Need Advice on this matter...
By aero_babe_01 •
Guys I need your opinion...
What would you do if you found out 1 week before you get married that your fiancee cheat on you...i mean if he had another girlfriend? Would you still marry him or break up?
yes aero, as King Edshel said here you will find the one that would truly love you, the one that deserves you. Goodluck
hey but that girl could be just a friend try to find out more with a open mind before taking any drastic steps
thats the spirit! i know it hurts a lot, just cry over it in a few days...well maybe mourn...but life has to go on...
as they say things happen for a reason...you are not destined together..im sure, there is a far more better man that will come in your life, especially if you have a good heart....
but from now on be extra careful with men....
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
Never feel bad about doing something that you were supposed to do ...
It is not too late and there would always be another chances and a guy hidden there somewhere who would truly love you and appreciate you and the love that you would both had ...
Cheers for having the courage to take such a decision ...
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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
well kudos to you for such a brave decision. The two-timers have to be taught a lesson
I feel a lot better now...thanx again to all of u!
You're ryt Mila its not yet the end of the world and his not worth dying for...
I will not waste my time spending with that kind of person! I've learn now that people will come and go, that you could not and should not expect them to stay forever....forever is too strong a word....that no amount of preparation and planning, no amount of perspiration and perseverance will keep things from going away, from going the wrong direction......simply because there are things which are beyond our control.
I can never trust someone completely....
It's now or never
Coz i aint gonna live forever
I just wanna live while I'm alive
more or less...
hey, hey... don't jump on me.. just a sight from the "opposit side of the street"...
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This Too Shall Pass.....
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Why would you leave Qatar for good just because of this man, you have a future in front of you and most probably a job and social circles - so why give it up.
It might be difficult in the beginning but life goes on and better you know before than after.
What doesn't kill us makes us tough.
good to know...just whenever you need someone to communicate with..we are here...first stage will kind of tough...but just set your objectives and try not to be sentimental...else you'll get weaken and not be firm of what you have decided on..
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i know its sound scary but we always forget that this is not the end of the world.
sorry aero_babe, i didn't mean to scare you. just take it as positive support okay.. take care
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
Mila "today is not the day you die" lol stop scaring the poor girl...u sound like u were gonna kill her if she stayed with that guy.
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
yes we all proud of you. please do not afraid take any major decision when it comes to your own happiness. who will fight for us if not ourselves???
go gal.. grab another apportunity, you still young and you still have a loooooooooooooooonnnnnggggggggg way to go. just keep smiling and remember today is not the day you die.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
aero_babe_01 good to hear that you have finally reached to a desicion....
good luck to you! wish you all the best!
Thanx for all your advices it means a lot...I break up with him last night, i think there is no reason to stay with him because he did that to me two times already. Before I forgive and forget what he did but now I cant forgive him...its enough...
I'm thinking of living Qatar for good, maybe thats the best way to forget him easily...
Thanx to all of you...
You look to young to get married anyway! no ones advice can really help you! Do what you think is the best thing to do just avoid regrets.
It's great 2 b loved!
areo babe
It must be a hard place you're in right now. May I say without offence that I am happy I am not in your shoes and no one can understand fully how you feel. Hope these postings above help you........but you must live with your decision. Its easy to say to leave him, as I would say too, but obviously you have confronted him, heard his words, seen his actions, before and after, that is what you need to judge him on. People have been through similar to this and survived as a couple...others cannot and haven't.
I hope you can see the situation without rose coloured glasses and listen to both your heart and head and decide on what is best for you. I wish you all the best.......for you and your future.
I may be blonde but I am wise
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If you go on that marriage , after that and he do it again, then will that be the time to separate? And if you wil have kid then you wanted to serparate, what will happen? Now is the time to quit! Not later, not after, or else never and you will suffer forever!!!]
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."
I'm pretty sure that you are so excited to get married soon and having your wedding after a week does not mean that one of your obligations is to marry this guy. If he is not ready for commitment and want to marry you and keep playing behind your back, then what can be than a good reason for you than that to break up with him?
I don't want to see you later thinking of where can he be if he would be late, or what is he doing now because he is not answering your calls. Living your life with doubts is not the right way to settle down, you might be lucky to find out that he was cheating on you before you marry him. God loves you and of course he did not let you know about that to let you end up something before it even starts for no reason.
Sister, you are still on the safe side ... once you ride that boat and became in the middle of the sea it would be really difficult to swim back to the shore because you would be in the middle of that sea and will find it really so hard to do something.
Trust me ... someone who would be cheating on you while you two are just one week from getting married does not deserve you.
May god help you choosing the right path to walk and live your life.
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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
How many times have the ladies heard that one?
Ditch him!
I was married 25 years, when I took a look at my wife one day and said,
"Honey, 25 years ago we had a cheap apartment, a cheap car, slept on a sofa bed and watched a 10-inch black and white TV, but I got to sleep every night with a hot 25-year-old blonde.
"Now we have a nice house, nice car, big bed and plasma screen TV, but I'm sleeping with a 50-year-old woman. It seems to me that you are not holding up your side of things."
My wife is a very reasonable woman.
She told me to go out and find a hot 25-year-old blonde, and she would make sure that I would once again be living in a cheap apartment, driving a cheap car, sleeping on a sofa bed and watching a 10-inch black and white TV."
Aren't older women great? They really know how to solve your mid life crisis.
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"loves you more than the other girl"
----> c'mon lady? ok we understand that you are being sentimental, but what kind of reasoning is that for you to accept him again????? ...loves you more than the other girl? ....should be ONLY YOU (and i hope you do get the meaning of ONLY) if he really wants to marry you...
sorry girl, but i feel disappointed at you for letting these guys think that they can get away with this scot free...
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Kick him to the kerb. How can you ever trust him again. You were fine before you met him. You'll be fine again.
Have some backbone and raise your standards.
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Love is the answer...
and leave him...!
Did you try to talk to him about this. If you still want to go ahead with the marriage, at least delay it by 3-6 months.
I don't know...he said that he loves me more than the other girl...but it really hurts so bad...i don't know if i still take the risk to marry him...I feel so stupid...
If there is one there is two, ,,stop there, don't marry.. find another. He is not the only guy on earth.
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."
hell???...break up with him the instance...what? you want to spend the rest of your life tied up with an unfaithful partner?.... unfaithful with valid reason (is there any????) or not...still is not acceptable to continue a good relationship...
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yeah call it off before is too late and do more damage to you. But try to find the reason why he done it to give you peace of mind.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
break up bc once a cheater always a cheater,marraige stand upon on a faithfullness so be care full ,we'll only gave the advise but you 'll do the right thing with wisdom.
run the other way and dont look back...
try to fix things before getting married, if it doesn't work then it's time to take seperate path !!
Call it off, its not worth being with him.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
for me break up, he did it to you once and ur not even married yet, he will do it to you again, once a cheater always a cheater,
That's just my opinion though....
never like cheaters...