It really does grow with time, the more you experience and overcome in your life, and the more you get to know yourself the more you know how to make yourself happy. A lot of it is also learning that you don't need everyone to like you, that it's perfectly alright to cut the bad people or bad things out of your life, the people or things who don't make you feel good about yourself.
"I am not a pretty girl, that is not what I do, I ain't no damsel in distress and I don't need to be rescued. So put me down punk, I'm not a maiden fair, maybe there's a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere." Ani Difranco
i know as what owen said that it should begin with me... but advices from others gave me enlightenment... sometimes when we are not in ourselves we see all the things around us negatively... there are times that we are tough and there are times that we loses hope and confidence... I read a book and it says that if the strategy that you are using in your life is not working anymore you need to find a new ways in running your life... and we can get the answers through advices. We have different battles in life different responses on how we are dealing to these situations. We have different points of view how we see life... and having a good conversation with others give us the feeling of realization that what we are doing is wrong and we need to take action to have changes... Thank you for all your advices...
Never afraid to try something new and if its failed just remember that today is not the day you die and for sure is not the end of the world. so boast up your energy and go get the world.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
You lost confidence in yourself, because reality sit in and hurt more for what you bargain for. Emotions are treacherous and sometimes very uncontrollable, specially when it comes to your own feelings being hurt. The best medicine is too move on with your life and objectives. Take it, as a lesson of life! The Red Pope of Qatar LivingBut as Muhammad Ali once said, 'It's not bragging, if you can back it up'."
that if you want something to happen, repeat it to yourself, or better write it several times on the paper...there are also some special trainings..
at some point I used to work with the psychologist, it was a great experience.. that's why I am convinced that everyone CAN develop self-confidence and other features as he/she needs... shane, i will try to search some materials and trainings on line, and will let you know...You also can serf the net for this matter...
Grows with time and the more you trust yourself to overcome difficulties then the more self confidence you win.
Books and helpful suggestion are good but in actual fact your own life experience gives you confidence - it is about not being afraid to tackle situations- the more you do the better you get at it.
Another thing which is reality, no matter what age you are there are always situations we all need to overcome and don't have self confidence to do it, but always manage.
You are young and according to your profile you already need a great deal of confidence in that field - how do you manage in your job if you lack confidence.
Owen and shaneYou could start to build your confidence by visiting My Confession Booth! The Red Pope of Qatar LivingBut as Muhammad Ali once said, 'It's not bragging, if you can back it up'."
try to repeat this over and over ...."i can do this, if they can do it..surely i can...i believe in myself....God will not let me do things like this if HE knows that i cant...surely I can" ...honestly, it has to begin within you before you take advises from someone else....
lol...i'm still inspired by mila.....
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i had the same problem....feel sumtime that short of confidence...cannot express myself...talk to myself "if had done this would be better"
thanks owe...will try your way of bossting myself belief....
It really does grow with time, the more you experience and overcome in your life, and the more you get to know yourself the more you know how to make yourself happy. A lot of it is also learning that you don't need everyone to like you, that it's perfectly alright to cut the bad people or bad things out of your life, the people or things who don't make you feel good about yourself.
"I am not a pretty girl, that is not what I do, I ain't no damsel in distress and I don't need to be rescued. So put me down punk, I'm not a maiden fair, maybe there's a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere." Ani Difranco
thank you grand master RP...thank you...but hey, its not me whose in need of coaching bout self confidence here...
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
i know as what owen said that it should begin with me... but advices from others gave me enlightenment... sometimes when we are not in ourselves we see all the things around us negatively... there are times that we are tough and there are times that we loses hope and confidence... I read a book and it says that if the strategy that you are using in your life is not working anymore you need to find a new ways in running your life... and we can get the answers through advices. We have different battles in life different responses on how we are dealing to these situations. We have different points of view how we see life... and having a good conversation with others give us the feeling of realization that what we are doing is wrong and we need to take action to have changes... Thank you for all your advices...
Buy 1 kg of Self Confidence from LuLu Hypermart :)
Never afraid to try something new and if its failed just remember that today is not the day you die and for sure is not the end of the world. so boast up your energy and go get the world.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
You lost confidence in yourself, because reality sit in and hurt more for what you bargain for. Emotions are treacherous and sometimes very uncontrollable, specially when it comes to your own feelings being hurt. The best medicine is too move on with your life and objectives. Take it, as a lesson of life! The Red Pope of Qatar LivingBut as Muhammad Ali once said, 'It's not bragging, if you can back it up'."
that if you want something to happen, repeat it to yourself, or better write it several times on the paper...there are also some special trainings..
at some point I used to work with the psychologist, it was a great experience.. that's why I am convinced that everyone CAN develop self-confidence and other features as he/she needs... shane, i will try to search some materials and trainings on line, and will let you know...You also can serf the net for this matter...
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This Too Shall Pass.....
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yes CG...sometimes it has to be mind power...it does work....
RP, i lost self confidence when i went to your confession booth...did you know that i went counselling after that???....
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Grows with time and the more you trust yourself to overcome difficulties then the more self confidence you win.
Books and helpful suggestion are good but in actual fact your own life experience gives you confidence - it is about not being afraid to tackle situations- the more you do the better you get at it.
Another thing which is reality, no matter what age you are there are always situations we all need to overcome and don't have self confidence to do it, but always manage.
You are young and according to your profile you already need a great deal of confidence in that field - how do you manage in your job if you lack confidence.
Owen and shaneYou could start to build your confidence by visiting My Confession Booth! The Red Pope of Qatar LivingBut as Muhammad Ali once said, 'It's not bragging, if you can back it up'."
visit nearest orphanage or poor ppl or family. Spend some of yr valuable time with them.
owen...I like yours; I used to have this similar words printed and placed it on my bedroom wall...: )
try to repeat this over and over ...."i can do this, if they can do it..surely i can...i believe in myself....God will not let me do things like this if HE knows that i cant...surely I can" ...honestly, it has to begin within you before you take advises from someone else....
lol...i'm still inspired by mila.....
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.