this world. I'm not into one of those Dolce and Gabana / Armani girls...
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, el massari ne7na menjeeba ma hiyee betjeebna, besides, happiness we can create min wala shi, mish daroory el masari tkon el sabab. Happiness is a state in mind created min el so7bi el 7elwi wel e7ses el 7elo. iza wa7ad ma3o masari w 3a2lo fadi sho badi fi?
True indeed, nothing is there in money other than all the worldy fantasies and luxuries that you could get, but then again this ONE girl, can change a lot in your life...so lets wait and see who gets the girl first mate...(not this girl), but THE Girl, anyways, about this girl, dont mind if we both go on that cofffee...Lol....
ANd regarding me being a nice person, for christ girl, ofcourse I am a nice person, cant you see, I m taking this whole conversation between you both patiently...LOL, what else would ya want...at one point there were English Subtitles, but now they have seemed to get cut out of the script...LOL...
harsha, this is the slang way in writing arabic in an english way. People created it to make their life easy since not all arabic letters can be expressed in an english form. you can find this only online.
Well like i said if i can give my everything for the perfect lebanese girl i can survive her. But Ksarat I am not sure if u r gonna be ready for that game. See for me money doesnt matter as long as the girl is worth it.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
But hey who isnt like that...not only Lebs, but am sure all the lovely ladies...but then for once, a big price to pay, hey, was thats why referring to a place only where ya get coffee away from alllllllllll the shopppppping in the world....LOL...
It looks to me like a bloddy movie with English Subtitles, atleast there are subtitles,
Alright Hopeless, we understand that MAN has yet to come, but till that time, we TWO MEN can keep you company, and now get down to business, coffeeeeeeeee........
Alright no coffeeeeeee...how about a freaking McDonalds 1 Riyal Ice Cream mate...
dude trust me if ur nto a lebanese u dont want to go for them. there's a big price to pay for it. They dont only go for coffee,... they even go for ur credit card and ur bank account lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Indeed girl, bad news, but dont you think you are missing a point, it is MY cup of coffee and for you, anything you like ...at that place...ha ha ha...got ya again girl, LOL...
Dont make me come out there with my BROOMSTICK and give you both the whipping that you both deserve for talking in Leb just before when I was getting my due cuppa...
I'm warning you both, I will give you both the whipping with your broomstick...Hopeless....LOL
Arabic that can interest a LEb girl for my cup of coffee which I deserve truly...(now I m going to get a smacking on the head, for taking that coffee for granted...LOL)....
I had a gut feeling, that I might be running the race not tha well equipped due to the lack of understanding of Arabic, sheeeeeesh, but then still, atleast noone in the race except Thexonic, which I'm sure he wouldn't mind to teach me a bit of Arabic mate...LOL
You take a lot of pride in hard work right, you make us EARN every thing, and regarding the broomstick accompanying you, hmmmmm, danger situation for me, but still, who knows, whats in store at the end of the broomstick tunnel...for me...:LOL...
And come on, well, the statement is widely true to ane xtent, there are always exceptions right...see you are yourself an exception (inarrogant person)...in the same way, you are talking to an exception...LOL (Got ya, LOL, now you cant deny the statement....woooo hoooo, getting closer to my cup of coffee- just can feel the vibes and smell the coffee at a distance...LOL)....
Speaking of earning, well as one said earlier, you better be worth that earnings that have to be done for that cup of coffee...LOL
I can sense myself getting lucky with a cup of coffee, and I can see you putting that broomstick away...LOL..slowly and steadily...I am pretty sure, by the evening that broom stick would have made way for a cup of coffee..LOL...(I like to put my words in others minds...before they start realizing the other way...LOL)...
I'm sure you arent arrogant, and you dont sound yet, and for me to be grateful and thankful for God to make you this way, I have to get my cup of coffee...LOL...again, I dont leave any stone unturned mate...;)
ksarat16, LOL nice comment. I am not, and will never be arrogant about anything which is not mine. I don't own myself, and sure did not create myself the way I am. I am only grateful and thankful.
By the way, Tom & Jerry are my favorite, besides Timon & Pumba. LOL
Interesting, in all this discussion, girl, you seem tohave forgotten my cup of coffee...better not alright...;)
ANd rightly said, there, it all matters right from within inside, and it just keeps getting better and better till it reaches outside, infact the more better it is inside, the much more better it is when you get outside...and to be a little frank, you do sound like a good person, (jst sound, now dont start flattering yourself alright...get back on the ground)...and whats with you and the broomstick girl, you are beginning to sound like a Witch from one of those Tom and Jerry Cartoons, who is always with a Magical Broomstick, take it easy and the most important part, you are single, now thats the best thing I have heard from you, Now I surely want my cup of coffee girl...what do ya say...without the broomstick please...lOL
Take my word for it. The day she picks up the broom, that would be the last day i'd see her face. If she'd be ungreatful than that's not the kind of woman i would wnat in my life.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, take my word on that, even a queen with a nice shinning classy royal stick, will use the stick as a broomstick when needed. Ask a female! LOL
The beauty that matters is the inside beauty. I am not so proud about my beauty as much as I am proud of my inner one, and sure my beautiful broomstick. LOL My "man-to-be" will be the luckiest (humbly), because my broomstick will always remind him how faithful he should be. LOL no GALA GALA games.
Dont worry, I wont be walking backwards cuz i'll know when it will be the right time to walk that mile and i know it will be the best mile that I would have ever walked in my life.
Too bad my wife wont have to wait for a broom stick, cuz thats not something that queens do. But then she will have to be worthy of that level.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
You sure are a person to be met in real life...rather than in reel life...
Look at that tantrums being thrown here...Lol...girl you sure sound quite ready with that freaking broom, pity your man :(... I just hope (if you have a man that is), he knows what kinda danger he is keeping in life...LOL...
And Lebanese means, you have gotto be beautiful, so the necessity to meet up makes it more interesting, (I sort of guessed it from other posts from a chap posting about Lebanese girls in particular, O dont they look steamy and cute)...
what goes around comes around doubled. You don't wanna be fooled by the woman in your life, so treat her like a queen, and TRY TO GET USED TO THE BROOMSTICK. LOL live it, love it, get used to it.
You are making me quite curious about yourself now girl, how lucrative you are getting...ofcourse this needs some Profile checking...(*Looking into your profile*)...Lol...
And yes, one day when I do have a wife, I'm sure she will be waiting with a broomstick, thats why I dont play dominance...its an fair and square game aint it...
And as far as you are concerned, are you new on QL girl, never seen this much confidence and attitude flowing out for a long time, ofcourse with a touch of spice and humour looks to be...(Didn't I sum you up perfectly...now do I get that cup of coffee from ya girl...)LOL...And it is coffee pls, not broomstick...
