Can never be perfect

darling
By darling

Relationships can never be perfect.You can never force your partner to be faithful in the same way that a normal relationship should be. What's important is at the end of the day you find each other side by side and your happy knowing that he/she is yours. We need to enjoy the relationship while it's there because if you waste your time, doubts and insecurities, you'll never appreciate how wonderful it is to fall in love.

By darling• 14 Aug 2007 10:33
darling

nice words my buddy.......

By King Edshel• 14 Aug 2007 10:28
King Edshel

to hear that. Past would always be part of our life and we need it to know where are we standing now. It should not just keep hunting us or affect our relations now or in the future.

The pleasure would always be mine, thank me for nothing and thank yourself for sharing those with us.

Best Regards

By darling• 14 Aug 2007 10:23
darling

...thanks king... it was my past and the pain eased alredy.. i have moved on...and had reflection about it too.... thanks for the advice.

By King Edshel• 14 Aug 2007 10:18
Rating: 4/5
King Edshel

the right person is the only way. Guess that you want to forget about the previous relation and start looking for a new one quickly and that would always affect your choices. You might accept anything just to get over that relation and because you feel that you need to proof that it was not your fault. Just take a break of being involved in relations with others, think for a while about what happened in the previous ones. What was going wrong, try to find out what was common in most of your relations and try to come up with a conclusion and a question. Why does it always has to fail or be like that?

Don't get involved quickly with anyone, try to weight everything carefully before you decide. I'm not asking you to have doubts or fears before you even go for that relation. Just try your best to find what is the best for both of you, if you looked for the best for you only ... it will not work because you won't be able later to deal with this person problems and disadvantages later when it starts to get on the surface because you wanted from the beginning this relation to be perfect for you, so you won't be ready to deal with those issues later and feel that .. break up is the only solution.

Looking for what is best for him would also be a problem later, you will feel tired of trying to be perfect in his eyes all the time. You will reach sometimes to the point, does it worth all the pain ,efforts and my sacrifices? Why I don't get anything in return or at least feel that he admire that or appreciate it? Again you will find him in this case not perfect or good for you and you will again ... break up is the solution.

Darling, ... our lives are short ... too short to be wasted in getting involved in relations that does not work. Keep looking all the time will tire you in the end and again ... it would affect your vision and wise decisions.

Ingat Kapatid

By darling• 14 Aug 2007 10:15
darling

hey buddies??/ where are u???

By darling• 14 Aug 2007 09:58
darling

based from my experience..i may still young at age but experiences made me mature enough in facing those struggles in life,..so thats why i was able to do that write ups...i dnt know why most of the time i fall and broken hearted.....

By King Edshel• 14 Aug 2007 09:47
King Edshel

I have no idea from where do you come up with all of those Broken Heart stuff all the time :( It is really so sad, what happened to you? What is your story? Guess we would never know :(

By jassKat• 14 Aug 2007 09:44
jassKat

well said and something to think about.

tra la la

By oamonteiro• 14 Aug 2007 09:43
oamonteiro

Relationships is all about sacrifice

There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side

By Colt45• 14 Aug 2007 09:38
Rating: 4/5
Colt45

Now you're making me cry....:-(

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