what to do yani!!!

Yes your right itz_me_dz he should stick to his present. He may have been betrayed in the past but he has no right to betray his present girl. Never dwell on the past cuz the only thing it gives is pain.

I think betta go wid d present one...coz d oder gal was not der for him wen he wanted....sinc hez happy with the present one and if he thinks there is a future with her then go ahead with the present....forget about the past..

Y did the previous one pop now from no where..????and where was she until now???y did it take her this long to understand ur frnd's love????

i truly think the present one is better...now since the previous one left him for 2 years, wat if she again dumps him aftr accpting her?????

it never changes for this community

Another One!

What is the problem?

ask the SMS crowd ;) They are the resident experts.

cabbage, i like the "start from "scratching" bit..;)

Yeah I agree with cabbage as well and nomerci is right she's CRAZY! PERIOD.

Cabbage I totally agree with u and thanks for taking out ur time to text it. cheers.

First of all - this love affair, if we believe the math, started over six years ago and finished three years ago -it is too, too long a time to start again on this basis. They would need to start from scratch ( if they decide that) they will have both changed.

We can all look back on 'past loves' with a tear in our eye and remember the good stuff and perhaps some of that 'good stuff' we don't get from our current partner. Yet – we may get other and better stuff. All relationships are different.

Do not let your friend be lulled into a false sense of security - there was a very REAL reason why they split up and it has taken her 3 years to contact him again?

My bet is this girl has just come out of a relationship was thinking of past loves and has picked on the one she thought was better than she has had since. I know women and some when feeling low go back to a ‘comfort zone’ and this friend of yours is her ‘comfort’ zone.

Her regret, her loss, let her live with it. Your friends’ loyalty is with the girl he is with now.

I would stay away from a person who would, all of a sudden, call me from somewhere and threaten me of consequences...whatever be the issue. She isn't a straightforward person. Your friend should realise now, better late than never.

take them both and enjoy yourself...

dude you gotta have iron balls to bag it.

It's all kaput now... I better get my ass outta here :-P

Yall's have a good evening!!! :-)

If you meet my friend Caligula, you will change your lifestyle to something like his... ;-)

I ALMOST bagged it!!! :-P

hey tinker it was juz a thought of bringing her back but i wouldnt.

And why should i meet ur friend caligula. His name sounds so weird.

But ensure that foursome is FFMF, or FMFF ;-)

ok if i was entangled in sucha situation i wll definitely get her back since she repented and is broken in heart. and will definitely give u an invitation for foursome.hehe

You is the one that is entangled in this web and you're now wanting a way out... Have you met my friend, Caligula??? :-P

YES he knows me and also knows that if he left me with both of them all alone but still il be loyal n honest. lol

Gotcha, you're the bugger who's been secretly boning both of them... now does your friend know that??? :-P

dude i know both of them and now when ur speakin of sex i think your first idea of threesome is the best cuz both of them are really good at it. but Pease dont ***kin ask me how do i know that.

Tell him to go for the one with whom sex is BEST!!! The rest he can compromise on :-)) LMAO!!!

ok fine if i go through any case like this again the first thing il do is to passs on it to u, but dude not this time. Cheers.

Tell your dost to grow a set of "balls" and make a decision... I will take whoever he leaves back :-)) LOL!!!

colt Arrey busna bhai moka mila nahin aur india nikalne ka plan bhi kar diya aapka post dekaga tho mera dosth bidjayega.hehe

then in that case tell him to palm off the "past" one to me, that will give me reason enough to go to India :-P

so colt we have to drop the idea of threesome

but the two cant be brought together one is in India the other in Qatar.

nothing wrong with talking wih the past. just be her friend. i would bring the two together, and so i could introduce them to each other. If the past loves your friend, she will stop bothering him.

if your friend is really confused, he could bring the two together and choose who really love. Cruel, but a lot better than cheating...

Tell him to negotiate for a threesome... it's very worth it!!! ;-)

yes shameera ur right there is no point in dwelling on the past its khallas so juz move on

y she is black mailing ur friend.tel him let her do anything not to bother abt the past.and to contact her anymore

yes LINcoln your right let her do it. I said him dude those who will do will never say but just do it,so dont worry she will be fine when she was fine for 3 years

Let her do it!

Yes that's what bothering him and he says if she says she will do it she will definitely do. She is that kinda girl. What to do yani we guys can never understand what u girls want.

Past is past. Think only the present one. Why the old one didn't call before.

If somebody told me they would do "something crazy" unless I get back together with them, I would RUN!!!! People like that ARE crazy!

Either heart or a musical chair. Its all Lust

heart or a musical chair?

stick and be honest with the present... no one die for nobody now in this world..so be honest with what u have and enjoy :)

but past tense is past tense

Each one of them is having (or were having) a "present time" life.

How come she is going to call now after three yrs to say "I Love You, I need you"....WTH.....no way.

Sorry

your right Osama she may have had all the joys of this life with her new b.f and when he dumped her that's when may be she realized that her past was more loyal and his love was true.

A man never turns back, only French do.

it seems that the first girl was on another relation and now she brake-up and she was keeping ur friend as a spare.

So let him remain with the current one and treat his old GF in a similar way as a spare.

yes en gr ur right when she didn't have the courtesy to call him for the past 3 years and now she comes all the way back n says she loves him is like hell. but still dude there are some relationships which u loose and when it comes back to u its hard to refuse either.

i totally agree with shameera point of view........ that wax past....... at that time she didnt recognized ur importance.......... now stick to present bcx....... thatx what is now with him and is important to him..... move on........

Even i think the same way but he says that the love that he had for his past was so much that he didn forget her even though he wasn there. he says not a single day passes without her thought

Here we go again round the mulberry bush.

tell him not to cheat his present lover.i think he need to stick in present