Love..... The thing is that after certain years in marrige love changes colors and shape. And this is normal- ask any expert)))) after 10 -15 years in marrige people love each other in a different way. They love each other coz they understand each other, respect, and support. Well, with sex on the weekends)))) And if husband, who suppose to understand and respect me, and share common values and family traditions, cheats on me - what for i need such man in my life^??? Ones a cheater - you know... if man wants to f.. around - let him. But he should know -there is no way to come back and "fix"the things. and stupid these wemen who take cheaters back, saying - i want my children to have father. F... such father! Women has to respect herself, and show to children that she wont let anybody wipe their dirty feet on her!