Love Hurts

Risky
By Risky

Love hurts. What can I do ? I can't tell her. I know she is very hurt and I've caused it. I tried hard not to fall in love but it just happened. But I can't tell her. Telling means commitment and I can't commit. I brake commitments. I'm a coward I know, and she even told me so. What hurts most is knowing I've hurt her, and I can't do anything about it. I long for her but it will never happen. How do you move on ?

By Gypsy• 18 Jul 2007 17:18
Gypsy

Wow Guys, I'm not sure but I think Risky is every guy I've ever dated!!

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

By owen• 18 Jul 2007 16:23
owen

just hope everything would turn out fine with you and what you are feeling..im with you buddy..:D..

By owen• 18 Jul 2007 16:22
owen

just hope everything would turn out fine with you and what you are feeling..im with you buddy..:D..

By ksarat16• 18 Jul 2007 16:18
Rating: 3/5
ksarat16

Cheers buddy...take it easy and take life as it comes...all the best...dont worry...if u think good for others...good will happen to u too...so dont u worry...analyse ur situation and either get out of it totally...or get into it completely...dont be half and half...

Cheers...

By Risky• 18 Jul 2007 16:15
Risky

....thanks for your thoughtful replies.

Most of the others sound like a bunch of complete w.....rs I can't believe how much time they spend talking to a computer screen....can't engage in person....sad, very sad

By CYman• 17 Jul 2007 14:35
CYman

probably that you are already committed. Did you tell this to the girl?

What did you expect when you posted the stupid threat. Sympathy from QLrs? Advice on how to get out of it?

You have broken my heart man! How did you manage to get into such desperate position? This girl must be punished severely for calling you a coward and making your departure difficult.

Shame on you man. You simply lack honesty and dignity.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

By bajesus• 17 Jul 2007 13:52
bajesus

Mr.Paul nice?! Was he being nice when he said Qatar is sh** after I asked why he was leaving the country....Or when he asked why I wasn't wearing my "bedsheet" as he put it after he found out I was Qatari?

By owen• 17 Jul 2007 13:36
owen

gypsy gal..whatever happens..im on your side..lol..sorry guys..i know you all understand..:P

carry on..(ding!)

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:33
ksarat16

O no way dude...Sticks and stones wud not be the way wud it Ray...maybe something more effective...the best and most powerful weapon on Earth that Man-Kind always Fears...Women...

What dou think Ray and Colt?

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 13:33
gypsy gal

No worries girl... its all cool... we all know to behave....lol

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:30
Rating: 2/5
Colt45

Sticks and stones may break my bones... but your words will never hurt me... fookers, now that dun mean that you'll come at me with sticks and stones...lol!!!

By owen• 17 Jul 2007 13:29
Rating: 2/5
owen

read mode and enjoying watching colt's signature..:D :D

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:28
Rating: 3/5
Colt45

OMG... and i always thought you to be a ONE man woman!!!

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 13:28
rayyz

LOL LOL. That was a good one babe. Colt deserves this for being such a sucker and pretending to be such an innocent child. I am glad you saw thru him and realized the potentially dangerous guy that he is. LOL

Ksarat, I am all with you bro to break down his image. Way to go Hyderabad dude!

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:28
ksarat16

Dont u worry buddy...they are all just playing around...after all it is a great site u see...

So what r u upto...watching silently...

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:26
ksarat16

Ooooops looks like ur sweet talks is not getting u anywhere....

How could u...

Looks like the ladies are either have their hands full or they r but clever and have left their selective amnesia behind them...to fall for ur sweet talks...

OOOOOOpss....gotto think of something better Colt...buddy...come on u can do it...

By owen• 17 Jul 2007 13:25
owen

hmmmm..i smell on board disaggrements and possibly word fight in here...keep it cool guys..:D

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 13:25
gypsy gal

I already have two guys in QL... and one at home...cant handle more..lol You know how difficult its to manage all...

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:24
ksarat16

Which sentence...and wow Ray...i m after noone from the morning...dont u get me into anything dude...i m peace loving person...LOL...

By nottoknow• 17 Jul 2007 13:24
nottoknow

to get kicked ......Colt u never know where han is peeping from and now you are in trouble with most of women here .

UFFFFFFFFFFFF how could you colt ,how could you......:((.....LOL

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:23
ksarat16

O u such a sweet talker...no wonder u r famour personality with the ladies in here...u know how to turn the tables around in a split sec dont u Colt...trying to take the ladies by urside so u dont have to answer any door bells at ur house from QL...such a genius...innocent child on the earth u r Colt...

