help...help...help

best option is i will not go to india..i will rather stay here....spend time by surfing net and writing blog on QL....QL people r more compassionate and understanding than my relatives.

Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.

100% agree with nasshan breaking relation is very easy but bulding up them again is very hard...

end of the none of the QL guy wont be there with you..you you will be the one who suffer..so be careful and polite when you talk to you inlaws...rest of them go to hell

Thanks

In the Cookies of Life, FRIENDS are the Chocolate Chips

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dear sister i am sure you have posted your comments in QL to get positive / good response from the members. If you start being negative to your relatives / in laws it wont help you the best comments is from surchit try to explain them and be nice with them being angry and raising voice wont help you the matter will get more worse day by day. Just sit alone in a room and think about it whether to be negative or positive if you spoil your relation with your family / relatives it is you who will suffer well it doest matter for others who try to tell you let your in laws go in hell or heaven

In my experiance this world is so selfish and jelous now.people always looks what wrong in you and they dig on it...they will never appreciate you for good

You know am Bald but never had any feeling of baldness but you know my freids relatives they are always worried about me more then me and my family...OOOO so young no hair?...i do say i have everything axcept hair...but think about those who dont have eyes,legs,hands,food,shelter....

Thanks god always what your and where your are....

Dont care others talk about you...be your self...have good family life...

May god bless you guys to have happy marreid life

tell your inlaws we are enjoying life..We will have kids when god decide to give...

I agree with the answer of "it is in God's well and hands, I did my part and waiting for God's hands on it"

that is my response to those who ask me.

I also tell them: "Pray for me"

If its my cousins or some one I hate who are asking I will tell them:

- Mind your own business/ or what it is for you if we had babies now or never?

- Change the subject to why aren't you married yet??

- My husband and I are happy and not ready for a baby at this point

it helps.

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she sounds as though she needs the help and really her inlaws and relations shouldn't pry into her affairs but then I come from a different culture background so maybe don't understand the problem for her too well xx

dragging morning i wud say...leave that so what else...where is this lady....making a note of the dialogue script for India...lol!!

Pople can be very cruel. I am guessing that they want you to marry someone else in order to have children. The best way is to tell them that you love your wife and that although you are trying for children, It is the Lord's will.

tell them, what they are trying to do is not helping you but demoralizing.... instead of getting you in the same subject as usual, why not just help you in praying to have kids...

Whats the matter with you today, yes you answered the lady well and gave some good advice but you are not your usual self, whaaaasssuuuup???? :)

I know how u feel sis because some people also asked me same questions...

Im married for a year now but still im still hoping!

My husband always telling me that were going to have kids in God's Time.

JUST WAIT & BELIVED...

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

adding one more...

When u take from ur inlaws...make sure ur hubby understands that u take for his sake...

let your charm evade their mind-poking judgment against your choice.... energize from now on and focus on the matters and avoid messy conversations that would lead them to discuss such personal matters about your chosen choice.

be tactful enough when to say or so and be choosy to the manner of discussions. Silence would be far better than having to mingle with non-sense discussions.

~~~ We could learn a lot from crayons; some are sharp and some are dull, some are pretty, some have weird names and all are of different colors, but they all have to learn to live in the same box.~~~

hi, take itlightly and smile back to ur in laws...

They take it on u becz of their concerns..sometimes in wrong way....forget & forgive the hard part.

whatever they say....explain them politely and give them back with ur care and love.

They will stop taking on you and also defend you for other relative's silly comments..

Take care..

Its not about being funny, thats the bottom line girl...trust me, today I just aint in a mood for fun, so that came out sincerely, you could ask all of them to go to either Hell or Heaven, now thats their CHOICE but whether or not to have kids is YOUR CHOICE Girl...GET IT!!!

Choibabu, it's sooo hard in some cultures and families to try to explain your choice to not have kids.

Just tell the nosy people it's up to God. Maybe that will shut them up.

lol ksarat...u r always funny

Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.

You know the best way to shut them up--- Tell them you guys are trying but nothings happening. Tell them u saw a doc and he said it was bad news. Tell them ur really upset abt it and talkin abt it depresses u a lot. seriously it will work.

I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown

i believe people should live their lives how they want to as long as they are not hurting others in the process. x

Rightly put yaar, its upto you how you would want to look at your life, parents, relatives etc etc etc everyone else can go to hell...simple...isnt, i mean if they are the ones you love, then they can go to HEAVEN...;)

Cheers...

the choice is yours and if you are happy with the situation just tell them there is more to life than having children, like being happy with your husband, being healthy too. If that doesn't work tell them to mind their own business!!!

start lifting weight :D

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