Straight Arrow,
One answer for both of your questions: live and let others live. Don’t assume that the world is as you see it. You have spent too much time with one book only. Go out, open your mind and see the world. You have too much garbage in your mind that is blocking you to enjoy this life, here and now. (don’t say after that you were not told so).
Forget your doctrine, for a while. You may be surprised by your enlightenment!

I am sorry to disappoint you but there are light years between you and me which makes our communication almost impossible.
I am so sorry that you are stuck in a tiny box but on the other hand I am so happy that you are far from representing the average Qatari, who have generally moved away from your tiny box, a generation or two ago.
When I said that I feel sorry for you, I really meant it!