U will be surprised how untypical i am. See the thing is, if the girl is worth it then i would give it all even if it takes me to beg or walk an extra mile.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
ksarat, experience your manhood dominance outside as much as you want, in the end of the day we will be waiting near the door with a long BROOM stick. LOL
Now come on girl, where in my words did ya find that I would want to domincate the ladies, I was just playing a bit of the lighter side that we guys get to live like that only out of the house (ofcourse when the wife's not around) and certainly no dominance in the house...Now do ya get it...
So having said that, where is my cup of coffee that I get for being so nice...;)
hehe.. nadt ksarat well said.. braggin about dominating d wife outside.. but still jumpin when the wife calls... there is an indication there.. hehe.. so the inside story is quite clear...
kasarat16, why? Anyone is after you these days? Then I guess you are lucky man!
The so called "men dominate women" is simply "men's illusion" they like to do it and think they are. But if you give it a great thought, eventually, women are dominating men smoothly. LOL
ladies why is it that nowadays you gals are behind the men, leave us alone a little, come on its only outside that we get to think we are the bosses, i mean everyone know whats the inside story of the house, so take it easy, and let it go like that...come on give us a little freedom...atleast outside the house...:P...LOL...
Speaking of dominance...well, whats stronger love or dominance (EGO), I would say Love, so why should one find a place for dominance in a relationship...go along hand in hand people, its much easier, no need to look back or too front, jus look to the side and u have ur partner there right next to you...it always is the best way to go...
Now all you lovely ladies, you can always start falling for a man with this mentality cant ya...LOL( my PMs service is activated for y'll)....;)
This is a funny question. Yes men like to think they dominate thier women..and brag about being the boss to their friends, until you see the men with their women and suddenly they turn from roaring lions to cats..
No one can dominate a person, unless they give them a chance to do so. Our culture permits men to dominate... Male domination is prominent in places where women are behind men in all aspects like age, financial stability, physical strength etc.. Most important how they are brought up in their family, If a man see his father dominating his mother and vice versa...they tend to follow the same when they grow up....
I think its a mans nature. They cannot overcome this. I think both of them should equally dominate each other.I think man should dominate 10% more but plz never suppress ur woman.
Look it all begain with Adam...he was created first..and then came Eve...so when Eve came she was scared of all the wild animals and kitty cats that were roaming around, so she turns to Adam and says "oh ur so brave" and then Adam takes Eve showing her around the garden of Eden..and since then women have always been that way. :) end of discussion.
Just a set up that the men folk created and the women followed. some women of the past encouraged it too. Sadly, most women are looking for comfort and security. something which is destroying them at a slow pace.
i watched one sit-com the other day and i've heard sth so funny but true...the man was saying "it's not me or my wife who's the boss in the house-it's the children! everyday i feel closer to her, coz the fear of our kids unites us"
LOL!
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
its just that who chooses to take the responsobilties and decisions.. if the man takes and the girl follows.. its men dominated... else its the other way round..
its not always that men are dominating women. women too dominate men in many cases. however, man tends to see himself as the superior breed and believes that woman should succumb to his wish and command. this is when the dominance happens. however, all men are not like that. i know men who treat women like equals.
i believe that men and women are not equals. there are some fields where a man cannot be better than a woman and vice versa. the best part is to accept this and live a happy balance life.
not at all. i actually know lots of men who like women to be in charge. they enjoy it-less responsibilities!
besides, more and more of the "new generation" have developed their feminine side...they even have a name for that, but i actually forgot it.
that allows them to keep their ego and self-esteem on a healthy level, so they don't have to have that macho behavior and they don't feel threatened by women at any point or family of carrer level.
surely, we all know the ones who have it the other way-but i guess they just have issues with themselves, been raised in the sort of families and societies where it is a normal thing. you can fight it, but mostly won't win with it, coz it's something planted inside.
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
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Women can dominate men by giving them extreme Love......
Try it....it really works.
U know what... lets just forget about this thing... it's never gonna end. Lets just agree to disagree... I understand there are people who are different in this world and for me I respect everyone that is worth respecting. I respect u too for being married at a small age... it has its own advantages. But at the end of the day we both know that no one is gonna change their opinion, so might aswell accept the differences and move on.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
"Be Like a Flower, Which gives off it's fragrance even to the hand that crushes it"--- Imam Ali (A.S)
If i say most of the people are not like that wouldn't i be generalizing ???
Oh and talking about how stupid they are... i wont say anything the results are in iraq, the results were on 9/11... U know how many muslims were attacked by americans after 9/11... Every muslim was in fear after 9/11... wonder what the reason would be???
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic,How is when you say "most of the people" not generalizing? Unless you meant most of the people are NOT like that?? And saying that I am not listening to you because I am pointing out the flaws in your argument?I never said the west was perfect, but neither is the east. What I want is for you to stop judging Americans based on fictional characters in movies and tv and claiming that all americans are stupid because of what you have seen in these tv shows and movies. tra la la
I really wish it.
anyway I must go to bed! tut tut - I'm supposed to be out by 7.30! YIKES
5 hours sleep - ut oh
niters x
Oh and on the peaceful thing, about churches, mosques, cinagogues or whatever - YES they are peaceful and a bit scary too!!!! :D
Allrite Jauntie... thanks for the info today.. it was nice talkin to u :). Nighty night.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Sure i would love to hear about it... u have alot of intresting stories... I miss my friends, I used to go to church sometimes with them and they used to tell stories from Bible... It was very intresting and it felt kinda peaceful... Any holy place seems peaceful, weather its mosque or church or a temple.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
you know I hedged my bets when I was offered holy water from a spring, in Turkey, at the site where Mary was taken by John, after the crucifiction of her son (yes I did say her son).
I thought ... well ... who knows - maybe .... oh heck, I'll take a cup to be on the safe side :D
funny old life isn't it.
thexonic - I went to the Garden of Eden when we were in Iraq - remind me to tell you about it some time :/
lol u know what forget it... u keep saying that i generalize it when i said most of the people. There's no point of arguing with u, when u keep ignoring everything i say and just read whatever u feel like reading. I give u the oppertunity of doubt and say u r correct allrite... the whole west is as clean as the water in heaven.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Excuse me Theexonic, but I just got out of my teens. No one I knew got booed because they didnt loose their virginity on prom night. What is wrong with leaving home after high school graduation and being mature enough tosupport yourself??
America is made up of people from all over the world of every religion, and you cannot generalize based on what you saw on TV!
Just because you see it in movies or on tv does not mean thats how life is. Get real teenagers are not like the movie American Pie.
tra la la
anyway, it's a big world and there have always been teenagers. Some do, some don't, toe the line.
Nothing's changed. Hormones are hormones and they are STILL hormones with or without books and films.
What little 4 or 5 year year old girl or boy hasn't played 'show me yours, I'll show you mine' given half a chance.
