Be gentle!

hallie
By hallie

Hey guys! Good morning!

If somebody extremely interested in you and just expressed his/her feelings for you, what would you say to him/her to let him/her down easy and not break his/her heart?

Have fun with this one!

By hallie• 29 May 2008 15:21
hallie

It was nice to hear all those expressions from you.

and again Be gentle!

Thank you guys.

Life is beautiful !

By King Edshel• 29 May 2008 13:59
Rating: 3/5
King Edshel

who is ignoring here is the guy ... he does not want to listen, talk or hear anything ...

Ignoring the guy is not the right thing to do especially if you have to see this guy everyday in front of you ... being an office mate, a house mate ... with those there is no way that ignorance can solve anything as you would face them whenever you will go and wherever you will be ...

So telling them from the beginning would be the first step, and based on their reaction you will think of what to do next. Some would never agree and would continue doing that.

I'm asking why would someone would force himself on a girl not unless he wants something or had something in his mind ... Love does not need to be forced, it is just a mutual attraction and acceptance from both sides ... comes naturally without forcing anything ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 12:21
Rating: 2/5
thexonic

Ksa, dont worry mate, i'll make sure he falls into mine. I'm a lion after all, but this lion needs his sleep, so I am off... mean while kitty cat, u carry on ur mumbo jumbo and defend urself from deep or kiss and make up, whatever it is thats going on between u two... carry on. I'm out of here. PEACE.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By ksarat16• 29 May 2008 12:18
Rating: 2/5
ksarat16

Nope sir, I aint in a blood bath at all...I'm just one of those Inhumane spectators...LOL!!!

Alright boys and girls, pls excuse me, I'm taking off...have a good evening and a lovely weekend...

cheers...and Hallie goodbye kisses flowing away to you honey..dont you fall into the trap of Smoke alrite...LOL!!!

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 12:16
thexonic

KSA... u dont wanna go that far lol, the second blood bath will lead to u. This looks like a QL warzone to me now.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 12:15
thexonic

lol smoke... whatever makes u sleep at night. I'll be the bigger man and spare u this one... yalla go and fetch a hair ball now lol. Dont make me pull u out of my hat instead of rabit... I mean duck... right. Oh and plz, no peeing on the street, come on even cat's r civilized now a days smokey.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By ksarat16• 29 May 2008 12:10
ksarat16

Ouchhhh, that was one helluva comment man, and it all comes to the SPIRIT OF THE THREAD to "BE GENTLE" just that its going to be GENTLE ON THE EYES!!!LOL!!!

By smoke• 29 May 2008 12:06
smoke

oh no please dont talk about first blood things u know i'm a gently kitty KAT, besides all he would have to do is sit on me...we've seen how he made the cusion and remote vanish the other day..i think xonic would make a wonderful magician's assistant..without the big slit dress and not too much cleavage please..go easy on the eyes :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 12:05
wmhizon

lol! thats the SPIRIT SMOKE! =D

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By ksarat16• 29 May 2008 12:03
ksarat16

Ouchhhh...turning guys ON..for a moment I thought he joined the club of the Executive QL Gay Bash 2008!!!

LOL!!!...Now I really would have to wait and watch how the GIRLS that you guys are talking about would have to react to this...Count Smokeula Vs Dracula Thexonic...Hmmmmm...an Interesting Tale to the First Blood Match I say...LOL!!!

By smoke• 29 May 2008 12:00
Rating: 4/5
smoke

lol well just a little misunderstanding on my part coz you two were going at it with such intense amore! Well my friend u should know better that Count Smokeula has a higher percentage rate of getting GIRLS than u have in turning guys on...and i mean that in a strictly none homo-cide way...as in turn on their temper lol

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:56
Rating: 4/5
thexonic

well u failed to let deep down, in the first place (due to pure love)... but in my case I can let him down, actually my success rate just raised to 109% lol. I was just looking out for u bro. How can i take someone u love soo much away from u. As it is u've been thru it when ducks was here :P and now this... no no no lol.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By ksarat16• 29 May 2008 11:55
Rating: 4/5
ksarat16

Here in this thread wagging its tail too much with Hallie!!!...

Hallie you know me first dont you sweetie...LOL!!!Forget the PMS just change the one letter in that, my SMS are open for discussion...LOL!!!

And Smoke, whats this that I see, you having less a chance compared to Deep or Thexonic...hmmmm...and Thexonic o you brought in the DUCKS to this talk...AWWWWWW...such a CRIME...!!!LOL!!!

