Pilgram:
but what happend here, the fathers not used the term step.....they really2 replacing the first wife....and put them under one roof.......

and u said its not imiportant wht the kids gain??? balllll..........if kids cant rely to their parents to take care of them....who else??? beside i mention erlier, that the kids hv no place since they all are live under one roof........if the father can ignore her mother, for sure the kids voice is nothing