FathimaH
i didnt know this become ur favourite topics.
when its really i wrote this forum under ADVICE AND HELP SECTION (wish i can bold and underline this word)..........not judgmental section. unlike some ppl who is busy to judge others compare to give a solution....
well........dont start related this to religion cos it will b long thread. if i can ask, how many ppl in this world ...REALLY REALLY follow what ALLAH said???? like EVERY single rules stated in the holy book??? im just guessing ppl not gona use this rules if they see or they get or gain nothing out of it.......
for myself, as a daughter,....sure dont want someonelse to replace my mum and as a female species dont want to share the guy that i loved with someone else.......its normal...its in every woman gene....
even tough its established in sunnah, but for this matter still i cant foloow it.
elhamdallah, fatimah i wish u all the best in marriage life, together till the end of time....
but wht the kids will gain by their father marrying someone who is younger like age of 20 or 22 or 25 yrs old of age....where i think the kids can call them as their big sister compare to their mum...
and what will you do, if they not divorce or one of them is pass away? ur father still have ur mum next to him.......will you act the same?
and wht ur answer will b if ur husband want to take another wife (god forbid this happend)like around ur own daughter age??? sure u hope this will never happen....so whts the different between u and other mother who is the first wife??? sure every wife want to b the first and the last.....not a spare...
FathimaH
i didnt know this become ur favourite topics.
when its really i wrote this forum under ADVICE AND HELP SECTION (wish i can bold and underline this word)..........not judgmental section. unlike some ppl who is busy to judge others compare to give a solution....
well........dont start related this to religion cos it will b long thread. if i can ask, how many ppl in this world ...REALLY REALLY follow what ALLAH said???? like EVERY single rules stated in the holy book??? im just guessing ppl not gona use this rules if they see or they get or gain nothing out of it.......
for myself, as a daughter,....sure dont want someonelse to replace my mum and as a female species dont want to share the guy that i loved with someone else.......its normal...its in every woman gene....
even tough its established in sunnah, but for this matter still i cant foloow it.
elhamdallah, fatimah i wish u all the best in marriage life, together till the end of time....
but wht the kids will gain by their father marrying someone who is younger like age of 20 or 22 or 25 yrs old of age....where i think the kids can call them as their big sister compare to their mum...
and what will you do, if they not divorce or one of them is pass away? ur father still have ur mum next to him.......will you act the same?
and wht ur answer will b if ur husband want to take another wife (god forbid this happend)like around ur own daughter age??? sure u hope this will never happen....so whts the different between u and other mother who is the first wife??? sure every wife want to b the first and the last.....not a spare...