Well you might as well the person, I'm sorry, Ignoring aint good to be working under pressure...Thexonic valid point man...

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:54
Rating: 2/5
wmhizon

hmmmmm.....

i smell something...

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:51
thexonic

wmhizon, r u that sensetive seriously ??? u took some crap on internet seriously. Now thats something... wow.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By smoke• 29 May 2008 11:49
smoke

lets look at things from they guys point of view for a change, say a girl proposes to you, how do u let her down gently? Hallie that was meant for you darling..my PM's always open for negotiations.

And Xonic what exactly are those stats supposed to mean..u have more chances of being successful with deep than me? well my my i'm so offended but none the less i dont swing that way hehe

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:48
wmhizon

Hey hallie whose the unlucky guy? QL member? lol!

If yes, i think he already got ur message now no need to ignore or talk to him too much ! =D

IM SURE IT REALLY HURTS!!!! =P

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:46
anonymous

Smoke - Mr. Tomato has a really fat chance than you :)

By danzell• 29 May 2008 11:44
Rating: 5/5
danzell

there's absolutely no gentle way to do this. however you say it, the person will experience rejection. the best is just to be as honest as you can, tell the truth and leave it at that. also add the old line that men hate so much "hope we can stay friends" and mean it by following it up with a call every now and then.

Good luck

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:43
Rating: 3/5
thexonic

Smokey, I got 9.732% more chances of success than u do :P hahaha... It's allrite man... U shouldn't be really worried about me. Oh wait, Ducks is not here :P

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:41
Rating: 3/5
thexonic

dipmidoff, I'm not sure who u r talking about, But if it's me I'll take it as a compliment. Prince of love sounds like a good name.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By smoke• 29 May 2008 11:41
Rating: 3/5
smoke

whats going on between u two love birds? who's trying to propose to who? Xonic are u trying to let Deep down gently..see its not working my friend lol

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:37
anonymous

and "Prince of Love: :)

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:36
anonymous

Hey all listen to Mr. "Know it All"

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:33
Rating: 2/5
thexonic

wmhizon, no wonder why u talk like that... seriously think with an open mind for once. PEACE.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:32
wmhizon

THEXONIC PEACE!!!

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:32
thexonic

Pain is pain, whichever story it is. If u can get hurt by a guy ignoring u, the guy can get hurt too. No matter what the story is.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:30
wmhizon

Thexonic (wmhizon, tell me how would u feel if a guy used u for his pleasure and ignored u after that. How low and cheap is that?) i think ur giving advised with a different topic / story already...

Hallie dont mentioned any words like she used or been used for pleasure or whatever & I dont think that ignoring ur suitors means ur already a prostitute. Right?!

As of now the guy JUST showing some intentions to her thats all...=D

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:22
thexonic

Like u said not all guys r the same. I know what kind of guys u r talking about. But even then, u can tell them that u r already taken and then if they keep doing it, igonre them.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By hallie• 29 May 2008 11:22
hallie

Oh is that so! Well I can't go to his party without learning that special language of yours.

Life is beautiful !!!

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:21
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

There are very very few Translator who understand this langauge. I think this is the 1st time anybody use this strange langauge to communicate in QL. QL 1st time ever :)

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:19
thexonic

lol intruders like "thexonic" I am sure u will say that lol. Dont worry, I have plans for tonight, I dont wanna be a party pooper.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:16
Rating: 4/5
wmhizon

WANTED TRANSLATOR... =D

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By bakamuna• 29 May 2008 11:16
bakamuna

like the one you knw who :) who come without being invited,

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:16
anonymous

Baka - Thanks for the correct translation :)

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:14
Rating: 3/5
wmhizon

thexonic not all guys are like u...

Hi Lovinni, I understand ur point but do u think its much better to ignore such guys because it only shows that he have a personality disorder! if such guy can able to harm him self what more the other people?

That guy have mental illness so better ignore & avoid him at once!

I speak based on what "I" think is right...its still depends on hallie's decision besides she the only one who knows what kind of guy is courting her now. right?!

I REST MY CASE... =D

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:14
anonymous

Intruders like .................. :)

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 11:13
Rating: 3/5
thexonic

midoff, may be u didnt... I was reacting to ur response, u could have translated what u said, but instead u asked me to go and google it... yea and about catching part, i wasn't being funny. U know what, its not even worth it, say whatever u want.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By bakamuna• 29 May 2008 11:11
bakamuna

hallie, deep is having a party tonight and wants me to come with you lolz..so he used a special language so unwanted intruders might not come :)

By hallie• 29 May 2008 11:09
hallie

hey deepmidoff and baka, translate it in English please.

