Everything happened in a year

Mary99
By Mary99

Everything started when my mother was seriously ill and the doctor gave us the warning that Mom did not have long to live. My family nagged that I was the only girl left and they wanted me to marry in Pakistan, went down to where to go. I live abroad.

Storesøstren mine came in my room everyday and said Marry etc.
She also asked if I had someone on the heart. Time passed and I became acquainted with a boy, we had no relationship. But we were very good friends.

He showed interest in me and wanted to marry me. It's something I will too. Because I want to marry abroad, the time went. My family had problems with his kastesytem, but we liked them as people and enjoyed their family.

My mother and my sisters said it could be anything between me and him, I was silent and ceased contact with him. But we are still friends, not as much as before.

Time passed, my mother died. And I was blamed for my mother's death. I have the Maintenance heavily, because it is up to God / Allah. It is he who controls life and death.

I have no father either, I feel very lonely and abandoned, thinking ° on my parents. My user does not care about me.

I can feel guilty of mum's death. I do not have good contact with my sister anymore. I do very much for the family sacrifices a lot.

But they don `t appreciate me.

By anonymous• 3 Apr 2011 12:50
anonymous

they are all mans not ladies thwy always email me and say they have bank full of millions but cant get them,help help everytime.they all scam dont belive them....

By anonymous• 2 Apr 2011 19:17
anonymous

contact the mod and he will help you

By Mary99• 2 Apr 2011 19:14
Mary99

Who can i delete my topic?

By ghazalz• 2 Apr 2011 09:20
ghazalz

Imtiaz4u, as far as I conclude, she needs some moral support and a few friends :)

By anonymous• 2 Apr 2011 08:43
anonymous

So you only need qatar living users prayer for you :-)

By Mary99• 2 Apr 2011 01:39
Mary99

I live in Sweden. I'm not out for money ...

By Mary99• 2 Apr 2011 01:38
Mary99

I live in Sweden. I'm not out for money ...

By nomerci• 1 Apr 2011 22:29
nomerci

You can't choose your family, but you CAN choose your friends. Find some friends to support you.

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 22:28
anonymous

No body forced you to comment ...

Some people are commenting here without reading...

By ghazalz• 1 Apr 2011 22:28
ghazalz

I need some domestic help...vacuuming really bothers me

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 22:26
anonymous

Don't let anyone put you down.

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 22:25
anonymous

you can do that yourself ;-)or you can keep a maid

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 22:06
anonymous

why not. iam ready to help any one "WHO ACTUALLY NEED HELP". mujhe kabar mein apne paise lekhar nahi jana hai, mujhe uska sahi istimaal karna chahiye.

english : money is not going to come to my grave.

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 21:31
anonymous

imtiaz

i'm deep in financial crisis, will U shift ur gestures on my side? ;)

By ghazalz• 1 Apr 2011 20:54
ghazalz

Some people are commenting here without reading...

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 20:23
anonymous

She is a pakistani lady settled in norway

By britexpat• 1 Apr 2011 20:14
britexpat

Do people actually read the posts ?

She's a student in norway.

By .sun26872• 1 Apr 2011 19:57
.sun26872

Don't feel sorry for yourself. This is life. Noone gets everything. If you are keen for having a family, find a man otherwise concentrate on your career.But life without a man in a poor country could be very challenging.

By britexpat• 1 Apr 2011 19:49
britexpat

She is confused and asking for help.

By ghazalz• 1 Apr 2011 19:45
ghazalz

and they are blaming You for her death...

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 19:36
anonymous

am soo sad to hear ur story....trust in Allah and have faith in him my sis....pls be strong sis...am there 4 u anytime

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 19:29
anonymous

So you want some of qatar living user to marry you.Or to give you some money.

By ReninGeorge• 1 Apr 2011 18:51
ReninGeorge

Tats a pretty sad story but u will be alrit i am sure :)

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 18:27
anonymous

Is there anything i can help you financially and that is the only thing i can help. for rest iam really sorry. I can only say be strong like rani ki jhansi

By Mary99• 1 Apr 2011 18:24
Mary99

I just want to say that, when her mother or their father is about to die. Do not say anything to them in front of others, because after their siblings can use things against them.

By Mary99• 1 Apr 2011 18:23
Mary99

Thanks! My father died 2 years ago, my mother died recently. My family does not look up to me. I earn my own money, go to school and are small there. But for it so they do not like me.

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 18:23
anonymous

Iam so sorry. How can we qatar living users help you.

By Mary99• 1 Apr 2011 18:21
Mary99

My story is true buddy!

By britexpat• 1 Apr 2011 18:07
britexpat

I am sorry to read your post. Losing one's parents is not easy. They are usually the "hub" around which the family revolves.

You should not feel guilty , nor allow your family to put pressure on you.

You are your own person. Life and death is in God's hand. you were not responsible for your mother's death.

It is time to say enough. Don't let the family put you down or use you.

Make some female friends first and slowly move on with your life.

Good luck!

By anonymous• 1 Apr 2011 18:05
anonymous

Iam really sorry to say but i find your story like the junk emails i get in my gmail or i should consider it an APRIL FOOL

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