It is evident that you are still young to the Middle East and have not faced the bitterness of getting thrown of a job just because you are not a Keralite or a Filipino. Both communities run on a Mafia-style when it comes to jobs or supporting their own people blindly. As for the natural beauty of Kerala, there are many other places in the world where nature has shown its colours and you just need to open your eyes a bit wider to see them. With regards to wearing of gold by women, Kerala is not the only place in India where women feel safe while wearing gold. There are many places in the world where women are safer in every way more than in Kerala. Saudi Arabia and Qatar are two lovely examples of such places.