Life is beautiful !!!

By bakamuna• 29 May 2008 11:07
bakamuna

booruwek...kata witharai wena kisi deyak na..mekawa ula thiyanna ona :)

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:05
anonymous

Thexonic - How do you know I talked bad about you to get at me seriously. Try very hard and catch me if you can.

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 11:03
anonymous

Bana kiyanna nam mun exterts la :)Xonic ta kiyanna booru kata waha ganna kiyala :)puttalam booruwek

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 11:01
wmhizon

Some guys even u tell them so many times to stop courting u still continuing specially if they see that u continue responding to them because they still getting ur attentions.

So its much better to ignore them from the start!

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:58
thexonic

Ok mr. "smarty pants"... dont talk sh*t about me in ur language, i will get u back for it seriously.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By bakamuna• 29 May 2008 10:58
Rating: 4/5
bakamuna

lol..wedak nathuwata me yakku mewata enney..apith gonnu wage mewata enawa lolzzz

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:56
thexonic

wmhizon, tell me how would u feel if a guy used u for his pleasure and ignored u after that. How low and cheap is that? it's exactly the same, guys have a heart too u know. Ignoring doesnt really speak anymore does it?

This thing doesnt work in my world... I'd rather take a slap from the girl, but I wont take ignorance, trust me... when this girl started ignoring me, I got her for being so low, she had to live with the status of a prostitue for a long time and no one was dating her, cuz of what she did. Basically she was a joke. Trust me, guys like me dont take ignorance really well. If someone was stalking u, then it makes sense. But if he was just being nice and polite about it and u ignore them, then that's messed up.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By lovinni• 29 May 2008 10:54
Rating: 5/5
lovinni

wmhizon, for me its better to tell him right from the start. because ignoring as what King Edshel said, it might build hopes up, and it may lead to guys frustration and probably more damage with himself if he does not know to handle it.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 10:51
anonymous

Buuru harakek. Munta kathakaranna wena subject ekak nedda?

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 10:49
anonymous

We are speeking in Pali & Sanscrith. do a google search to learn more :)

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 10:48
wmhizon

thexonic sometimes ignoring or being quite is much better than telling words... (avoiding to hurt him more)

Dont u know that " ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS"?

If somebody ignoring u despite of all the emotions/ feelings u showing to her, i think its a clear indications(as clear as the sun)that she dont have any interest at u!

and its much STUPIDITY if the guy doesnt know what that action means.

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:42
thexonic

DeepMidoff, what r u saying???

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By bakamuna• 29 May 2008 10:41
bakamuna

moda pissek :) hota nemey danne pitipasse thiyene eka lozlzz

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 10:40
anonymous

Bakamuna - TheXonic harima Bakapandithayek. Hema Detama hota Danawa :)

By fasnmD• 29 May 2008 10:40
fasnmD

tell tht person tht i ve never thought abt us

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:38
thexonic

Lovinni, then thats when u ignore. But ignoring without saying anything to them is rude.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 10:37
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

even if you do it in a nice and gentle way, it still and sure will hurt him. better do it quick and fast...

By lovinni• 29 May 2008 10:35
Rating: 5/5
lovinni

thexonic...some guys just dont back off even if you say your piece...and they keep on getting in to you. thats why ignoring them can be a solution. and they never stop till you get pissed off.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:27
thexonic

wmhizon, ignorance doesnt speak, cuz is stupid.

"There's good in everyone, sometimes people just get diverted to the wrong path"

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 10:26
Rating: 3/5
wmhizon

IGNORING speaks louder than WORDS...=p

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:20
thexonic

Thanks :).

"If we learn to look at the situations from the second person's view, things might be a different. Similarly if we stand in other person's shoe, we would be in heaven right now... " - me

By hallie• 29 May 2008 10:19
Rating: 2/5
hallie

nice one thexo!

Life is beautiful !!!

By thexonic• 29 May 2008 10:12
Rating: 5/5
thexonic

Be wise and tell him what u want. Here's the thing, don't keep him waiting in hope... cuz when the hope builds up and then u reject him, it becomes a heart break. But if u tell him from the beginning itself. He might get hurt a little but not heart broken. Better be safe than sorry.

