That is why you should not marry, unless you are sure that in case of anything you can take care of yourselve and your kids. Education, education, and one more time education!!! Work! Bank account. Preferably a small property on your name. And than - husband. Marriage agreement. You can not trust no one in this life. It is good to relay on God to led you and show you the way, but you have to secure your own back yard in case if God will send you such a playfull hudband, who can not keep his little willy in the base. Wemen shoud stop thinking that once they got married - they are protected and financialy supported. Anything can happen.