It's Thexonic for u princess lol... hey i know ur on my side, thanx ur a good friend :D. I am always chilled out.. soo much that it makes me fall asleep sometimes :S
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Thex dude
chill out!
lol.. I'm on your side.. Most of the time! Just don't knock it till you try it ;)
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
Princess.. I know, I didnt say all of them were like that. I just said most of them, may be 60% of them.
Oh and i dont watch tv... i only use it for video games lol. I have sattelite in my room and i havent touched it in ages. Not a big fan of it.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
you have been watching too much tv thexonic. Its true that Americans do not share the same value as Arabs, Indians, and Muslims. But that doesn't mean they don't know how to love.
For instance, how many eastern men do you know who are willing to marry a women and take care of her children as if they are his own? Or eastern countries who protect a womens rights?
I guarantee that if more women had rights in eastern countries alot of you guys would have went bye bye aloooooooooooong time ago!
Jauntie
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
No the upcoming generation is not stupid. They are influenced by Television way too much, thats all i'm saying. I haven't been to USA but i've been to an american school. I know how it is over there, people are not stupid, they are just confused. Compare the times when u were a teenager and compare the teeens now a days. U will see the difference yourself. I don't need to generalise it. Specially when they have the rule of "go to your room" or "you are grounded" how does that help anyway. I have american friends and most of them left their houses and lived on their own since they were teenagers, some dont even follow their own relegion. Isn't it true that people boo those who dont loose their virginity on the prom night... thats what i've seen and heard. I'm judging based upon what i've seen and what i've heard, practically and on tv.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
I think we could get along :D
yeah lol.. The secret to happiness means always taking sides with your mother in law! Works a charm!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
theexonic,
maybe tv has blinded you and you are feeding into generalizations. So the upcoming generation is stupid??? And why do you say this? Have you lived in the USA? Gone to school in the USA? Or is it based on what you have seen and heard on TV???
tra la la
"Behind every successful man is a surprised mother-in-law".
Hee
same the world over, yes?
I think attitudes will change in the UK very soon. Most 2nd generations are not like their parents and have access to education (thank you british ;)
And even back in pakistan they don't do these things anymore. You'll find people from pakistan more modern and sort of with it then pakistanis who came to work in the UK 30 years ago.
so things are changing!
Yes I do think family influence has alot to do with things. Its mainly a problem with the guys mom in that she can be jealous of the wife at times! So really depends on family dynamics. Its not always the case and less so these days, though still existant.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
happily ONLY one or two ..... :D
not any more
isn't going to show much difference in the attitudes? Oh my.
Well I know there are cases in the news in UK about forced marriages amongst certain cultures.
But getting back to the topic of this thread and 'why do men dominate' ... I can't really imagine the men involved in these marriages can really like the idea either. Surely not ...
Is it the parents, who don't want to lose face amongst their piers? Bit like that film 'East is East'?
When a gujarati loves it is usually for life. My little girl is very much like this MashAllah! Its amazing.. and must be inherited or something.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
Jauntie.. trying being friends with some of these girls. And the bengali community is pretty backwards in this regards too .
One of my best friends went for holiday in pakistan without her parents (to a village in mirpur) And while there was married and trapped in the house for a year. Raped and got pregnant with her first child. Then had to sign for the guy to come back to England! Very sad and thankfully he committed a crime and ran to saudi to avoid prosecution! (she is now happily married to an energentic man 7 years younger then her. :)
I met another women who was hindu from India and she married a guy that was like 60 years old and she was 15. In the uk, they had no heating in the house. She was forced to sleep on the floor and the health visitor actually went out and bought her neccessities when he passed away only 6 years and 5 children later.
p.s. Gujarat is an area of India.. the muslim men are known for loyalty to their wives! And are not known to hit their women (unlike other groups of indians)
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
On a different tack, I've just started reading a book called 'Brick Lane' (I think PH would know where Brick Lane is in London). It's about an 18 year old Bangladeshi who has an arranged marriage to a 40 year old nice man. It's set in 1968. I'm only on Chapter 2, but I'm already fascinated as to the outcome of this girl's life.
The writer was born in Bangladesh and brought up in England. Monica Ali.
So far the story has me gripped. The book was written about 5 years ago, but she was nominated for loads of prizes at the time.
yeah thexonic.. Should we light a candle flame.. lol
or bite our love hard on the lips should they go anywhere. At least they will remember us..
or maybe we could kill them if they ever think of leaving us. Extreme wouldn't you agree.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
Well there might be true love, im sure. But the media has blinded alot of people over there. Just like back in india or pakistan they are crazy about television and to be honest they do what they see on tv and they are adapting the life style. They think what's on tv is right. Alot of people have lost their opinions. But then there are alot of other people who believe in doing the right hting, or they realise sometime in their life that what they are doing is wrong.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
azilana7037 said (to nadt) did i heard someone meowed :-P ...
or is it my mobile phone's message alert...lol
See Azilana.....even your mobile knows who really dominate.....meow
Gee i left this thread for few hours and it turned into a Lebanese pick up line script...lol..............
Thexonic it is a bit of a stereotype to say that the western world doesn't know about love! Although, being married to a gujrati has certainly opened up my eyes to a new meaning of love and loyalty. Many Americans might call it obsession and deem it unhealthy!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
Jasskat its not me who says that, thats what i see on tv. Now i know there are very few people who are actually nice. But there are dumb people in a large quantity too. U might be one of those lucky ones. But may be u dont see the upcoming generation.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
marriage takes alot of sacrifice from both sides. The unhappiest married people I have ever met are those where the partners have no choice but to stay in the marriage. Like in forced arranged marriages.
Anyway.. I love a strong man.. but not forceful. He has to be pretty clever and confident to persuade me with his love! :).
Question of the century is why do men alway think they are right?
Don't they realize that women are smarter than them?
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
perhaps. At least I think it does lol
Theexonic
This comment of yours is really rude: "If u look at americans, most of them are dumb and they do the most stupid thing in this world about having relationship and then breaking up over and over..."
Breaking up and divorce happens all over the world, just look at Qatar's own rising divorce rate...
I am American, I am happily married and plan to stay that way thank you very much.
tra la la
Jauntie...well, that word momkin, just went right above me...:(
Harsha, naa bondha, coffee...emi ayindi, modda kudisi poyindi...LOL....
but I think you did at least get a "momkin", so be happy lol
>>>Cool_Dude, LOL, no I am not married, still waiting
>>>for my knight in shinning armor.
Oh.. can some one tell me a place from where I can get a shining armour ?
sarat.. emmi aindi? coffee kosam eltunnava leda?
NAaaaa,, girl, I really dont think anyone would take a chance with you in regards to Dominance...LOL...
And to hopeless...alright buddy, till the next time, it was nice having you on board, you should join us on one of the outings...
