Strom, you can have mine if you want, I have had three in the last hour. They're not even active QLers.

Smoke: the best PM I ever had was from a guy who saw a comment I had made about "I love a dominant man telling me what to do" (obviously in jest) but he sent me an email, pretty graphic asking me if I would be interested - I'm sure he had just read Fifty Shades....