Um, I'm pretty sure there's only 1 really important factor regarding whether or not a man rapes a woman.

And that is - did the man rape the woman?

It doesn't matter what she was wearing, doing, saying...

It takes a RAPIST to rape someone. Period.

It is inexcusable and indefensible to blame, in part or in whole, anyone other than the rapist.

If I had a daughter who dressed like a slut, or a son who raped one, it would be the son who would never, ever be welcome in my home again.