Alright, cheers and take care and keep that smile running buddy, somebody told me you look good with that on....(Alright alright, thats it that was a last scoring point...LOL)......
even though i dint talk to ya much.. still i was just readin thru all ur messages.. so bye bye gal...
Now come on be a nice girl, why would I want to be in your WILDEST DReams, Yet,,,naaaa...I was talking of Plain Reality....LOL...Again, I scored....LOL....Now come on Hopeless...be a good girl...
oh i thought he said he was takin the pain for the coffee..
Ofcourse dominance isn't required. Heck, I would never let a man dominate me nor would I want to dominate him. But that's my personal choice, others many disagree.
I completely disagree with the author of this thread. But I was just trying to tell u boys that reality is sometimes differen than we'd thought.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Guys it was a real pleasure spending time communication with you. It is always nice to have new friends who can listen, understand and communicate wisely. Till we meet again here, take care all, stay safe, and don't forget that good chances & good people are always behind the corner, so keep alerted.
Me, Myself, & I
xonic.. ksarat.. gettin to know u guys a bit here..after all the discussions we are having.. uh uh.. i mean u guys are having..
harsha, in the wildest dreams ever. LOL
Me, Myself, & I
LOL, Here she comes, Corne wasn't I missing you girl,
Right, every relation is unique, but then again, there is a slight difference in the word dominance to its usage, here in this thread, this person, was asking about sheer outstraight dominance, and that was what we are addressing to (Correct me if I'm wrong Thexonic)...
Again having said that, every relation is a masterpiece creation on its own by the individual participating stars in that...so dominance in lovely relations, is upto the inividual performers, but overall, dominance is something that Isnt required in a relation...or rather Blind Dominance...how does that sound Corne..
so ksarat.. hopelessly.. finally coffee is done is it?
4 years ago i was with this palestinian girl, we were really happy togather. U know what kept my relation going on, it was the trust. She had blind trust on me and so did i. I believe in this thing about " treat someone teh way u want to be treated". If i wanted to cheat on her, i could have doen it any time of the day, but what would i have gained... nothing but shame. One day a girl did come up to me and asked me if i wanted to go to club with her at that time, i told her no. Cuz I would be hurt if my girl would do such thing with me, if someone asked her out and she went. I know its hard to resist a girl, but not for me.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
OMG, boys awake up! Ur not in fantasy land! Geez I thought men were supposed to be the realistic ones not the romantic ones!
I agree with all that ur saying, but that's not how reality works alot of the times. Sometimes husbands loves their wives to death but still dominate. Dominance doesn't always mess everything up, each relationship is unique. Some people like to dominate, others like to be dominated, and u have a match! So u can't generalize. Wake up boys, life isn't all about roses and pink bunnies
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Well Harsha, you see here mate, these little pains of typing should be ignored cos these are the efforts being put inorder to earn that coffee with Hopeless...LOL...That was a winner down the line...wasn't it Hopeless...LOL....
oh my.. arent ur hands paining typing so much.. xonic and ksarat?
Rightly said, I mean I have said it earlier, saying it again,
Where there is LOVE there shouldnt be a place for Dominance, can screw up the whole system, Dominance comes with EGO, and trust me when I say that, there shouldnt be a thing called Ego in a relation, I mean, relations live on understandings and compromises, its either from the guy or from the lady, and sometimes it has to or rather, most of the times, it has to be from both the ends, thats how relations continue to be living cos once that is gone then there is no love and thats about it when things start falling apart...
And very rarely people make a valiant and an honest effort (again leaving Ego) out of the situation and trying to resolve the matter , people dont do that, and this time its a Final Bye Bye to the relation...
O well, when will the people understand, Love, TRUST, SINCERITY, COMPROMISE, HUMOUR, NOT TAKING THE PARTNER FOR GRANTED AND NOT LETTING THEM HAVE THEIR 2 CENTS IN DECISION MAKING AND AGAIN A LOT OF LOVE KEEPS THE RELATION GOING STRONG....
Come on girls, I know you are reading this....PMs are welcome..LOL...I just love to play it all apart...
Well said thexonic.
To dominate and be dominated should be done willingly just for fun or some nice feelings of being owned by the person you love. But the truth is, men and women should treat eachother with fairness and trust. Don't they say "treat people they way you like to be treated?" What you give is what you get, and successful relationships normally are based on giving spaces to breath (to a limit). We are humans and sometimes we just like to spare ourselves from our life for a change. Give trust and space, if your partner abuse it, then he or she were never meant to be.
Dominate in your mind not in actions.
Me, Myself, & I
"I will give my wife all the happiness in this world, but i would expect
the same from her and if she will be unfair to me, i wont let her. U
have to treat her with fairness and she has to do the same for u, this
is how a married life work"
---> I disagree. This is how marriage is SUPPOSED to work; however, in reality it can be very different. Many men and women are in abusive relationships, whether phsyical or emotional, for one reason or another. So although we think that everyone should have equal partnerships, it's not the case.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
U know i dont believe in dominations... no one can dominate no one, if they are brave and have enough courage to defend themselves. U see I will give my wife all the happiness in this world, but i would expect the same from her and if she will be unfair to me, i wont let her. U have to treat her with fairness and she has to do the same for u, this is how a married life works. If u look at americans, most of them are dumb and they do the most stupid thing in this world about having relationship and then breaking up over and over... soo much that it becomes a habit and they become more sesnestive by the day... its just ridiculous. SOo much that some day if the guy's wife asks him to get something from the store they would sit and cry about it and then start drinking lol. Thats not the way to live. The best ways to live in this world are the traditional ways, thats what is called being openminded, to agree to disagree.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Thexonic, well rightly said i guess it just slipped I should calling people I dont know Babe, (even if she is one...LOL), thanks mate for the tipper...
Alright, now back to Hopeless...O well, buddy, was right here, jus absent for a moment, alright now that I have got you thinking quite a lot, and giving that rare smile to you, I deserve that coffee,, dont I...be nice now, dont be a spoil sport...LOL...( Ooooo, I'm waiting all ready with the content typed for the PM to be sent, provided that the answer to my question is YES...)...LOL...
Alright now I am pretty sure that the broomstick is just knocking on my window to my house...so I can open the window and get beaten up by that broomstick, but on a much serious note, you have an addiction to the broomstick dont ya girl, now come on, you have two good people talking to ya, and one of them is hitting big time on ya for that coffee, so put that broomstick away and wear your sweeter look...
Cool_Dude, LOL, no I am not married, still waiting for my knight in shinning armor. LOL I know he is somewhere, out there. Till he comes, I am keeping myself well prepared to indulge him in the love story he ever wished and wanted.
