What if parent care more about themselves than for their children?
What if parents select a partner for their offspring based on what THEY, the parents, can gain?
OR...if parents select a partner for their child many, many years her senior...who then hurts and maybe kills the child?
What if the parents select the future path, as in job, for the child, based on what THEY, the parents can get out of it?
What if the child refuses them, and is shunned, in the worst case killed?

What then?