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 13:21
rayyz

LOL bro. Am glad you kept that sentence for the last. I've been watching who you're after since morning! :)

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:20
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

GG and NTN - my best 2 girls on QL - hope that makes you'll feel any better... thank god Han is not here...lol!!!

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:19
ksarat16

Looks like u r keeping a track on the men here...with the numbers of their wives...now we need to see who is the new Bodyguard...

Colt, looks like somebody wants to take the fights and QL to your doorstep...what a beautiful service aint it buddy?

Ghina...get over with it...take it easy...leave it for Risky to decide his fate...u shot him down dead...great...so now take it easy...get on with it buddy...

NTN...after all that Colt is ditched u...how mean can he get bugger...

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:17
Rating: 3/5
Colt45

When i have friends like you all... who needs enemies...;-) btw, just spoke to the wifey and she's feeling kinda better... :-D

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 13:16
rayyz

Ghina : Well previous to that post of yours against me where you said you are not looking to date men like me. I thought you were kind of considering me as well. Perhaps one in a million, but there wss always a chance right?

Gypsy Gal : No way in the world you would have her number. Now I know you've been bluffing about my good friend Colt too. Colt dude carry on flirting. GG is gonna choke soon! :P

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 13:15
gypsy gal

We miss you... enjoy the cool drizzling grey oopz... great Brittan..

By nottoknow• 17 Jul 2007 13:13
nottoknow

BADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

GG these men....PHEW

By swissgirl39• 17 Jul 2007 13:13
swissgirl39

Hello to good old England.Smile.So how is the weather there and how is your holiday?Everything allright?

Regards from Swiss.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 13:11
gypsy gal

NTN..you hear this??? He ditched you…

I am keeping a track .. no worries colt...am waiting for her to get well soon. physically fit to handle you..lol

Rayyy... dont be excited , I have you wife's as well..lol

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 13:11
anonymous

Who said i was interested in you????

By jauntie• 17 Jul 2007 13:10
jauntie

feeling really rather worried, having checked this Risky Business's profile and length of time on here, that ANY of you are actually taking him seriously!

Looks like you are all just talking amongst yourselves :/

Maybe a short break away from the screen would be a good idea, hmmm?

Oh - Hi all from a wet English morning x

By irrysa• 17 Jul 2007 13:08
irrysa

Yeah Gypsy Gal,

Ain't that the way that the wife always knows last...

ehhh....

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 13:08
rayyz

LOL LOL LOL Colt. The other head was really funny.

Ghina : Thanks for the offer and clarification. I am genuinely not interested in you! :)

Gypsy Gal : Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeezzz gimme Colt's wifey's number. I need to enlighten her about a site called QL and many other things. Few numbers come handy if you wanna use it somewhere down the line. ;)

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 13:07
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

" Men always think with their head... it's only that most of the time, it's the OTHER head... lmao!!! "

I doubt that, the other head is a big issue to men, but most DECENT men think twice before they hurt anyone or think of their other head. as you know sex is not everything in this world. as much as you like it, you have much much more to think about in your daily life..

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:06
Colt45

Did i ever tell you you're my nbr ONE girl on this site? lol!!!

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 13:05
ksarat16

Colt looks like u have a lot of Protectors...(for ur wifey though)

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 13:01
gypsy gal

Beware.... I have your wifey's number..lol

By irrysa• 17 Jul 2007 13:01
irrysa

Well there you go Risky...

You asked for it, you got it!

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 13:00
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

Ask no questions and you will be told no lies...;-)

By DaRuDe• 17 Jul 2007 12:57
DaRuDe

Dont get so excited Ghina comment was on behalf of that girl.

so take it easy.

and risky only commitment u can come up with is suicide so just go and do it.

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By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 12:57
ksarat16

Accepted ur comments dude...

I can see that u jollywell wanna get played around dont u ...dude...

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 12:57
Rating: 5/5
Colt45

Men always think with their head... it's only that most of the time, it's the OTHER head... lmao!!!

By owen• 17 Jul 2007 12:56
owen

risky..oh dear, i can feel the disappointments and frustration on you buddy..moving-on comes on stages (i have been telling this out loud myself..:P)..don't force yourself to detach abruptly from thoughts of her, do it gradually...the more painful if you force yourself to forget or not see her..

ok, also don't dwell too much on what you have gone through..and the what "ifs" of your life together...there are a lot to advise you, but as i said, it comes in stages..:)

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 12:54
Colt45

watever do you mean by "you are playing with someone"? Hell yeh, if the women wanna play, i damnwell play... who the fooks goona waste a good opportunity... now all of you dun be judging me with that statement i just made... lol!!!

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 12:54
anonymous

I doubt that i would go out with a man that doesnt use his head for thinking, and i doubt i would go out with a man that also posts his personal life in a website were people just mock each other..