Me, Myself, & I
First of all, u made a wrong assumption that men DO infact dominate women. That is not the case in many relationships. However, in the cases that men are dominating is can be due to several reasons:
1- He has a dominating nature (women can be that way too): Many people have a bossy nature.
2- Superiority/inferiority complex: he feels insecure and the need to crush others in order to make himself feel better.
3- He was brought up in an environment in which it was normal was for the man to be dominating and each gender had specific roles.
Ofcourse a man should never dominate in all cases, nor should a woman. There should be balance and cooperation between the two.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
Thexonic, all brainy, o man, had a good time decent enuff in Australia mate, not ready to go back to the West, as of now...
And I'm in no hurry to find that girl, Time will come, but aint I sounding hurry to catch this girl (witch with the broomstick)...sheeeeesh....LOL...
And getting the white babes to come to Qatar, naaaa...why would I want to do that now when we already have overflowing whites here mate...LOL...
And CoolDude....now now now, be a nice guy, and stand or rather get behind in the line, for this sweet girl, right now me and Thexonic, already are working on this Project named "Hopeless"...LOL, so dont you dare jump in mate...and blow us away...and further to that, as of now, we havent opened a line for this girl, so when we do open, we'll let ya know, just leave your name and number near the QL Secretary, and we'll inform you when the vacancy arises...
YOU JUST PUT A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE KSARAT16.
I should hit you with my broomstick for sneaking out this conversation. LOL where were you ADMIT now before my magical Broom works automatically.
Me, Myself, & I
Oh and never call a girl that is not ur girl friend babe.... NEVER EVER, It's an insult man.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
>>>I chose this name "hopelessly.devoted.2.u" because I am the type who
>>>hopelessly devote herself to people she loves.
Are you married ?
Tell u what, girls in states and canada, the blond ones hit on guys like u, cuz u r all brainy and all lol. They are easy goin, so u can join a datng site and find someone who will come to Qatar for u. Ofcourse im making u fantasize, but when ur eyes will open the dream will be over :P... Bro dont worry u will find her soon.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Jeeeeez, girl, was there so much meaning and thought process behind your name formation, now its quite clear, I'm not talking to one dumb blonde, but a babe with all the brains (atleast, the required bit), and who is also smart and kind, sweet(naaaa....not yet, she's not taken up the coffee offer)...LOL...So no wonder why both of us men are put to earn this girl out...LOL...aint that right Hopelessly....
oh.. now i get it.. gettin all pricey just coz u have armani d&g hugo is wat u r talkin about...
ya.. now thats a NO NO
thanks 3ayonik l 7ilween :D
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Sorrry caught up elsewhere...
Well My last comment got the PC computer, due to the niceness I was trying to put in...LOL...
Well just gone thru your posts quickly, yes Thexonic, this girl doesnt seem to anywhere close to the Blondes, (now I know I will get kicked with the blonde's broomstick...LOL)...this girl, sounds nice,
And Hopelessly, for you, i remember you saying, you are just liking me...christ girl, its been a long damn time, its bout time you start liking me...I cant wait all life...LOL...and regd the GIRL for me, thanks for the line, indeed lets wait and see what Life has to offer and who would that girl be...
As for now, dont you see, Girl, Hello, I'm actually hitting on you, for that cuppa coffee and you are inturn hitting me back with a broomstick...how mean...come on put that aside and take up that coffee offer...Lol...
ma3 ino your nickname 7elo
Me, Myself, & I
Thats a smart one. I dont even know why did i come up with the xonic, or what does it even mean lol. U r a very smart person.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
I chose this name "hopelessly.devoted.2.u" because I am the type who hopelessly devote herself to people she loves. (love, friendship, family). Besides, the song "Hopelessly devoted to you" is my favorite song ever.
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Ur magic is definetly working. u should change ur name to full of hope. I dont understand why u chose such name.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Being the best in the world should be titled based on what you did in your life, what you did to your family, what you did to your country, and sure what you did to God. Armani and Channel won't make us good people, it will only well dress us and hide what we are scared that people might know.
I myself wear brands, just to feel good and satisfy myself, not to impress. I use my mind and knowledge to impress only.
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That's very true. Now that's the kind of girl that i would want to be dominated by :D.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
I adore Lebanon and trabo. Actually I love all the nice people all over the world no matter what is their nationality or religion. Life is short to waste it in judging people and differenciate. Whoever proves to be a nice well mannered person is proudly called my friend.
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The story is not limited to armani and D&G.. its beyond that. Now u see I would buy my wife all that stuff, but the girls i was talking about are like those books that can be judged by their cover. I mean I myself wear stuff like Sean Jean and Acadamics, but that wont change the peson that i am inside, I wont start thinking that i'm the best one in the world. But those girls they do.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Yes I know, not all of them are like that, some are like me and u, some people r insane . Some baddon boza, like me lol. I have seen alot of lebanese girls who are very amazing, some r even my friends. I dont care I love lebanon in any case.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
i somehow believe.. there is nothing wrong in the armani d&g galz.. dont we guys dream of bentley's & lambo's.. its like that for them..(i think) but... the extremes are a NO NO.. but someone wants to get it.. i dont see a reason they shudnt..
THExonic, LOL I know inno aghlab el Lebanese girls hon rekdeen wara el masari, so sad. But do not judge a nation for some fugitives. Everyone on earth has his own beauty somewhere deep inside, you have to dig and seach. Never judge based on one mistake or wrong principle. People are changable when they find what they are looking for. No one is perfect so do not expect that in a million years. The best thing to do is to find yourself a better half who is very near to what you want, the rest you can tolerate out of love.
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I know there are alot of girls in this world who are not like that. But u know man, most of the girls i've seen in qatar ( lebanese girls ) are one of those dolls who like to wear dolce and gabbana and armani kind of stuff and they dont just wear it, they think they are the best in this world. Which is something i hate the most. Now hoplessely is a smart girl and she's not one of them I agree. All i'm saying is that these kind of girls are alot in qatar.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
HOPELESSLY... i never referred to you. I was talking about lebanese girls in general. Actually if u wernt an american lebanese, u might have been a little like them. Read my last comment about, if u were one of those girls. U wouldnt have said something smart like u did right now.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
THEXONIC, with do all respect to your last comment, I am a Lebanese American, and very far from being A CHANNEL GIRL (although I adore girly brands LOL and looking so elegent). Search for the inner girl, and stay away from the well shaped branded dolls.
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Lets wait and seee how things go, buddy, alright, not tooo much to vouch for in Dolce, Armaani girls, well again exceptions are there everywhere...so take it easy mate, and keep your eyes open buddy, you just never know where you could find one...
