nomerci...can a passing thought that happened 18 years back be considered as directed thought(s) more so when none whosoever stayed connected with this child remembered it until reminded at a time much later than that incident actually happenend.

Further, since the case I stated refers to a child who was of 2 years when something about him was spoken and which later on was also never told to him, how does the saying "you are what you think" fit in this equation... because obviously the child wasn't thinking about it as was (and is) oblivious to it.