all the reasons u stated above may not be applivable at all yet the person might be prone to negative thoughts
anyway it is proven that negative thought affect our performance and breeds more and more insecurity
hence always being hopefull and "i can rectify that" attitude helps in contructive development of personality
1. first of all we should realise that:
Allah, the all merciful and most merciful does not give a person a load too heavy for him to carry:
Allah does not impose on any self any more than it can bear. For it is what it has earned; against it, what it has brought upon itself. (Surat al-Baqara, 286)
2. next it is our actions that generally determine whether we should harbour negative thoughts or not:
for doers of good there is no worry:
"But as for one who believes and acts rightly, he [or she] will receive the best of rewards, and We will issue a command, making things easy for him [or her]" (Surat al-Kahf, 88)
for doers of evil should worry and repent and then be hopeful:
But as for one who is stingy, self-satisfied, and denies the Good, We will pave his [or her] way to difficulty. One's wealth will be of no use when he [or she] plummets to the depths. Assuredly, guidance is up to Us. (Surat al-Layl, 8-12)
O you who believe(those who have sinned)! turn (in repentance) to Allah a sincere turning; May be your Lord will remove from you your evil… (Qur'an, 66: 8)
last thing even if there r things which make us think negatively
then we should remember that:
Do not despair of solace (mercy) from Allah. No one despairs of solace from Allah except for the unbelievers. (Surah Yunus, 87)
Just because others have a different opinion or a different way of looking at things then the the way you go about looking at things does not necessarily mean that they are being negative.
Rizks m B Positive but y ppl think negative its coz of mind set, they might just have taken a dislike to you. Never mind these people, get them completely out of your life.
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obviously insecurity breeds negative thoughts
all the reasons u stated above may not be applivable at all yet the person might be prone to negative thoughts
anyway it is proven that negative thought affect our performance and breeds more and more insecurity
hence always being hopefull and "i can rectify that" attitude helps in contructive development of personality
1. first of all we should realise that:
Allah, the all merciful and most merciful does not give a person a load too heavy for him to carry:
Allah does not impose on any self any more than it can bear. For it is what it has earned; against it, what it has brought upon itself. (Surat al-Baqara, 286)
2. next it is our actions that generally determine whether we should harbour negative thoughts or not:
for doers of good there is no worry:
"But as for one who believes and acts rightly, he [or she] will receive the best of rewards, and We will issue a command, making things easy for him [or her]" (Surat al-Kahf, 88)
for doers of evil should worry and repent and then be hopeful:
But as for one who is stingy, self-satisfied, and denies the Good, We will pave his [or her] way to difficulty. One's wealth will be of no use when he [or she] plummets to the depths. Assuredly, guidance is up to Us. (Surat al-Layl, 8-12)
O you who believe(those who have sinned)! turn (in repentance) to Allah a sincere turning; May be your Lord will remove from you your evil… (Qur'an, 66: 8)
last thing even if there r things which make us think negatively
then we should remember that:
Do not despair of solace (mercy) from Allah. No one despairs of solace from Allah except for the unbelievers. (Surah Yunus, 87)
Its Human Nature to think negative...
those who think positive are considered loosers...lol
Why are you thinking negative?
hito someone hitu?
you're asking why do people think negative. well why the faak do you think "negative" ? like s_isale said.
i just thought something negative because you faaking made me think so.
your forum suck, get a life.
EnVy Me, u r B + and M also B+ ...woow wat a conincident, lets have a cup of coffee toghether now...:)
why do you think people think negative? That itself is negative or not?
Just because others have a different opinion or a different way of looking at things then the the way you go about looking at things does not necessarily mean that they are being negative.
Rofl - It must be in the blood ;)
Rizks m B Positive but y ppl think negative its coz of mind set, they might just have taken a dislike to you. Never mind these people, get them completely out of your life.
It is because of PARANOIA!!!
they just feel like it...a lot of times...
may be bcoze of the following:
1- lazy to try something new
2- being pesimistic
3- fear of loosing or getting into trouble
4- close-minded
5- lack of motivation
6- aimless in life
it is becoz of the "B" positive blood group - i think ? :(
i think it's because "bad childhood".....to use better word..I'd say...Improper Upbringng'