And as for you Hopeless...how much time is left in the earnings part, this looks more tougher than my monthly job, this daily job is getting tougher, girl, you better make some nice coffee, for all the earnings that I am doing...LOL...why do I feel that you are ready to type, "Bad News, I dont make or drink coffee", so for that, well then, a nice place around the corner street should do a good bonus for the cuppa coffee....LOL...
kteer sha6oora inti w 100% sa7. Ana ma ba faker 3an massari, bas hon b hal balad kil bint yalli bin shoof badha massari w 3ishe mitl malika lol. I like your attitude. Tab shu raik 3an l ehwe?? hehehe
It's always the small things that make big differences.
ksarat, I started liking you man! You express your thoughts gently with some smart phrases! I am sure one day you will find THE girl. THE girl will only find her way to pure honest hearts. Keep it up.
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well.. in dat case.. i shud learn arabic first..
Dude u will get the girl first. Bcause the kind of girl i want is rare to find in this world. I'm not into one of those Dolce and Gabana / Armani girls...
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, el massari ne7na menjeeba ma hiyee betjeebna, besides, happiness we can create min wala shi, mish daroory el masari tkon el sabab. Happiness is a state in mind created min el so7bi el 7elwi wel e7ses el 7elo. iza wa7ad ma3o masari w 3a2lo fadi sho badi fi?
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la walao, ana shab kteer mo7taram w nice w bakoon amoor 2ad ma badik mitl Gentle man lol.
True indeed, nothing is there in money other than all the worldy fantasies and luxuries that you could get, but then again this ONE girl, can change a lot in your life...so lets wait and see who gets the girl first mate...(not this girl), but THE Girl, anyways, about this girl, dont mind if we both go on that cofffee...Lol....
ANd regarding me being a nice person, for christ girl, ofcourse I am a nice person, cant you see, I m taking this whole conversation between you both patiently...LOL, what else would ya want...at one point there were English Subtitles, but now they have seemed to get cut out of the script...LOL...
Harsha its not only in lebanese, its in all arabic. No.s are a part of the typing stuff lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
harsha, this is the slang way in writing arabic in an english way. People created it to make their life easy since not all arabic letters can be expressed in an english form. you can find this only online.
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Iza l massari doesnt matter to u, lazim ra7 fakir 3anik aktar lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
la walao, ana shab kteer mo7taram w nice w bakoon amoor 2ad ma badik mitl Gentle man lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
seriously.. now it makes me feel i shud learn lebanese... numbers are part of words???
thexonic, for me, money doesnt count and matters if he doesnt worth it. LOL go hopelessly goooooooo
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thexonic, yeeeeeeee 3alik sho Lebneni aseeel. nefsi fi w tfoooo 3alih. LOL at least jarreb tkon shway amoor w nice 7atta fakker bel mawdoo3.
7aset innak 7atodrobni 3ala shway la 2ol eh. heheheheheh
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Well like i said if i can give my everything for the perfect lebanese girl i can survive her. But Ksarat I am not sure if u r gonna be ready for that game. See for me money doesnt matter as long as the girl is worth it.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, I am sorry someone gave you that wrong impression about Lebanese women. Did you recover your credit after she left? LOL
ksarat16..I told you, you have to prove you deserve it. LOL You seems a nice guy, keep it up
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3am ba7ki 3ani, mesh 3anno lol. fa shu juwabik?
It's always the small things that make big differences.
But hey who isnt like that...not only Lebs, but am sure all the lovely ladies...but then for once, a big price to pay, hey, was thats why referring to a place only where ya get coffee away from alllllllllll the shopppppping in the world....LOL...
>>>why do men dominates women?
Answer :
Oh ! Come on .... Let him enjoy the rare chance he is getting once in a blue-moon....
It looks to me like a bloddy movie with English Subtitles, atleast there are subtitles,
Alright Hopeless, we understand that MAN has yet to come, but till that time, we TWO MEN can keep you company, and now get down to business, coffeeeeeeeee........
Alright no coffeeeeeee...how about a freaking McDonalds 1 Riyal Ice Cream mate...
dude trust me if ur nto a lebanese u dont want to go for them. there's a big price to pay for it. They dont only go for coffee,... they even go for ur credit card and ur bank account lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
3an sho 3am te7ki? 3annak wala 3anno? LOL fakkartak 3am te7ki 3anno LOL
I only chose who to dominate. And the only one to dominate me (with my own will and acceptance) is the man who will own my heart. TRA TRA TRA
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zay ma iltilik ana mesh 5asran. U r in loss... too bad i could have been a gentle man and let u dominate over me. tsk tsk tsk... Allah y3teik l 3afiye
It's always the small things that make big differences.
heheheheheheh....thexonic, I included myself just to let you feel "not left alone" LOL
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Who is in between, and that too insane, I'm standing a bit far as you see...girl...but then again, trying to read in between the lines you can say...
NOw come on guys, seriously get back to English...you both are doing good in English...
dakheelak ana. jad betfakker ana momkin 2e2bal eshrab ahwi ma3o? Leh batalet tonzolet el ahwi ella ma3o? LOL Akeed la2. Khali ydal ye7ki la bokra
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Yes Ksarat.. by insane she was referring to herself not me.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Indeed girl, bad news, but dont you think you are missing a point, it is MY cup of coffee and for you, anything you like ...at that place...ha ha ha...got ya again girl, LOL...
Don't mess with two insane Lebanese. You don't wanna be in the middle. LOL
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el jawab eh . Jarrabet 7azi, iza ma badik ana mesh 5asran lol
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Dont make me come out there with my BROOMSTICK and give you both the whipping that you both deserve for talking in Leb just before when I was getting my due cuppa...
I'm warning you both, I will give you both the whipping with your broomstick...Hopeless....LOL
ksarat16, I have some bad news for you, I don't drink coffee!
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Leh 2aloolak makhbooa bi rasi ana? LOL Inta bta3ref el jaweb akeed.
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Arabic that can interest a LEb girl for my cup of coffee which I deserve truly...(now I m going to get a smacking on the head, for taking that coffee for granted...LOL)....
ah mnee7 iza woslet l fikra, shu raik iza shi marra 3azmik 3al ehwe?? lol
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Kasrat depends what kind of arabic do u want to learn lol. There are various forms of it.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Ask him to teach you this "todrab" LOL
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I had a gut feeling, that I might be running the race not tha well equipped due to the lack of understanding of Arabic, sheeeeeesh, but then still, atleast noone in the race except Thexonic, which I'm sure he wouldn't mind to teach me a bit of Arabic mate...LOL
weslet el fikra. hehehehehehehe
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You take a lot of pride in hard work right, you make us EARN every thing, and regarding the broomstick accompanying you, hmmmmm, danger situation for me, but still, who knows, whats in store at the end of the broomstick tunnel...for me...:LOL...
And come on, well, the statement is widely true to ane xtent, there are always exceptions right...see you are yourself an exception (inarrogant person)...in the same way, you are talking to an exception...LOL (Got ya, LOL, now you cant deny the statement....woooo hoooo, getting closer to my cup of coffee- just can feel the vibes and smell the coffee at a distance...LOL)....
