how i can ask her to forgive me
i do mistake to her i dont mean to hurt her but she misunderstand me that time i been talk to her and accidentally i said some think i thought she will be happy and laugh but she is not .
she told me that i offended her but i swear on GOD i dont mean to hurt her and when i asked her to forgive me she said ok i forgive u but really i feel it she still upset of me
please tell me what to do to ask to forgive me .
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GIVE her TIME
You might be right. But in a realtionship if you go by rule from a book. Man! i wish you good luck. Nothing worst than following other path to maintain a relationship. BE YOURSELF!
"Destiny is not a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."
"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus"
A best seller book by John Gray, reveals that Martian can maintain a good relationship with Venusians by what he calls with SCORING which means that no matter what size of gift you bring for your wife, you score the same. The author insists that you bring or do small thing but do it often instead of doing a big thing just for once or twice because women don’t care what you do, instead whether you do or not. So more the score, more strong is your relationship with your wife.
Am I right Misty_rain ?
I've learned that when you have an argument with your partner, the first one who says, 'I'm sorry I hurt your feelings; please forgive me,' is the winner.
I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everyday that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worth going on for.
And sometimes without even saying a word, a one stare to one another will melt everything in the past...;)
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You are just voicing your opinion too, so it's all good buddy! ;-)
Cheers!
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I don't like to commit myself about heaven and hell - you see, I have friends in both places. M. Twain
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We r just advicing him .. but ofcourse he has the right to post wutever he wants to post .. I didn't mean to hurt him .. but in that way he will be losing his Girl friend ..
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
is his first love thats why he is so excited and sensitive.
or i will say aratchbb this is ur chance go find other chick :D
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with both of you Ram & Gypsy but I also believe to "the right to leave!" ;-)
It's all our choices what we have to voice out in public!
Cheers!
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I don't like to commit myself about heaven and hell - you see, I have friends in both places. M. Twain
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record your appologies and resquests to forgive. convert the recording into a ring tone and transfer it to her mobile phone. let that clip be dedicated to your phone numbers. so whenever you call her, she will hear your appology.
good luck man:D
Exactly Ram. If you can't resolve a tiff without crying to the world, then you shouldn't be with the person. I have misunderstandings with my boyfriends all the time, we usually laugh it off.
"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco
That's exactly wut i was telling him ... u cannot post every time u have a prob. with her .. if u can't solve ur prob. alone then u r not matured enough to hold this relationship ..
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
this reminds me of chix...
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
dont leave me alone here :? :D
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Are you going to post everytime you get in a tiff with your girlfriend? Cause if you are I'm going to start staying away from QL cause this is pretty stupid.
"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco
"Women can forgive you but we cannot easily forget."
Well said .. even bones can get back to its normal situation but not the HEART ..
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
thanks a lot .. i guess i have a guardian angel sent from above to save me .. I feel so sad about the car .. although it's an old one but i loved it a lot .. :(
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
Thank goodness another problem solved.
thank u all for that but today morning i got call from her and she was happy and thanks GOD she already forgive me .
and u dont know how much happy i am now.
have nice day and good morning for all of you
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words can't break bones but they can break hearts. Better to think in advance before saying something wrong. Don't we all do it.
just to show her how much she means for you: flowers, romantic evening... But be careful,make sure that she is not just a whimsical spoiled girl and will do the same thing again and again...I even know one girl, who likes to pretend herself hurt in order to make her boyfriend feel guilty, to call more of his attention, and to get a gift from him ... so just make sure that she is not playing with you...
Ram I forgot to say, I am glad you are doing well, after that horrific accident ;-(
Cheers!
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say it all by flowers....(but be sure she doesnt have allergies with flowers okies)...:)
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
always expects that from him, that is his trademark ;-)
Cheers!
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I wonder how the responses r soooooo ready with u like that .. lol .. that was funny .. thanks for the morning smile ..
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
If she misunderstood u then it's her mistake .. it's not ur fault and u don't have to be sorry .. Love is when u can hear wut ur partener wanna say without saying a word .. she should understand u without u telling her that u didn't mean a word ..
and remember that what makes love live forever is not "to forget" BUT it's "to Forgive" ..
One more thing i would like to mention .. Love is more successful when it's only between 2 parteners .. don't shout like a baby at each trouble or she will think that u cannot hold/manage this relationship alone and u always need help from others .. Loves fail when a third party gets in .. Believe me .. we r glad to help u and it's something good to share ur moments with us .. but she is a member here and she needs to feel some privacy .. Have some privacy and try to solve ur prob. ur self if u r mature enough .. when u can't do that u can start crying here on board ..
Advice: Ladies doesn't like crying so called "men" ..
And if this is a msg for her or if u want to tell her something then u can use the PM .. have u ever heared about that .. with sweet words she will be fine .. specially if she feels the privacy and security she needs and any Lady need ..
Think about it .. don't take it as insulting .. take as advice from some one who has been through all these experiences and learned from it .. so try to learn b4 it's over .. u still have time to maintain .. i already lost everything ..
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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."
Napoleon Bonapart
and if she needs more time give her ur watch and wall clock too :D
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Give her time and space, she'll get over it.
already so just wait and give her time and space to heal!
Cheers!
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Buddy...You are backkkkkkkkk....with a banggggggggg...
Anyways...ask her to forgive you dude...its LOVE...it doesn't simply just stop...It might sometime to forgive you but eventually she Will...If she really Loves you too....
Cheers...
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Send her flower with cute card.
Take her to a romantic place and tell her what she means to you.
Dont act that you forgot about the incident meanwhile dont over react saying sorry too many times.
Surprize her with something special.
True love is treasure, dont lose it.
Good luck!
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Give her time, she might have forgiven you but maybe she still hurts and needs time to heal.
The hurt wont instantly go away.
tra la la
To Love is to reach God.
Never will a Lover's chest
feel any sorrow.
Never will a Lover's robe
be touched by mortals.
Never will a Lover's body
be found buried in the earth.
To Love is to reach God.
- Rumi
We come spinning out of nothingness, scattering stars like dust - Rumi
Time heals all wounds...
Well mosthof them anyway...
Good luck
You can't teach experience...
Listen to cher.