first kiss

aratchhb
By aratchhb

There are many things that friends do, that lovers also do. Friends and lovers both go to movies together, they both mountain bike together, they both have fun dinners together. They even often hug each other goodbye. While your relationship may slide towards lover without *too* much stress, that first kiss is usually the ´scary´ part where you cross the line from one side to the other. How do you work it?

Both of you will be nervous, so you want to make the kiss as gentle as possible. Get to the point where you hug each other goodbye anyway, so the thought of ´contact´ isn´t a scary one. Now, as part of the hug, give your friend a gentle kiss on the cheek.

This can almost be thought of as a friendly kiss, so if your friend isn´t really ready for the transition, no harm is done. However, if your friend *is* ready to take the step, now they can kiss you back, or turn their head to take the kiss on their lips, or so on. The ´door is open´ and your friend now knows that they can respond if they want!

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By lynnie• 5 Sep 2007 20:55
lynnie

smokers eeww. Nasty. Don't want to be kissing that.

By coolquietman• 5 Sep 2007 20:44
coolquietman

guys and girls ,a curous question. i dont smoke and so i used to find it extremely hard to stay pleasant when kissing an old girlfriend of mine who smoked.just couldnt stand the smell of smoke.just curious ...anyone have anything to share on that....? to women too ...do you like to kiss guys who smoke (esp if you r non smoking???)

By angel_eyes• 5 Sep 2007 17:40
Rating: 5/5
angel_eyes

You will just feel it and its best without any words spoken and the least you expect it to happen, so you dont have to think just go on with the flow ... First kiss will always be a breathtaking one...

Kissing is an important part of a relationship and I love it. But both has to have a good hygiene to enjoy it more.

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By Colt45• 5 Sep 2007 09:55
Rating: 3/5
Colt45

I think if someone is a good kisser, you kinda expect him/her to be good at the rest as well. And then again, that is always not the case.

Personally I give a lotta importance on kissing.... you can sweep a woman off her feet with the kinda kiss you give her... the rest you can rely on our good pal V to get you thru (if you can't perform i.e.) ...LOL!!!

By owen• 5 Sep 2007 09:50
owen

rayyz..c'mon...i didn't implied anything like that...ok then, i'll go with KSA's excuse..:P ..will wait for mom scarlett's return..lol

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By Gypsy• 5 Sep 2007 09:46
Rating: 2/5
Gypsy

Well the thing about the bedroom fun is it can be taught as long as both parties are willing to do the teaching. Kisses are different though, I don't think you can teach someone to be a better kisser, it's either there or it's not.

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By Colt45• 5 Sep 2007 09:42
Colt45

Umm that wud be Dr. Doolittle...:-P

By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 09:40
rayyz

What if the kisses are great with him but you get out of bed unsatisfied?

I'll always remember a very close doctor friend of mine. He said, always marry the person who you're satisfied with in the bed, cos the root of all the marriage problem begins from problems in bed. And to date, I can only agree with him.

So a bad kiss but a good sex might be more appropriate.

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By Gypsy• 5 Sep 2007 09:32
Gypsy

It's in his kiss la la la. Corny but so true, if you can't enjoy your kiss with a person the relationship is going nowhere. Nothing worse then a bad kiss.

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 09:32
rayyz

She's allergic to Indians LOL

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By ksarat16• 5 Sep 2007 09:29
ksarat16

Dont tell me after the butterfly kiss...u guys went out of each other like butterflies...

Come on why no comments on the pillow fight...o i see...u waitin for ur mom scarlett to come back and then she canlike be the referee for this match...

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By owen• 5 Sep 2007 09:20
owen

rayyz..no comment with the pillow fight..lol

ksa..really a turn off, but on the second meeting..wehehehehe..i responded already..:D

ram...you bet, my volta powers were really that high..but too much i couldn't do anything..lol (but still it turned out romantic...coz after that butterfly kiss..we were just gazing already..too much emotion, i guess..)*blush*blush*

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By anonymous• 5 Sep 2007 08:53
anonymous

ohh really .. u didn't move a muscle ... i was expecting that .. the first kiss for some ladies is like an electric shock (i didn't say volta ..lol) but after that they will be starving for a second one .. cuz they feel that they were DUMB in the first and they didn't take the chance while it was sooooooooooo close ...

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 08:52
rayyz

She'll never say yes to a pillow fight with me! :(

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By ksarat16• 5 Sep 2007 08:47
ksarat16

Rayyz...well the beer kiss act was just a start bro...

