For the skeptics or less experienced in democratic systems:
It’s not so much about "democracy" as such, but it’s about ensuring the freedom to grow and exist as an individual and to have full rights and opportunities to actively participate in his/hers society and the way it’s governed.

now, don’t call it democracy if the expression bothers you as its used by those who you dislike, call it what you want, as long as it ensures the above basic and fundamental human rights.