Speaking of earning, well as one said earlier, you better be worth that earnings that have to be done for that cup of coffee...LOL
U can bring a broomstick with u when we go for the coffee, if they stop u at the door, i'll take the blame that its because i did something to u.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
ksarat16, you have to prove that you deserve it. Earn it! LOL
A cup of coffee without my broomstick is out of discussion You men can never be trusted.
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I can sense myself getting lucky with a cup of coffee, and I can see you putting that broomstick away...LOL..slowly and steadily...I am pretty sure, by the evening that broom stick would have made way for a cup of coffee..LOL...(I like to put my words in others minds...before they start realizing the other way...LOL)...
I'm sure you arent arrogant, and you dont sound yet, and for me to be grateful and thankful for God to make you this way, I have to get my cup of coffee...LOL...again, I dont leave any stone unturned mate...;)
ksarat16, LOL nice comment. I am not, and will never be arrogant about anything which is not mine. I don't own myself, and sure did not create myself the way I am. I am only grateful and thankful.
By the way, Tom & Jerry are my favorite, besides Timon & Pumba. LOL
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God have mercy on our souls!!!! TYPICAL LEBANESEEEEEEE.
Lik el Lebanese warayeh warayeh? LOL
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Interesting, in all this discussion, girl, you seem tohave forgotten my cup of coffee...better not alright...;)
ANd rightly said, there, it all matters right from within inside, and it just keeps getting better and better till it reaches outside, infact the more better it is inside, the much more better it is when you get outside...and to be a little frank, you do sound like a good person, (jst sound, now dont start flattering yourself alright...get back on the ground)...and whats with you and the broomstick girl, you are beginning to sound like a Witch from one of those Tom and Jerry Cartoons, who is always with a Magical Broomstick, take it easy and the most important part, you are single, now thats the best thing I have heard from you, Now I surely want my cup of coffee girl...what do ya say...without the broomstick please...lOL
Take my word for it. The day she picks up the broom, that would be the last day i'd see her face. If she'd be ungreatful than that's not the kind of woman i would wnat in my life.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, take my word on that, even a queen with a nice shinning classy royal stick, will use the stick as a broomstick when needed. Ask a female! LOL
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The beauty that matters is the inside beauty. I am not so proud about my beauty as much as I am proud of my inner one, and sure my beautiful broomstick. LOL My "man-to-be" will be the luckiest (humbly), because my broomstick will always remind him how faithful he should be. LOL no GALA GALA games.
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Dont worry, I wont be walking backwards cuz i'll know when it will be the right time to walk that mile and i know it will be the best mile that I would have ever walked in my life.
Too bad my wife wont have to wait for a broom stick, cuz thats not something that queens do. But then she will have to be worthy of that level.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
with respect and dignity, how to dominate a man? can someone share me some? a big help thanks
You sure are a person to be met in real life...rather than in reel life...
Look at that tantrums being thrown here...Lol...girl you sure sound quite ready with that freaking broom, pity your man :(... I just hope (if you have a man that is), he knows what kinda danger he is keeping in life...LOL...
And Lebanese means, you have gotto be beautiful, so the necessity to meet up makes it more interesting, (I sort of guessed it from other posts from a chap posting about Lebanese girls in particular, O dont they look steamy and cute)...
Thanks for the reply regarding the above subject, now i am enlighten by it.
jinkz.... what is all about dominating in bathroom? i know about in the bedroom.... what is about in bathroom?
Darude.... i wish i dominate you... hehehe
Yes it is unfair ksarat16...
what goes around comes around doubled. You don't wanna be fooled by the woman in your life, so treat her like a queen, and TRY TO GET USED TO THE BROOMSTICK. LOL live it, love it, get used to it.
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hopelessly.. standing with a brrom stick.. lol...
At least we have something in common! BEING CRAZY.
I thought I am crazy because I was raised outside Lebanon, but seems the Lebanese blood is the reason. LOL
Take my advice, mark your way while walking the extra mile, you never know when you'll walk it backwards.
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You are making me quite curious about yourself now girl, how lucrative you are getting...ofcourse this needs some Profile checking...(*Looking into your profile*)...Lol...
And yes, one day when I do have a wife, I'm sure she will be waiting with a broomstick, thats why I dont play dominance...its an fair and square game aint it...
And as far as you are concerned, are you new on QL girl, never seen this much confidence and attitude flowing out for a long time, ofcourse with a touch of spice and humour looks to be...(Didn't I sum you up perfectly...now do I get that cup of coffee from ya girl...)LOL...And it is coffee pls, not broomstick...
U will be surprised how untypical i am. See the thing is, if the girl is worth it then i would give it all even if it takes me to beg or walk an extra mile.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
thexonic, TYPICAL LEBANESE. LOL go man go
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ksarat, experience your manhood dominance outside as much as you want, in the end of the day we will be waiting near the door with a long BROOM stick. LOL
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wow i have to beg to be dominated... allrite than I would beg if thats what it takes lol.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Now come on girl, where in my words did ya find that I would want to domincate the ladies, I was just playing a bit of the lighter side that we guys get to live like that only out of the house (ofcourse when the wife's not around) and certainly no dominance in the house...Now do ya get it...
So having said that, where is my cup of coffee that I get for being so nice...;)
thexonic, you have to beg for it. LOL hehehehe
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hehe.. nadt ksarat well said.. braggin about dominating d wife outside.. but still jumpin when the wife calls... there is an indication there.. hehe.. so the inside story is quite clear...
I dont mind if a smart girl like u dominates me. I'd love to be dominated by u lol
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Simply, briefly, clearly, IN YOUR DREAMS TO DOMINATE US! LOL
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Didnt get what you just said there to me buddy...wanna rephrase it or just get it a bit more clearer to me...
Am I lucky or not...i didnt get that...one more time pls....
Cheers...
hands up to ya girl!
we dominate men in the nicest and sweetest way...surely men can't complain about that... ~lol
“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”
- G. House
kasarat16, why? Anyone is after you these days? Then I guess you are lucky man!
The so called "men dominate women" is simply "men's illusion" they like to do it and think they are. But if you give it a great thought, eventually, women are dominating men smoothly. LOL
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I'll remember this topic next time we meet up..shall we?
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
ladies why is it that nowadays you gals are behind the men, leave us alone a little, come on its only outside that we get to think we are the bosses, i mean everyone know whats the inside story of the house, so take it easy, and let it go like that...come on give us a little freedom...atleast outside the house...:P...LOL...
Speaking of dominance...well, whats stronger love or dominance (EGO), I would say Love, so why should one find a place for dominance in a relationship...go along hand in hand people, its much easier, no need to look back or too front, jus look to the side and u have ur partner there right next to you...it always is the best way to go...
