I wish I could speak freely here but I can't.. I wish I could sit you down and talk some sense into you! Whatever you once had is tainted now and things will NEVER be the same. THe fact that he can do this especially while you have been facing your own hardships just makes me want to kick him in the balls for you! We, as women need to stand up to this crap! The more we let them get away with it, the more they think they can have their cake and eat it! He has done this before, he is doing it now and no doubt he will do it again in the future! Please please wake up.. he will tell you and her and whoever else what he wants you to hear. You can start again. you deserve to be with a MAN not someone who will play around liek this. Whether she has 3 or 30 kids from another man it irrellivant. HE CHEATED ON YOU. That's enough for you to cut him off. You have to love and respect yourself as he clearly doesn't. If he is trying to save himself from financial ruin then that means he's now using YOU no? LEt him rot in jail here, why are you sparing him? You might say you still love him but he doesn't respect you for that does he or he wouldn't keep screwing around! How many others have their been that you don't even know about! Please wake up and show this man that you don't need and won't accept his crap anymore!
I wish I could speak freely here but I can't.. I wish I could sit you down and talk some sense into you! Whatever you once had is tainted now and things will NEVER be the same. THe fact that he can do this especially while you have been facing your own hardships just makes me want to kick him in the balls for you! We, as women need to stand up to this crap! The more we let them get away with it, the more they think they can have their cake and eat it! He has done this before, he is doing it now and no doubt he will do it again in the future! Please please wake up.. he will tell you and her and whoever else what he wants you to hear. You can start again. you deserve to be with a MAN not someone who will play around liek this. Whether she has 3 or 30 kids from another man it irrellivant. HE CHEATED ON YOU. That's enough for you to cut him off. You have to love and respect yourself as he clearly doesn't. If he is trying to save himself from financial ruin then that means he's now using YOU no? LEt him rot in jail here, why are you sparing him? You might say you still love him but he doesn't respect you for that does he or he wouldn't keep screwing around! How many others have their been that you don't even know about! Please wake up and show this man that you don't need and won't accept his crap anymore!