And now presenting the Rayyz-Owen Pillow fight...another method to see Asian women stiff in the bed...i wonder when r u guys to have it...

Morning dear Owen, how u doing...hows things going...well ur first kisses (the whole set of them)was indeed a thought provoking...i mean after so many u still standing there like nothing happened...such a turn-off sweetie...u gotto improve on those skills...i hope u arent like that in this age...right...

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 08:43
rayyz

Good morning baby! How are you?

I can imagine what you're saying girl. Have heard of and experienced Asian women being stiff as a doll in bed. :P

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By owen• 5 Sep 2007 08:40
owen

i stand corrected...kisses that is..but ram, technically, only first kiss on my lips, right?..:P

you will be laughing your head off, but you are right i was so plain "dumb" at that time, couldn't move or do anything..i don't even remember whether my eyes were closed nor blinking at that time..lol ...how will you response from a butterfly kiss?..:P

oh no..not anymore of those titles ram, don't give me such titles..:D :D

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 08:40
rayyz

Just a kiss after the beer? I'd go at length to describe after-beer act! :P

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By ksarat16• 5 Sep 2007 08:37
ksarat16

How even though funny yet pleasant can first kisses get buddy isnt it?

Its very rare...to see the first kiss be ur partner for life... unless the person hasnt kissed for like 1/4 th of his life (25yrs)...

Ooooo a Kiss after a long tiring day and to a mug of chilled beer shud be fantastic...

Good morning everyone...

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 08:33
rayyz

LOL. Good one.

Was pulling your leg bro! ;)

Cheers!

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By anonymous• 5 Sep 2007 08:31
anonymous

u shud write the first KISSES not the first KISS ..

u let him do all this and u were frozen .. did u return it back to him .. come on tell us .. huh ..

We should name u as "Queen of Romance in QL"

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By anonymous• 5 Sep 2007 08:28
anonymous

lol .. u misunderstood .. it wasn't a picture ..

it was a lovely palestinian classmate when i was in Grade 2 ..

we were so much friends and innocents .. once i kissed her cheek in the 5 minutes between the lessons .. then the teacher came in .. i was afraid that she might tell her .. and was nervous all the time ..

then after the lesson has finished she came to me and kissed me back saying "sorry i cannot take something from u, my mum told me don't take any thing from anyone and if someone gave u something u should return it back immediatly"

that was really charming and funny .. :)

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By owen• 5 Sep 2007 08:24
owen

hmmmm...my first kiss? was 19 yrs old..:D first he kissed my hair, then my forehead, then my nose and then the side of my lips...then my lips..a butterfly kiss there..:)

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By rayyz• 5 Sep 2007 08:17
rayyz

First time I've heard of a picture kissing back! :)

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By anonymous• 5 Sep 2007 08:07
anonymous

I still remember my first kiss .. I was just 7 yrs old .. lol .. :)

and the lovely thing is she kissed me back ..

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By Action_Unltd.• 5 Sep 2007 07:38
Action_Unltd.

Memories To Cherish...& D First Kisss Is On Top Of D List....!!!

Me & My Luv Calls It D Guilty Kiss...!!!!

Coz We Were Talking & D Next Minute We Just Kissed...!!!

Mannn...Freaked Both Of Us Out...!!!

Felt Guilty & D First Kiss Would Have Been Wasted If We Didnt Go For The Second One....So We Did & Trust Me...It Was D Most Natural Feeling Eva Possible..!!

& Further On, History Was Made...!!

Eva Been In Love From Then...3 Years & Still Going Smooth Tho I Havent Seen Her For Ova A Year...& Yup, Am Still Sincere...!!!

Beat Dat Buddies....!!!

By Colt45• 5 Sep 2007 07:26
Rating: 2/5
Colt45

Although I dun like beer anymore... :-P

By JonB• 5 Sep 2007 07:23
JonB

women are the best invention ever.....

By anonymous• 5 Sep 2007 07:15
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

I remember giving my first kiss to my 1st girlfriend I had back in 1991 in Canada (except she was a Pharmacy student from Taiwan). We were both standing alone on a beach on Centre Island when we did that. The sun was setting. She was my first love but it wasn't mutual nor long-lasting. She was interested in going much further than just kissing. I had just become Christian the previous year and was so naive. I never understood her hints so she lost interest in me and we split apart.

Men get a bad rap in being accused of being the more "lusty" of the genders. A man or a woman can have out of control hormones.

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