Now all you lovely ladies, you can always start falling for a man with this mentality cant ya...LOL( my PMs service is activated for y'll)....;)
or is it my mobile phone's message alert...lol
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
There are two places where a woman should dominate a man; one is the bedroom, the other, is the bathroom
Elsewhere? Both shall be equal and in the same level
“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”
- G. House
This is a funny question. Yes men like to think they dominate thier women..and brag about being the boss to their friends, until you see the men with their women and suddenly they turn from roaring lions to cats..
smoke.. gud one.. wid the adam n eve concept to show how it had all started... lol
it depends which way you take it.... i was just being vulgar...
but how do you know its fake in reality??
mortal_earthling...these are just words :(....no reality in it.....fake...:P
i would love love a woman to dominate me... : P
he he he !!!
Da now I should say women should dominate men 101% :P
Put them in a little pair of shorts... and... ;) ;)
AZZZZZZZZZZZYYYYYYYYYYY
you have distracted my mind now LOL
you naughty girl......
No one can dominate a person, unless they give them a chance to do so. Our culture permits men to dominate... Male domination is prominent in places where women are behind men in all aspects like age, financial stability, physical strength etc.. Most important how they are brought up in their family, If a man see his father dominating his mother and vice versa...they tend to follow the same when they grow up....
is there for the LOVING KICKING...from their caring woman...lol
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
Just under me...LOL I'm just kidding Don't have a cow man...
You can't teach experience...
saima i am agree with you. Both try to dominate to each other.
"Peace and love is real life "
I like it! they need it and we can do it with style if they have a lovely behind! LOL
ready to kick his behind if he goes out of line...joke
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Maybe because she likes to walk beside you and not behind you? so next time look beside
no man should dominate 99.99%
and Skanky hmm ok ok fine :P
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may be ur woman.....spying on u :P
many womans lol
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I can hear someone follow me but everytime i look back no one there???
What's up with that???
You can't teach experience...
I think its a mans nature. They cannot overcome this. I think both of them should equally dominate each other.I think man should dominate 10% more but plz never suppress ur woman.
Vegas maybe because you are not looking behind.....LOL
I thoought some is behind you......??
You can't teach experience...
Look it all begain with Adam...he was created first..and then came Eve...so when Eve came she was scared of all the wild animals and kitty cats that were roaming around, so she turns to Adam and says "oh ur so brave" and then Adam takes Eve showing her around the garden of Eden..and since then women have always been that way. :) end of discussion.
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Every wolf theres a puppy shadow!
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Behind every idiot man there is a silly woman
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All,
Are men are supposed to dominate over women? That's a mind-blower!
I'll have to tell dw about this. She'll be disappointed.
after iryssa mentioned it.. just saw that.. i passed it off thinking it was a signature.. suprised mother in law.. hehe..
jauntie, LOL! i like the mother-in-law one :D
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
As the women can and have a say in some things and so does the MEN.
Though at this pouint...I have agree with lipstick.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
"Behind every great man, there's a great woman!"
or ...
"Behind every man there's a woman telling him he's wrong - That's probably because he is". lol
and my personal favourite:
"Behind every successful man is a surprised mother-in-law.
Hubert Humphrey 1911-1978"
You can't teach experience...
The neverending topic.
Who dominate has more responsabilities, so I will let them dominate me LOL.
I will stay at home and check the maid work, drink one glass of wine while watching TV. its perfect.
Gals PM Me if you really want to dominate. LOL
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deji...?? why do u birds fly????
I'm not so dominating as long as the girl doesnt try to dominate me lol. I believe in fairness and equality.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Just teasing you gal.
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DaRuDe, send me pm if you really wanna know...
why do birds fly?
Everything is temporal, but... change.
by him do you mean your boyfriend
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lipstick.. very true.. if the gal lets the guy dominate.. he will..
do they?.... not in my league... sorry guys, they don't REALLY....
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well said lipstick !
why do men dominates women?
in my case, that will depend on a man..
if i let him....
Just a set up that the men folk created and the women followed. some women of the past encouraged it too. Sadly, most women are looking for comfort and security. something which is destroying them at a slow pace.
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One of the hardest things for us to do in our human nature is to just stop what we are doing to allow God to produce in us what only He can produce.
why do men dominates women? well we can trace that from our history...but now times have changed...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
i watched one sit-com the other day and i've heard sth so funny but true...the man was saying "it's not me or my wife who's the boss in the house-it's the children! everyday i feel closer to her, coz the fear of our kids unites us"
LOL!
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
Don't trust a man who says he's the boss around the house...he probably lies about everything too! ~lol
“They say you can't live without love. Tell them oxygen is more important!.”
- G. House
its just that who chooses to take the responsobilties and decisions.. if the man takes and the girl follows.. its men dominated... else its the other way round..
LOL
I dominated the situation. LOL
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I like to be dominant and in the same time I can be submissive. you know wha i mean? wink
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
I am the boss in my house.
When my wife wants me to be.
And the remaining 95% of the time I just do as I am told.
Call me Maninibat!
because they are given permission to do so.......
women feel guilty putting themselves first sometimes they think they are being selfish, pushy and bossy.
men can be perceived as a sucessful, dynamic person after a better career etc.
They are behaviour labels we put on genders.
Even when both parties earn the same etc it is still the women in many cases who is more supportive of the man rather than vice-versa.
She is ready to listen to his problems and doesn't want to bother him with hers.
it takes two.... one has to allow another to dominate
My friend should i tell them what was going on at your home yesday :D
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its not always that men are dominating women. women too dominate men in many cases. however, man tends to see himself as the superior breed and believes that woman should succumb to his wish and command. this is when the dominance happens. however, all men are not like that. i know men who treat women like equals.
i believe that men and women are not equals. there are some fields where a man cannot be better than a woman and vice versa. the best part is to accept this and live a happy balance life.
The wild wolf is now a puppy :(
LOL
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not at all. i actually know lots of men who like women to be in charge. they enjoy it-less responsibilities!
besides, more and more of the "new generation" have developed their feminine side...they even have a name for that, but i actually forgot it.
that allows them to keep their ego and self-esteem on a healthy level, so they don't have to have that macho behavior and they don't feel threatened by women at any point or family of carrer level.
surely, we all know the ones who have it the other way-but i guess they just have issues with themselves, been raised in the sort of families and societies where it is a normal thing. you can fight it, but mostly won't win with it, coz it's something planted inside.
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
Depending of the relation some womans just like to follow what the man says. and others want to make the rules...
So depend on the type of relation and the character of the woman. I think!
and as you ask in all cases?? in everything??
There are some difference as Sports, works and many many other things.
Its a big list...
The Venezuelan Sensation!!!
no comments! no use arguing
Its now women dominating men :/
Really believe me.
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