Ohh and i also doubt that i would go out with a guy that gives silly comments of me being frustrated out of an answer!!!

By Oryx• 17 Jul 2007 12:51
Oryx

yes Amigo - regardless of age... this really sorts the boys out from the men...

I have seen men in their early 20s be wonderful fathers and devoted husbands... taking full responsibility for house and family...

its hard work and that I really admire and they humble me because I was such a dippy moo at that age.

but some dozy tw&t who has the emotional IQ of a goldfish...and makes others suffer because of it - -

well I have no time for.

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 12:49
anonymous

my bad, sorry

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 12:48
gypsy gal

I just checked this man's profile, probably he is married and got kids back home, and played around with some decent girl here in Qatar. And when the time came, he cannot commit because heis already got a family. Don't play around with girls... first learn the meaning of word "LOVE" at this age what you wanted is not love but.......and its too late for that girl…

I pity such foolish girls...

By ksarat16• 17 Jul 2007 12:48
ksarat16

Ghina---wow that was one hell of a post...wel u r right...nobody has the right to be playing with anyone...and we know how precious love and hearts are...so its like "Quit playing games with the heart"

Colt...U playing with someone are u?

Risky: Dude...if u dont have the guts to tell someone u love her...then dont love her...if u dont have the thing to commit...then dont start it...and if u started it...then make it clear dude...

Life is too short for upsets especially in the subject of love...cos u dont find love at every door step u knock...that is something that u only find when u open the right door and u r pretty sure luck is playing with u...

Someone told...its a blessing to be loved...and man u r loved by her...then why dont u go for her...whats stopping u as Irrysa asked u...

Come on dude...open ur eyes...look at the most pretty thing u have ever wanted...realize that she is the most pretty thing that u ever wanted and tell her...

Life is waiting for u...sort of the worries...get out with the truth...ask ur self dude...u want her...till Destiny...probs are a part of life...commitements are made to keep up with the problems...and choices are given to us a lot...but Decisions are the ones that bring all these to us and dude...make that decision to tell her that u hurt her and u r ready to make it up...

then see...the whole new wide world is awaiting u...have a blessed life with her dude...

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 12:47
rayyz

Is Ghina the girl you are talking about? No wonder she sounded so damn frustrated!

Colt take over! :P

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 12:44
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

I never said that... did you not read my post, btw it was the 1st one and i think i made myself clear in there...

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 12:40
anonymous

you think so?? Do you think that men are allowed to play with women like that??

By Amigo66• 17 Jul 2007 12:39
Amigo66

Hi......waz about to log off.....when I read ur post....phew!!! when I come back I will sure check ur profile girl.....I am impressed......u know this is what separates men from boyz.....COMMITMENT....

goto go now.........byeeeee

By Oryx• 17 Jul 2007 12:38
Rating: 2/5
Oryx

grow up

you seriously lack emotional maturity

until you do - just pay for services and stop messing decent people around.

I tell you what I know my own race and I would NEVER EVER go out with an English man. NEVER.

There are nice ones like Mr Paul of course but too many are exactly like this.

can't committ... mess people around and then have the audacity to complain.

and by the way its break not brake

By irrysa• 17 Jul 2007 12:36
irrysa

Risky...and I don't blame her!

A guy who wants the lady but doesn't want to commit...how classic!

What are you afraid of anyway??

Sure, love hurts- but isn't it worth it to try?

Life is based on MOMENTS...and we live for the beautiful ones.

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

By gypsy gal• 17 Jul 2007 12:35
gypsy gal

Are you trying to say that you were not serious with that girl? Why the hell you didnt tell her in the begining... had all fun and now you wanna leave her??? grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 12:34
Rating: 3/5
Colt45

You really blew off some steam in here... phew!!!

By anonymous• 17 Jul 2007 12:29
anonymous

You men think that you are on top of the world??

Do you think that the world revolves around you guys??

she was stupid enough to fall for you, and now you say you cannt commit!! Why is that?? what do you have?? do you think that you can come to a foreign land and screw everygirl you can with your macho macho

Well guess what, a lady will screw you as well. And if you dont have the guts to tell her, than back off and dont ever call her.

You harmed her and now you say what you should do!!

MEN!!!

By rayyz• 17 Jul 2007 12:17
rayyz

Ever seen an ostrich? Go bury your head in ground.

She called you a coward and you swallowed it? LOL

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600 QL Points!!!

Yay! Way to go Ray!

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www.e4u.name.qa

By Colt45• 17 Jul 2007 12:12
Rating: 2/5
Colt45

Got her in the sack and now you wanna run away is it? I have one word that describes you... ummm " Pussy"!!!lol!!!

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