Honestly i feel you don`t need these kind of people in your life they don`t deserve being with you.i had a friend who used to say i will visit you at such a time ,so i stay home i prepare some snacks and wait for her ,time pass and she never called to postopne the visit or cancel it or even appologise later on for not dropping by .it`s rude and irresponsible. i tried to find time for her and she doesn`t deserve it.now i don`t give a damn second to even think about her .if she finds me home or no it doesn`t matter for me as well.
I hope you get some good quality people who has manners and share ssame interstes as yours,good luck.