My kind of Woman or a Nut case!

britexpat
By britexpat

ANDREA HAS PLANNED HER DREAM WEDDING DAY DOWN TO THE LAST DETAIL – ALL SHE NEEDS NOW IS A FIANCÉ

She's had a bespoke Chantilly lace dress designed, she's picked the venue and she's chosen the music for the first dance.

The blushing bride will carry a beautiful bouquet of white lilies, tulips and roses up the aisle to the strains of Ave Maria on the violin.

Everything is planned – down to the Tiffany blue colour scheme – so that Andrea Tsarbos' wedding will be the most special day of her life.

here's just one tiny problem… Andrea is single.

Not engaged.

Not in a long-term relationship.

Not even casually dating.

But the lack of a groom, or even a boyfriend, hasn't stopped her planning every last detail of her wedding, including the lingerie she'll wear on her wedding night.

"I know people think it's mad I've planned my wedding when I'm single, but I've not been able to help myself," she says.

"I'm passionate about weddings. I daydream about my own and it's developed into a full-blown plan.

"Of course I need a groom before I get married, but I'll meet Mr Right one day. In the meantime, why not start preparing?"

Andrea is by no means unique in planning her wedding.

A survey published in June revealed that one in five single girls is already saving up for her big day, while a quarter say they would blow their life savings on their nuptials.

Andrea, 23, has saved £5,000 in a "wedding day" bank account, anticipating that her extravagant plans won't come cheap.

She has been single for four years since splitting from her first serious boyfriend after three years together.

Surprisingly for someone so fixated on getting married, she's not out playing the field and avoids speed-dating nights organised by friends.

"I've casually dated over the past four years, but I don't enjoy going on endless dates," says Andrea, a legal events planner from London.

"I'm confident that when the time is right, I'll meet the man I'm going to marry."

Andrea admits to devoting much of her spare time to her wedding planning.

She says: "I think about it when I'm walking to and from work and when I'm at the gym. I talk about it with my future bridesmaids. If a magazine has covered a celebrity wedding, I'll make a beeline for it and pore over the photos."

A fashion designer friend has designed Andrea's dream dress for her big day.

"I want a vintage-style empire line gown made from ivory Chantilly lace with a scooped neckline and cap sleeves," explains Andrea.

"The Edward Berger-style veil will be circular and no more than 36 inches long. I'll wear it with a bespoke tiara featuring an Ancient Greek design, as my dad is Greek."

Andrea plans to get married in the 15th century Knowle Parish Church, near her parents' home in Birmingham, and wants to exchange traditional vows.

Her four bridesmaids – two cousins and two friends – will wear full-length satin dresses in Tiffany blue with white satin bands round the bust, and guests will sing the hymns Jerusalem and One More Step Along The Road I Go.

The reception, to be held at Alveston Manor in Stratford-upon-Avon, will be suitably lavish, with a champagne cocktail reception for guests who will mingle to the sounds of a steel band until the bride and groom arrive in a vintage Aston Martin.

Andrea says: "I want tall vases on the tables, with white lilies and candles placed on glass mirrors to reflect the light. We'll eat lamb with lemon meringue for dessert."

Andrea has chosen a waltz by Gunnar Madsen for her first dance, but concedes she may let her groom have some say on the music.

"It would be lovely to have a special song I share with my husband-to-be," she says.

"I'm not a brilliant dancer so I would consider having lessons to make sure our first dance was perfect."

You can't help but feel some concern for the groom who will have to slot quietly into these military precision plans.

One thing is certain though – he'd better not hope to put his own personal mark on the day.

"Are men really that concerned with the details of their wedding day?" asks Andrea incredulously.

"So much of the day revolves around the bride – her dress, the flowers, the bridesmaids – that the groom's input isn't that vital.

"I like my men to be men, so I won't marry a man who's interested in colour schemes and floral displays."

So what happens when she finally meets the man she wants to marry?

"I won't bombard him with my wedding plans immediately," she says.

"I'll have to gauge whether he thinks my planning is cute and quirky – or whether it will have him running for the hills!"

By mallrat• 3 Aug 2008 19:16
Rating: 3/5
mallrat

1.futuritial-woman.

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2."she-better-marry-herself"

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3. she is related to i've got "me-myself-and-I".

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4. she will be poor-girl if she happens to meet

a metrosexual-hoties.

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By lovinni• 3 Aug 2008 18:05
Rating: 3/5
lovinni

right brandylady! bad thing with this publicity an opportunist might take advantage of her...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By brandylady• 3 Aug 2008 17:57
brandylady

her efforts to finding Mr Right, then surely he should have some say in the wedding??

Money better spent elsewhere :)

By SouthLand• 3 Aug 2008 17:42
SouthLand

Now that's thinking about it ;)

By ICGURU• 3 Aug 2008 17:40
ICGURU

I am just impressed that she is single and saving. I think a lot of women fantasize about their wedding, but how many are saving for it?

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By britexpat• 3 Aug 2008 17:26
britexpat

I'm surprised at you! What about the memories to cherish etc etc...

As the article says "A survey published in June revealed that one in five single girls is already saving up for her big day, while a quarter say they would blow their life savings on their nuptials. "

25% would blow their savings...

By lovinni• 3 Aug 2008 17:16
Rating: 5/5
lovinni

she spends her time planning her wedding...planning is easy she better socialize to speed up in getting a groom...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By SouthLand• 3 Aug 2008 17:10
SouthLand

of royalty, it seems every woman is a princess (in her own head). I don't see many men self-proclaiming themselves as a prince. This is just another manifestation of that.

By Nefertiti• 3 Aug 2008 15:20
Nefertiti

advantage to the guy who will marry her!

By labda06• 3 Aug 2008 15:18
labda06

There's this image of a bride dragging her groom down the isle...its sooo funny. Its a wedding cake topper, Im sure this hopeful bride would love it. I would have posted it here but will have to get Drac to teach me how!!!

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." Barack Obama

By GodFather.• 3 Aug 2008 15:06
GodFather.

arrange Marriage.. Anybody remember that song from Apache Indain...lol

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By labda06• 3 Aug 2008 15:00
labda06

She must be reading The Secret - LOL

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." Barack Obama

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