I drive a new lexus 350 full options.

You are looking for expensive cars but second hand why? U never know what happens next. With the same money buy a new one say Toyota Prado etc. Few have already advised you, i dont think you are looking for quality but just a big brand. You may get respect from people oh! she has a nice car, but at the end of the day u r going to pay for the maintenance and quite often too.