"If we learn to look at the situations from the second person's view, things might be a different. Similarly if we stand in other person's shoe, we would be in heaven right now... " - me

By King Edshel• 29 May 2008 10:00
King Edshel

some people choose to be blind, deaf and speechless as well and continue pushing hard their luck, ... say something ... hmmm hmmm I want you ... ok, are not you listening? I told you not intersted ... hmmm hmmm, Can't heart you say it again? Man can't you see, it won't work ... hmmm hmmm I can see only you ... I don't need to see anything else ...

How can you get rid of such a bugger and save yourself? kick him in the Ba*** and run away, no need to run actually ... let him roll on the floor, that is what you got when you choose to act plainly stupid ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By irrysa• 29 May 2008 09:55
Rating: 5/5
irrysa

i hate it when this happens actually...this is so very uncomfortable then.

i would say it more or less straight that i am not interested in a relationship with that person, but most of the time, the situation is getting silly and i will just cut myself off from that person and try to avoid him at all times.

sometimes people just misunderstand u. they think u r interested in them while u r just being nice and friendly coz u want to be friends.

but guys, believe me, if the girl is really into u, THERE R NO MIXED SIGNALS! u can really tell ;o)

so, just make sure, it is not just ur imagination.

and don't be pushy and run after her...she will think u r just a lame looser.

If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.

By King Edshel• 29 May 2008 09:54
Rating: 4/5
King Edshel

Ohhh, ... Well, ... Hmmmm, ... Ehem !!!

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By hallie• 29 May 2008 09:48
Rating: 4/5
hallie

LOL Ksa & Smoke. Surely I will say yes to both of you. So common! hurry up! Express your feelings! LOL!

King edsel LOL! and what is that idea?! hmmmmnnn

Life is beautiful !!!

By lovinni• 29 May 2008 09:46
Rating: 5/5
lovinni

the usual line...lets be friends

but there are some guys who refuse to accept a NO...no matter you decline invitations all the time...IGNORE

but what to do? they are just so persistent and they never stop?!? i dont want to be rude...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By King Edshel• 29 May 2008 09:38
Rating: 4/5
King Edshel

help it but get the wrong idea from the thread title ...

I can't say anything like, I'm not intersted or buzz off ..

maybe something like ... Oh thank you, but I gotta go ... my GF is waiting for me or I'm meeting her for dinner tonight ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By smoke• 29 May 2008 09:28
Rating: 4/5
smoke

well if ksarat has already proposed to u then trust me he wont take no for an answer untill you call him BROTHER! and girl i still havent expressed my feelings for u i'm still working on it...and when i do u better say YES! unless of course u already have someone in ur life in that case i'm gonna have to get rid of him soon. muahahaha

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By ksarat16• 29 May 2008 09:24
Rating: 5/5
ksarat16

About telling me or Smoke that one alrite...you know we get very hurt...I m sure that cat of his will go into the wilderness of the desert more like leave Cul De Sac...and me, well you know how gentle at heart I am, so it will break into peices...;)

And apart from us both, if there is anyone else, just tell them you got your hands full with 2 of us already...LOL...or else, to be more serious, just tell him...chap, take it easy, but it aint just going to be happening, SORRY (well sorry does the trick most of the times...)

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 09:22
anonymous

well if you look anything like your profile picture I'm sure you have plenty of experience in turning enthusiastic men away so there's nothing else I can offer

By wmhizon• 29 May 2008 09:20
Rating: 4/5
wmhizon

JUST IGNORE HIM... SOON HE WILL BE TIRED OF U!

 

 

 

 

"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By spicemom• 29 May 2008 09:17
spicemom

ok here goes - you're a nice chap , i am flattered but sorry not interested......

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By knspet• 29 May 2008 09:15
Rating: 4/5
knspet

The easiest way is to say that you are not ready for any commitment and you want to be just friends.Ha!

By mr_rob• 29 May 2008 09:13
Rating: 5/5
mr_rob

Tell them you're gay.

"Never argue with idiots. They'll drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience."

By swissgirl39• 29 May 2008 09:05
Rating: 4/5
swissgirl39

TO BE OR NOT TO BE,THATS THE QUESTION!

he/she will be disapointed/hurted anyway.

By raindrops• 29 May 2008 09:01
raindrops

Drop a hint to get the msg across without hurting him/her

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 08:58
anonymous

we could be friend 'thou. Right TexGary?

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 08:57
anonymous

but I'm married!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

By anonymous• 29 May 2008 08:54
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Just be normal and cool.

By DaRuDe• 29 May 2008 08:52
Rating: 4/5
DaRuDe

Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzz offfffffffffffff

 

 

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